Thats not what I mean. Sure, she's your friend. Sure, you guys talk. But you dont REALLY know her. I'm talking on a deep level. Something just happens when people date. They act certain ways or do things in front of you that they dont do in front of other people. They tell you things from their past or share opinions and thoughts with you that they've never told to anyone else. Sometimes things happen like death or other traumatic events happen while you are together, and you'll see them convey their raw emotions and grief toward you and only you.
if she got into a year long serious relationship with a dude tomorrow, he'd know her better as a person than you did in your 8 years of friendship. Fact.
Obviously. That doesn't change the fact that I do know a lot about her. Even deep stuff. We talk. I know about past stalkers and relationships. Been with her when her grandmother and dog died. Sure, it may not be as deep as if we were in a romantic relationship, but I wouldn't put down how well we know eachother.
Obviously. That doesn't change the fact that I do know a lot about her. Even deep stuff. We talk. I know about past stalkers and relationships. Been with her when her grandmother and dog died. Sure, it may not be as deep as if we were in a romantic relationship, but I wouldn't put down how well we know eachother.
Dude its not about knowing any specific facts or being there for any specific thing. Girls just act differently in front of friends than someone they are in love with. I'm not saying they are fake or anything, they just let go of any bullshit social standards that we as humans put ourselves through and just be themselves.
Dude, the idea of a "soul mate" is some story book shit. Isn't it also kinda interesting how your "perfect girl" just so happens to live relatively close to you? You have only lived in a couple parts of the country. Odds are there are plenty of other girls that you would get along with as well if not better than this one chick you keep mentioning. It may not be a huge percentage, but there are others out there. Plus, like Slap said, the whole love thing you keep talking about whether she likes you back or not is getting kinda weird. Stahp.
I'm sorry..but just because you're truly in love with someone and they don't feel the same way about you does not mean love doesn't exist. You can fall in love with more than one person in your lifetime, it's not that hard to wrap your head around. But I'm certain, MC, that you're compressing yourself too much. Which is why you have the views on love/relationships the way you do. Smoke some weed..maybe it'll change your outlook on some shit, idk. But as everyone has stated before..your mentality isn't a healthy one
MC with all the slut shaming you do, aren't you disgusted by the fact that she talked about getting drunk and naked in front of a guy she isn't dating? Strong slut qualities :-?
Whatever. You guys wont get it... I truly do not agree with you, but whatever. Ive accepted being single. Ive removed myself from the game entirely with no intention of rejoining. I'll just continue to white knight for my friend and expect nothing in return, because that is what I feel is right.
MC with all the slut shaming you do, aren't you disgusted by the fact that she talked about getting drunk and naked in front of a guy she isn't dating? Strong slut qualities :-?
Yea, I am a little actually. I appreciate she hasnt done that and is at least worried about that outcome. But that does discomfort me. If that situation was honestly about to happen, Id try and stop her. Especially if it was in front of me.
I am pissed at myself too, for allowing myself to get puke drunk. I need to regain my strict self control.
If that situation was honestly about to happen, Id try and stop her. Especially if it was in front of me.
I thought you were her friend, not her dad.
If she was about to strip in front of me because she was drunk, and I allowed it to happen, I would be taking advantage of her. That is the alcohol acting, not her own volition. I will not take part in taking advantage of somebody while they are intoxicated.
As a friend, I think its ok to take her back and go "hey, really think about what you are doing. Is this what you really want?" Looking out for your friends' best interest is what it means to be a friend.
As a friend, I think its ok to take her back and go "hey, really think about what you are doing. Is this what you really want?" Looking out for your friends' best interest is what it means to be a friend.
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if she got into a year long serious relationship with a dude tomorrow, he'd know her better as a person than you did in your 8 years of friendship. Fact.
I'd throw friends you've lived with on that list but its not for sure
Again doesn't change what I've said.
I am pissed at myself too, for allowing myself to get puke drunk. I need to regain my strict self control.
Are you fucking serious?