That's like saying you want to be in a band like Tool, but since you might fail/won't be good enough you're just not gonna try at all. Which is fucking ridiculous by itself
I want to be happy. I dont want to be rejected/dumped again. I dont need a second girl McFucking me. One is enough.
She didn't Mcfuck you, you mcfucked yourself.
Whoever McFucked who, I dont want to fall for another girl and not have her reciprocate the same feelings. I dont want to put more effort into a relationship than the girl will. I dont want to feel more rejected and worthless than I already do.
Is it better to focus on your strenghts or weaknesses? Answer: your strengths.
I am not good at the whole boyfriend/dating thing. I am a much better friend. This becomes more apparent every day. Especially with this girl.
Youre not supposed to skip leg day and curl weights 8 days a week because "that's your strength" You don't avoid your weak areas, you focus on strengthening them to be a complete person.
Let's be honest. You're content to be sad and miserable your whole life because you won't do shit to make it better. You don't wanna grow, you don't want to develop, you want everything to stay the same even though it sucks because you don't want to put the work in. In your mind it's ok to not try because it's somehow better in your mind to stay depressed and not try than it is to put effort into something and have it not work out.
And what happens when she finally just gets with someone else? You really think she'll choose to hang out with you over a boyfriend?
She might once or twice at first, but that will change before too long.
She'll still hangout, yea. When we were dating she still hungout with her other guy friends.
And if she doesnt, she doesnt. But at least then I only have 1 girl I like not talking to me, instead of multiple. And either way I'll be at 0 to talk with.
Having one girl I like that I talk to and hang with is better than having one that wont talk to or hang with me.
Not if the bitch uses you like a door mat. Have some self respect, stand up for yourself and stop being her emotional tampon. Your scared to do anything because you don't want to lose what you don't really have.
Having one girl I like that I talk to and hang with is better than having one that wont talk to or hang with me.
Not if the bitch uses you like a door mat. Have some self respect, stand up for yourself and stop being her emotional tampon. Your scared to do anything because you don't want to lose what you don't really have.
There is literally everything else to do, if you make the choice.
You choose to not make a move. You choose to call her. You choose to answer when she calls. You choose to let her lead you on when she drinks. You choose to give her your time and attention. You choose to make her feelings more important than your own. You choose to repress your own feelings. You choose to let he make you feel inadequate. You choose to be miserable. You choose to lose.
I want to be happy. I dont want to be rejected/dumped again. I dont need a second girl McFucking me. One is enough.
She didn't Mcfuck you, you mcfucked yourself.
Whoever McFucked who, I dont want to fall for another girl and not have her reciprocate the same feelings. I dont want to put more effort into a relationship than the girl will. I dont want to feel more rejected and worthless than
You say you fell for her, yet you only saw each other and hung out rarely. You never really kissed with emotion or passion, probably held hands a few times. That's the equivalent of a flirtatious friendship that happens in middle school. If you really fell for her you would want to be around her every chance possible, share everything with her (thoughts/opinions/views/experiences/etc), miss her every time she isn't around, wouldn't want to live w/o her or even imagine such a thing, etc etc.
I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't fall for her at all and just think you did. Which means you have severely McFucked yourself. At the same time not putting much effort into it and lack of really trying added to your own McFuckery
Is it better to focus on your strenghts or weaknesses? Answer: your strengths.
I am not good at the whole boyfriend/dating thing. I am a much better friend. This becomes more apparent every day. Especially with this girl.
So therefore, since my strength is in friendship - I should focus on being the best friend that I can be. Not focusing on becoming somebody's boyfriend, which Im not good at.
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Don't be scared homie.
She might once or twice at first, but that will change before too long.
And if she doesnt, she doesnt. But at least then I only have 1 girl I like not talking to me, instead of multiple. And either way I'll be at 0 to talk with.
You choose to not make a move.
You choose to call her.
You choose to answer when she calls.
You choose to let her lead you on when she drinks.
You choose to give her your time and attention.
You choose to make her feelings more important than your own.
You choose to repress your own feelings.
You choose to let he make you feel inadequate.
You choose to be miserable.
You choose to lose.
Make a different choice.
Don't be scared homie.
I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't fall for her at all and just think you did. Which means you have severely McFucked yourself. At the same time not putting much effort into it and lack of really trying added to your own McFuckery