but wake, how can you say a relationship isnt rock solid when its not your own? i fully know me and alex have a longLONG time to get through and well have shit to deal with but with the great communication we have, i believe we can get through what we have to however, there are two things i wont ever stand for that are just not going to get a compromise; cheating and abuse other than those two things, we can work it out right now at this moment, yes, we are rock solid.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
You and I both believe you can't prevent your heart from loving who it's going to love. However you can make your heart forget by moving on because time does heal those wounds. And moving on is not living in the same house with the person you love, only to be reminded every day how much it hurts not being with them.
Just like you never thought you'd never be with anyone else after that 6 year relationship, you are now in the same place again after Marc. I've been there. I know how liberating it is to believe you just wont leap again. But I don't believe you have any say in preventing who your heart loves. You'll tell yourself "I wont get hurt again, im not going to love this man", but you'll end of doing it anyways. Who knows, maybe the next one will actually be someone who is worth your love.
But really Leah... you gotta move out and move on with your life. there is no healing until you can stop the hurt from happening.
I kinda knew that I would get with someone else after I got out of that relationship, idk why but did. You actually just made it sound like I settled for Marc haha. And no I won't leap again because I don't care to. I've only fallen in love twice and got my heart broke about 4 times, no more.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
Sometimes I think men and women arent really meant to mate for their lifetime. I almost feel like this forced lifetime mate ritual has been brought down upon us by religion and society... and that really it is against human nature.
Sometimes I think men and women arent really meant to mate for their lifetime. I almost feel like this forced lifetime mate ritual has been brought down upon us by religion and society... and that really it is against human nature.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
edited March 2012
Sometimes I dont think that though because of Jealously. I'm fairly convinced that jealously is a natural thing that occurs with us humans. So if we aren't meant to mate for a lifetime, then why do we get so jealous when some other buck comes sniffing around our doe?
But with most humans, the females don't want other females sniffing around their man. So usually the multiple girls thing doesn't work out so well like in other species
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i fully know me and alex have a longLONG time to get through and well have shit to deal with but with the great communication we have, i believe we can get through what we have to
however, there are two things i wont ever stand for that are just not going to get a compromise; cheating and abuse
other than those two things, we can work it out
right now at this moment, yes, we are rock solid.
Just like you never thought you'd never be with anyone else after that 6 year relationship, you are now in the same place again after Marc. I've been there. I know how liberating it is to believe you just wont leap again. But I don't believe you have any say in preventing who your heart loves. You'll tell yourself "I wont get hurt again, im not going to love this man", but you'll end of doing it anyways. Who knows, maybe the next one will actually be someone who is worth your love.
But really Leah... you gotta move out and move on with your life. there is no healing until you can stop the hurt from happening.
I may need this thread soon...