I've had more shit happen to me through different lengthy relationships, friendships, etc than you have and I've got a better head on my shoulders than you do. I wonder why that is :-?
I've had more shit happen to me through different lengthy relationships, friendships, etc than you have and I've got a better head on my shoulders than you do. I wonder why that is :-?
you're ignorant as fuck doe. I am one of the most emotional, empathetic people i know. Pretty much all my friends have seen me cry. When im around someone who is angry i can feel it. When im around someone who is happy i feed off of it. You're just delusional and obviously have some sort of issues you have blocked out and haven't dealt with.
You say you were in an adult relationship yes? Then answer these questions..
what at did you do to make the other person feel special? Aka more than just being nice what actions did you do to let her really know you liked her? Would you try and touch her/ hold hands/ hand on her leg etc often? how many deep convos did you guys have that went further than relative interests? what cool places did you take her too that no one else would have? Did you try to meet her family and get to know them? did you tell her often how much she really means to you? what spontaneous things did you do to make the relationship exciting?
my guess is the answer to those questions are prob no
You say you were in an adult relationship yes? Then answer these questions..
what at did you do to make the other person feel special? Aka more than just being nice what actions did you do to let her really know you liked her? Would you try and touch her/ hold hands/ hand on her leg etc often? how many deep convos did you guys have that went further than relative interests? what cool places did you take her too that no one else would have? Did you try to meet her family and get to know them? did you tell her often how much she really means to you? what spontaneous things did you do to make the relationship exciting?
my guess is the answer to those questions are prob no
I bought them shit and took them out. And told them how much they meant to me.
Ive held their hands and kissed them.
My first girlfriend was an idiot, so deep convo was impossible with her. The second I would have good convo, but nothing specific comes to mind
No where. I dont even know cool places to go to myself.
I met both of their families. Had dinner with them, etc. I made it a point to know their families.
I told them how much they meant to me all the time. First girl, I told her I loved her everyday. Second girl I never told her I loved her (didnt want to after my first one ended badly), but I made it a point to tell her how attractive she was. Plus Im kind of the paragraph of doom emotional diherea texts.
Again, nothing because I never do anything spontaneous ever.
you're ignorant as fuck doe. I am one of the most emotional, empathetic people i know. Pretty much all my friends have seen me cry. When im around someone who is angry i can feel it. When im around someone who is happy i feed off of it. You're just delusional and obviously have some sort of issues you have blocked out and haven't dealt with.
Yea my issues are being used, rejected, dumped by, and ignored by women.
Kissing them good night n shot isn't the same as like a passionate spontaneous kiss. You prob were just too tentative and too boring honestly.. Girls like when guys take control and aren't predictable.. That plus the texts of doom are friend zone shit entirely
It's not your fault you were just scared and a pussy.. I was too .. You are wayy to comfortable dude, you never seem to want to leave that comfort zone and chicks can sense that in a guy and hate that shit.. They want exciting and passionate .. That girl was a selfish cunt but I honestly don't really blame her for friend zoning you.. You were acting like a friend
Dude, people are going to use you, reject you, and ignore you your whole life. Its not just women. Thats just how people are. its not just women. thats what your teens and early 20's are for. To figure out how to weed those people out.
if you lose your next level of megaman are you going to quit for good because you are not good enough for the game?
Telling someone how much they mean to you everyday is not a good strategy, for anyone. It makes it seem like you're saying that shit to keep them around because you're not confident in yourself or the relationship you're in enough for it to hold together otherwise. It can also get annoying and cause the other person to get sick of hearing it and eventually get sick of you. Stuff like that is good to say occasionally depending on what's going on (emotions askew such as depression or lack of self confidence, reassurance because of those or another reason, special occasion such as an anniversary, etc). Same goes for paragraphs of feels. It's no good
Funny how mc can criticize others short comings so well but can't realistically look at himself
:-|
Im most critical of myself. I hate myself. Where do you get that I dont realistically look at myself? Ive been saying since the start im a bad boyfriend, and am no good with girls.
I dont need you assholes kicking me when im down throwing all my downfalls in my face. Im fully aware of how much of a loser I am. Thanks.
You're seeing whatever you want to in the posts we make. Because you hate yourself, think you're unworthy, etc whatever we say you're going to view it as negative then have more of a pity party for your own self. That's not wtf we are trying to do here. I've and other have pointed out so much shit you have askew and wrong so maybe you'd wake the fuck up and realize it yourself...so you can work on it and make yourself a better person. Not for others, but for you. You come first in your life until something amazing changes that fact. But nothing amazing will ever happen unless you work on yourself and your flaws. You have literally let two small relationships that together lasted less than two years dictate how you view yourself and has put dampers on future possible relationships. Not to mention the fear you let overwhelm you. We aren't throwing anything in your face here. But if that's how you want to take it, there's nothing any of us can do about it
Nah when describing you and mcfuck it was always her fault.. Your not a loser dude, you just have short comings.. Shirt comings that you don't work on cuz your lazy. You honestly think other people just naturally are amazing at that shit? They work on it.. You need to stop focusing on the world is shit and focusing more on ways to improve your personal short comings
You honestly need to find friends that'll help push you.. Your friends are prob part of the problem itself..my friends are getting lazy as fuck and are not improving themselves at all.. I've noticed over the last year or two.. And guess what they are starting to get bitter mean and negative all the time.. It's prob time for a friend change for me and surround myself with people who want more out of life
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Maybe its because Im actually affected by my emotions, and Im not some stupid horny emotionless fuck.
this shit is too fucking easy
you're ignorant as fuck doe. I am one of the most emotional, empathetic people i know. Pretty much all my friends have seen me cry. When im around someone who is angry i can feel it. When im around someone who is happy i feed off of it. You're just delusional and obviously have some sort of issues you have blocked out and haven't dealt with.
what at did you do to make the other person feel special? Aka more than just being nice
what actions did you do to let her really know you liked her?
Would you try and touch her/ hold hands/ hand on her leg etc often?
how many deep convos did you guys have that went further than relative interests?
what cool places did you take her too that no one else would have?
Did you try to meet her family and get to know them?
did you tell her often how much she really means to you?
what spontaneous things did you do to make the relationship exciting?
my guess is the answer to those questions are prob no
Ive held their hands and kissed them.
My first girlfriend was an idiot, so deep convo was impossible with her. The second I would have good convo, but nothing specific comes to mind
No where. I dont even know cool places to go to myself.
I met both of their families. Had dinner with them, etc. I made it a point to know their families.
I told them how much they meant to me all the time. First girl, I told her I loved her everyday. Second girl I never told her I loved her (didnt want to after my first one ended badly), but I made it a point to tell her how attractive she was. Plus Im kind of the paragraph of doom emotional diherea texts.
Again, nothing because I never do anything spontaneous ever.
Two "nos" to all your questions.
if you lose your next level of megaman are you going to quit for good because you are not good enough for the game?
Im most critical of myself. I hate myself. Where do you get that I dont realistically look at myself? Ive been saying since the start im a bad boyfriend, and am no good with girls.
I dont need you assholes kicking me when im down throwing all my downfalls in my face. Im fully aware of how much of a loser I am. Thanks.
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