Work has a new intern. She was talking about one of the bass heads we have thats smaller, and she was saying she liked it cuz she doesnt have to carry around a big amp. I told her I just use a multieffect pedal di into a pa and dont use amps and it blew her mind. She wanted to know what that sounds like so I told her to come to my bands practice saturday lol.
Alright I sent one follow up: "hey you should come over and play Mega Man X and Super Metroid with me", because we talked about her coming over to play them at the con.
If she doesnt respond, In dropping her. Im not going to get all annoying and keep sending texts hoping she changes her mind.
>ask her to come chill at a thing another time (not open ended. Specific day, like play games next Fri or let's go to a show on Sat.
>if she's busy again come right out and directly ask if she is really busy or just not interested.
I initially sent back "No worries. If you want to later this week, let me know." To leave it open and in her court. If she didnt want to, Id say "fuck it" and move on
Wait what is going on here? MC leaves MU for a few days,... comes back,.. and is now interested in connecting with a female?
What life altering event happens to you?
Read a few pages back.
Tldr: I got drunk at an anime con for 4 days, made out with a chick after a rave, hit it off with her the next day, had a lot in common, she ghosted me, come to find out she may have cucked me with a chick
>ask her to come chill at a thing another time (not open ended. Specific day, like play games next Fri or let's go to a show on Sat.
>if she's busy again come right out and directly ask if she is really busy or just not interested.
I initially sent back "No worries. If you want to later this week, let me know." To leave it open and in her court. If she didnt want to, Id say "fuck it" and move on
I can add "Im free friday" and try your technique
Do it.
We are trying to set something solid up, not leave it at a "someday, if you feel like hitting me up" whim.
Admitedly, I have been an emotional mess the last few days. I may be bipolar. Ive spent the last 5 or so years repressing all of my emotions until I was left an emotionless, apathetic husk of who I used to be. After this weekend, all the emotions Ive been repressing came flooding back all at once. Ive gone from happy and hopeful, to depressed and melancholie, to angry and bitter, to happy again, continuously with no discernable reason. Its been overwhelming. I actually broke down crying yesterday. And its not because Im really that sad over this girl, but because I actually feel human again, and I cant handle it sometimes.
Its been since February of 2012, nearly 6 years since Ive been on a date/kissed a girl. Its been since the summer of 2014 since I last hung out with a girl and felt any kind of romantic attraction to a girl. Then this weekend happens and within an hour of meeting a girl I find out she shares a lot of my interests right down to my favorite movie and video game, and we make out and exchange numbers. Its something I didnt ever thing Id feel again.
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If she doesnt respond, In dropping her. Im not going to get all annoying and keep sending texts hoping she changes her mind.
She is either legit busy, or not interested.
>ask her to come chill at a thing another time (not open ended. Specific day, like play games next Fri or let's go to a show on Sat.
>if she's busy again come right out and directly ask if she is really busy or just not interested.
I can add "Im free friday" and try your technique
Tldr: I got drunk at an anime con for 4 days, made out with a chick after a rave, hit it off with her the next day, had a lot in common, she ghosted me, come to find out she may have cucked me with a chick
T h i n n smol girls >
Do it.
We are trying to set something solid up, not leave it at a "someday, if you feel like hitting me up" whim.
Its been since February of 2012, nearly 6 years since Ive been on a date/kissed a girl. Its been since the summer of 2014 since I last hung out with a girl and felt any kind of romantic attraction to a girl. Then this weekend happens and within an hour of meeting a girl I find out she shares a lot of my interests right down to my favorite movie and video game, and we make out and exchange numbers. Its something I didnt ever thing Id feel again.