new breakup story....it happened today. i know i dont know any of you very well since i dont post much but i need to vent i guess. my and my girlfriend broke up today after 13 months. she was my first girlfriend other than like the dumb ones in 6th and 8th grade. she was the first one i said the L-word to so she means a lot to me. we had the best times of my life together. i had struggled with depression and suicidal ideations before i met her and she like instantly cured them. now they are coming back. the last couple months she hung out with her friends and team alot so we kind of drifted apart. and we both had a feeling it would end soon. but now that its officially over its weird. i dont really have real friends and can hang out with all the time. i know this sounds like dumb kids in love but we were planning to stay together for a long time. i graduate college next year so i was planning on living at school for an extra 2 years until she graduated too so we didnt have to do the long distance thing. idk what to feel now. obviously sad. and mad, depressed, hopeless, im never going to find another girl like her again. or how long ill feel this way. it sucks hardcore dude.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
sorry bro.
My best advice is to look for the future... Take the best job you can, and really dive into the work. Do your own thing, and get out and pick up some hobbies. Like- maybe now is a good time to take a guitar class at the community college that you keep wanting to do (this is just an idea - i dont know you). Maybe it's time to get into Brazilian jujitsu? I dont know... get out there man and dont look for love. it'll happen when you just arent expecting it.
I have a good method for getting over a broken heart... interested?
new breakup story....it happened today. i know i dont know any of you very well since i dont post much but i need to vent i guess. my and my girlfriend broke up today after 13 months. she was my first girlfriend other than like the dumb ones in 6th and 8th grade. she was the first one i said the L-word to so she means a lot to me. we had the best times of my life together. i had struggled with depression and suicidal ideations before i met her and she like instantly cured them. now they are coming back. the last couple months she hung out with her friends and team alot so we kind of drifted apart. and we both had a feeling it would end soon. but now that its officially over its weird. i dont really have real friends and can hang out with all the time. i know this sounds like dumb kids in love but we were planning to stay together for a long time. i graduate college next year so i was planning on living at school for an extra 2 years until she graduated too so we didnt have to do the long distance thing. idk what to feel now. obviously sad. and mad, depressed, hopeless, im never going to find another girl like her again. or how long ill feel this way. it sucks hardcore dude.
JUST REMEMBER YOU COME KICKING AND SCREAMING INTO THIS WORLD ALONE AND YOU'LL DIE IN THE SAME FASHION SO DON'T PUT TO MUCH EMPHASIS ON OTHERS FEELINGS DO WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD AND FOR GODS SAKE TRY AND GET YOUR DICK WET AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
i did play drums in HS. and i was pretty psyched to get into it again after college.and i also wanted to pic up guitar or bass or something just never had the time. i like puzzles, just like figuring out how stuff works and how/why things happen. like Dr. House if anyone watches that
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
edited March 2011
I actually kyped the method from Fred Durst of all people, but hear me out.. You know "Nookie"? Basically if you listen to the song what happened is he was madly in love with this chick and she cheated on him with his best friend. Anyways he was devastated, and so he started telling himself and his friends "he did it all for the nookie". I dont care about that bitch, I was only with her for the sex. what a slut.
Basically devalue everything you had with her, internally and vocally.... saying it enough will kind of fool you into believing it is true. Discredit everything you had with her because it hurts now. And since time does heal, when you are over the chick then you can remember what you once had and not discredit it. But for now, while the pain is still real?? Fuck that bitch, you did it all for the nookie.
I'm being serious. Durst is a total douche and his songs suck... but this method of dealing with a broken heart is gold!
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We're here for you, brah \m/
relationships are tough, and suck
just look to the light
Listen to some metal and stay on the forums!
My best advice is to look for the future... Take the best job you can, and really dive into the work. Do your own thing, and get out and pick up some hobbies. Like- maybe now is a good time to take a guitar class at the community college that you keep wanting to do (this is just an idea - i dont know you). Maybe it's time to get into Brazilian jujitsu? I dont know... get out there man and dont look for love. it'll happen when you just arent expecting it.
I have a good method for getting over a broken heart... interested?
JUST REMEMBER YOU COME KICKING AND SCREAMING INTO THIS WORLD ALONE AND YOU'LL DIE IN THE SAME FASHION
SO DON'T PUT TO MUCH EMPHASIS ON OTHERS FEELINGS DO WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD
AND FOR GODS SAKE TRY AND GET YOUR DICK WET AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
i am interested in that method lol
edit: hahaha GULCH
Smoke weed.
Basically devalue everything you had with her, internally and vocally.... saying it enough will kind of fool you into believing it is true. Discredit everything you had with her because it hurts now. And since time does heal, when you are over the chick then you can remember what you once had and not discredit it. But for now, while the pain is still real?? Fuck that bitch, you did it all for the nookie.
I'm being serious. Durst is a total douche and his songs suck... but this method of dealing with a broken heart is gold!