i just don't get why someone would lie to me for soooo long...like we told each other goodnight every night...i called her baby all the time and she said she wanted me to....and to top it all off...she saw how i love kids and kept telling me that (her brothers is about to have a kid any day now shes gonna pop) she wanted me to be a part of his kids life and all this shit...why say all that for so long if its all a lie?
Some people just don't care about the other person. She seems to me like one of those people that jump from person to person for their benefit, and it's bullshit. I'm sorry you had to go through something like that
Some people just don't care about the other person. She seems to me like one of those people that jump from person to person for their benefit, and it's bullshit. I'm sorry you had to go through something like that
Yup.....some people don't understand how badly they hurt people with the shit they pull. It's incredibly reckless and those type of people aren't worth your time frankly.
like iv been hurt before you know thats w/e...but iv never had a mix of emotions so big like this...like idk its just crazy....i can't even explain how i feel....i just feel like puking lol
I don't want to come off being mean or anything so please try not to take it that way.
You can't meet and chick ,go out,take her on dates ,spend your money and talk on the phone all of the time and not get any action. When you do all of those things you're just a "friend" at that point and they can walk all over you.
You're a nice guy Rex and you'll meet a chick that won't use you.
i did get action bro...i mean we didn't see each other the last month cause what she made me believe we lived apart (its a 30 min drive) and worked different shift....but she definitely cheated on him....and she didn't just consider me a friend
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So how was the husband towards you? Was he like pretty cool with you since she is the one that totally fucked you both over? What is he going to do now? Did he say?
I just have a really difficult time seeing how this is even possible. If my wife isnt going to be spending the night at home, like there must be a huge reason why. And if my wife was doing it often which I get the impression she was with you.... How could the husband be so blind???
I totally get how you can get doped. You were just her Boyfriend and there are only so many questions you can ask without sounding like some obsessive prick. But when you are married, like that sort of privacy is just given up. it just seems so weird that this could happen to you.
Did she ever say "don't call me at night" or anything like that? How can she explain to her husband all the late night calls she was making. weird!
So how was the husband towards you? Was he like pretty cool with you since she is the one that totally fucked you both over? What is he going to do now? Did he say?
I just have a really difficult time seeing how this is even possible. If my wife isnt going to be spending the night at home, like there must be a huge reason why. And if my wife was doing it often which I get the impression she was with you.... How could the husband be so blind???
I totally get how you can get doped. You were just her Boyfriend and there are only so many questions you can ask without sounding like some obsessive prick. But when you are married, like that sort of privacy is just given up. it just seems so weird that this could happen to you.
Did she ever say "don't call me at night" or anything like that? How can she explain to her husband all the late night calls she was making. weird!
idk they had been split up...but he said they got back together in febuary...a month before we met...and yeah he was cool he said i didn't know and that she lied to both of us...he said shes always on her phone...and yeah we texted all the time...told each other good night every night...called each other pet names and what not
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
unbelievable. I hope he divorces her ass and uses you as a character witness to her lying (assuming you are cool with that). She should have told you at least, and let you decide if you wanted to cheat with a married woman.
yeah that part is fucked up...i had no idea...i can't imagine how he feels....he said she is just going to lie to him about it...and he thanked me for telling him the truth...he said we both deserved to know...he seemed like a cool guy
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You can't meet and chick ,go out,take her on dates ,spend your money and talk on the phone all of the time and not get any action. When you do all of those things you're just a "friend" at that point and they can walk all over you.
You're a nice guy Rex and you'll meet a chick that won't use you.
I just have a really difficult time seeing how this is even possible. If my wife isnt going to be spending the night at home, like there must be a huge reason why. And if my wife was doing it often which I get the impression she was with you.... How could the husband be so blind???
I totally get how you can get doped. You were just her Boyfriend and there are only so many questions you can ask without sounding like some obsessive prick. But when you are married, like that sort of privacy is just given up. it just seems so weird that this could happen to you.
Did she ever say "don't call me at night" or anything like that? How can she explain to her husband all the late night calls she was making. weird!
idk they had been split up...but he said they got back together in febuary...a month before we met...and yeah he was cool he said i didn't know and that she lied to both of us...he said shes always on her phone...and yeah we texted all the time...told each other good night every night...called each other pet names and what not
man i really wish i wasn't out of weed right now...i can't sleep have been up forever