Girls don't want independent or whatever.. They want a guy who has his shit together so that if they decide to be with them it would enhance there selfish lives
I don't think you can say they are selfish because they are women. I think its either a person is selfish or they are not. I don't gender as having any factor. Id personally rather be with a chick that has their shit together and isn't bat shit crazy lol.
Guys are the same way, it's just that I don't date guys lol if I did I'd prob have the same complaints .. Women don't want men with their shit together because they make better people, they want them because they can provide them with a better life aka security, better things, take them awesome places, etc.. They are just looking out for their best interest without any regard of anyone else and I'm sorry that's bullshit.. Like mc said why should I give a fuck about someone going through life only caring about themselves?
Ya that statement is pretty bullshit and honestly pretty offensive.. My entire life I have given girls the benefit of the doubt, I never go into any relationships holding any grudges or holding anything against the new person that the old person did shitty.. I always have had the best intentions and provided what girls "say" they are looking for in a man.. Honesty loyalty sense of humor compassion etc.. The only thing I don't have is that bullshit fake confidence that isn't evens real genuine quality but a facade guys create in order to get girls.. The only bullshit holding a decent guy from a long term relationships is garbage societal norms and expectations that girls eat up with a fucking spoon
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I was curious- Do you guys think girls that are into metal are in general more slutty, less slutty, or nether? Im not going anywhere, just wondering what you think.
Im finding though that girls in general are huge sluts. They talk it down, make it seem like men are pigs. Then their off jumping bones.
Whereas men talk a big game, saying they want to fuck sluts, but deep down are broken when a girl leaves them for more bone hopping.
5 relationships I have seen in the last year. 4 in the last week. The girl leaves the guy cuz she wants to fuck around. And I dont know many people in relationships.
I didnt really have a definition in mind. When I was at MDF this girl started chatting me up before bloodbath. It was odd cause I wasnt looking to chat. Anyways Ive kinda been wondering since.
Oh..so because I'm a female and I cheated when I was a stupid, immature teenager I'm unfit for such a thing? Nah. I grew. I paid attention to not only myself but others around me. I learned from my mistakes. I also learned from some of my friends mistakes they came to me for guidance about. I've become wiser the last 6 or so years. I didn't damn men because I was cheated on numerous times, lied to, fucked over, etc in my past. Why? What's the point of whining and complaining? You realize those people aren't worth your effort, emotion, and so on. And if they're worth your efforts, stfu and stop whining. Grow a pair. You are the only one that knows you best anyway. And news flash...if you don't love youself you aren't gonna be able to do much of anything with someone else.
MC, you've been hooked on one girl probably because she gave you a certain kind of attention you wanted/desired. After a while it didn't work and you let her use you. You complained because the fact she said she didn't want to be with you but gave you attention fucked with your extremely fragile head. But the fact is, you didn't stop it for the longest time because you wanted her to give you that attention. Even if it meant mental torture and extreme dislike towards girls and how "selfish, slutty, cunts, bitches" and w/e else they are. She proved her character with how she responded to you. It proved you really didn't know her that well. It also showed a bit about you. You don't love yourself, you are plagued with negative emotions and outlooks. This doesn't help you out in the slightest. You tortured yourself and blamed it on her to fill a void you can't fill yourself because you don't know how to. Through everone else's mcfuck fail stories, ya'll can band together and whine/complain about wtf girls are doin these days. Cool....whatver makes you guys feel better about yourselves.
No one likes a negative nancy either, they're buzzkills. Maybe some of you need to focus on your damn selves first and foremost before wanting a relationship. Because it seems to me most of you are searching to settle down. Stop searching, it's pointless. Live your life, focus on you, have fun, love yourself if you don't already, and eventually something will happen for you. But hardly any dude ever listens to me when I say this. Which is why one of my friends is still getting sluts when he has a 3-4 year old with a crazy slut ex. Then he complains and wonders where all the good girls are. Bitches don't listen
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
Here is the chick who was chatting me up... she's got the nose piercing in the middle of the Bloodbath and Dying Fetus shits. who knows what band she is into though... obviously bloodbath cause she was waiting on the rail with me.
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But if you're going metal chick looking for metal dudes, probably more because there is so many more dudes than girls. Same with nerd culture chicks.
Whereas men talk a big game, saying they want to fuck sluts, but deep down are broken when a girl leaves them for more bone hopping.
5 relationships I have seen in the last year. 4 in the last week. The girl leaves the guy cuz she wants to fuck around. And I dont know many people in relationships.
MC, you've been hooked on one girl probably because she gave you a certain kind of attention you wanted/desired. After a while it didn't work and you let her use you. You complained because the fact she said she didn't want to be with you but gave you attention fucked with your extremely fragile head. But the fact is, you didn't stop it for the longest time because you wanted her to give you that attention. Even if it meant mental torture and extreme dislike towards girls and how "selfish, slutty, cunts, bitches" and w/e else they are. She proved her character with how she responded to you. It proved you really didn't know her that well. It also showed a bit about you. You don't love yourself, you are plagued with negative emotions and outlooks. This doesn't help you out in the slightest. You tortured yourself and blamed it on her to fill a void you can't fill yourself because you don't know how to. Through everone else's mcfuck fail stories, ya'll can band together and whine/complain about wtf girls are doin these days. Cool....whatver makes you guys feel better about yourselves.
No one likes a negative nancy either, they're buzzkills. Maybe some of you need to focus on your damn selves first and foremost before wanting a relationship. Because it seems to me most of you are searching to settle down. Stop searching, it's pointless. Live your life, focus on you, have fun, love yourself if you don't already, and eventually something will happen for you. But hardly any dude ever listens to me when I say this. Which is why one of my friends is still getting sluts when he has a 3-4 year old with a crazy slut ex. Then he complains and wonders where all the good girls are. Bitches don't listen