seriously though. You if you can't get over her why not actually go after her, and im not talking about asking her out. When a girl knows you want her shes isn't interested. Stop answering her texts everytime she texts you. Tell her you're busy when she asks to hang out sometimes, but don't tell her exactly what you're doing. You need to be mysterious.
Start avoiding her and even being a dick if you have to. I'm not saying push her away, but you can't let her use you and walk all over you either. Then again, you seem to enjoy being a doormat
1. I DOnt want to lose her as a friend 2. If I start to ignore her and shit I worry it'd push her further away or something 3. I feel like she might kinda like me and thats why she keeps me around her finger 4. I wont find another girl to hang out with me 5. No other girl makes me feel like she does. I mean I always think about her. Even if she is using me, its better than having no girl.
Thats what Im faced with right now. Be used and maybe get back with her some day. Or never find a girl and die alone. There is no other option
So what am I to do? Stop being friends with her? At least now I see her and spend time with her.
Again its better than never being with a girl ever. Even if she never feels the same way about me, at least shes happy. Thats all that matters. Im insignificant.
Either way I lose. Either way Im sad and depressed. Either in friendzoned, or I have no girl to talk to. But either way Im not going to get a happy ending. And either way I still like a girl who doesnt like me in return.
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2. If I start to ignore her and shit I worry it'd push her further away or something
3. I feel like she might kinda like me and thats why she keeps me around her finger
4. I wont find another girl to hang out with me
5. No other girl makes me feel like she does. I mean I always think about her. Even if she is using me, its better than having no girl.
Thats what Im faced with right now. Be used and maybe get back with her some day. Or never find a girl and die alone. There is no other option
Again its better than never being with a girl ever. Even if she never feels the same way about me, at least shes happy. Thats all that matters. Im insignificant.
Only one option lets me be with her
Like that I want to be with her, and this kinda behavior sends mixed signals and confuses me and sends me into fits of depression and self loathing.
I like her cuddling me. But only if shes gonna commit.