Pretty sure I read here that love is fake, relationships are not real, something something brain chemicals. And since there is absolutely no fucking way that perhaps you simply lack confidence in your self and perspective on the subject and this is all solid fact with studies to back it up, yet somehow everyday I wake up a loving wife and happy family, then it would appear that I have achieved the impossible.
What people usually associate with "romantic love" is actually the release and addiction of hormonal chemicals being released in the body that the brain associates with "love". What you feel is not an emotion. But an addiction to hormones. Thus you associate a certain person with "love" because those hormones are released when you are around them.
It doesn't matter if you ever listen to me. You'll continue down your path of bullshit, and I'll continue down mine.
I don't believe in romantic love. No matter what you say, I've made a choice not to date again, and never to have sex. So I could give a shit if you don't believe me. This thread was for me to figure shit out. And I've figured it out. Or at least what works and makes sense for me.
What people usually associate with "romantic love" is actually the release and addiction of hormonal chemicals being released in the body that the brain associates with "love". What you feel is not an emotion. But an addiction to hormones. Thus you associate a certain person with "love" because those hormones are released when you are around them.
Oh look, more flawed logic. By your way of thinking, no emotion is real because brain hormones. Being happy or sad isn't real, it's just dopamine levels. Life isn't even real because everything we perceive to be real is just electric impulses firing synapses in the brain giving the illusion of life.
It's like saying your face isn't real because it's made of skin cells, fat cells, muscle cells and bone cells, and those cells are just carbon branches strung together to make what seems to be a solid punchable structure.
You wanna talk about your views when you want to..but when someone else starta a conversation about your views you wonder why it's being brought up. I mean, if you didn't wanna talk about this shit why did you ever say anything in the first place?
I've noticed over the years when people are losing an argument , debate, or point then they tend to just say things like "forget it" or " drop it" .. Basically those are code words for I have nothing to counter your valid points
You wanna talk about your views when you want to..but when someone else starta a conversation about your views you wonder why it's being brought up. I mean, if you didn't wanna talk about this shit why did you ever say anything in the first place?
I've noticed over the years when people are losing an argument , debate, or point then they tend to just say things like "forget it" or " drop it" .. Basically those are code words for I have nothing to counter your valid points
I'm open to discussion. I don't feel like I'm losing. But we get literally nowhere with every conversation. We've had these conversations before. Nobody's mind is changed. I'm just sick of having them. They're a waste of time.
I've posted articles and pointed out your ass backwards contradictory, status-quo system following bullshit logic before - but you still think I'm crazy and illogical.
So fuck it. If its not going to go anywhere. If you will never even understand where I'm coming from, why continue these conversations?
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What people usually associate with "romantic love" is actually the release and addiction of hormonal chemicals being released in the body that the brain associates with "love". What you feel is not an emotion. But an addiction to hormones. Thus you associate a certain person with "love" because those hormones are released when you are around them.
Its similar to the love you feel for a parent or sibling or child.
I don't believe in romantic love. No matter what you say, I've made a choice not to date again, and never to have sex. So I could give a shit if you don't believe me. This thread was for me to figure shit out. And I've figured it out. Or at least what works and makes sense for me.
Why do you care though? I didnt even bring it up this time.
I've posted articles and pointed out your ass backwards contradictory, status-quo system following bullshit logic before - but you still think I'm crazy and illogical.
So fuck it. If its not going to go anywhere. If you will never even understand where I'm coming from, why continue these conversations?