they taught you all this bullshit. Everything you know about relationships came from them. They ARE TO BLAME.
You can say what you want about me. Call me insane and diluted. Call me unintelligent. Call me whatever. Say I dont understand anything, or that I'm a loser and a failure.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I'm not attacking your family. I am being honest in my appraisal of your mental psyche. One that didn't just come from thin air- no it was through years and years of conditioning by your parents. And the only reason it pisses you off is because you know I'm right. You know deep down they are to blame for this bullshit. You want to take credit because you think it's honorable or some bullshit like that... But the sooner you embrace the great injustices they did to you, and as soon as you tell them "fuck you for what you did to me", the sooner you can start the healing process.
Embrace it man. They are to blame.... 100%. Don't protect those assholes anymore. Not after what they did to you. They don't deserve it anymore... Let it go
I formed my beliefs. 100% me. I was raised Christian (by my mother) in a middle class home with parents who never divorced. How could I blame them? If I followed what my parents raised me thinking, I'd go on dates. I'd have a girlfriend. I'd want to start a family of my own.
But I don't. That's entirely on me. I've spoken with my mother about my views. She doesn't understand them at all.
I will not blame my parents, because the only person I have to blame for my life is myself. I'm not some faggot that passes it off. I am the ruler of myself. My views come from observing my parents, but equally observing the relationships of my peers, and the relationships of those I see online and in the media. Not just my parents.
I literally have no resentment towards my parents. 0. I don't blame them for a thing. They are not contributory towards my nihilism, cynicism, or misanthropy.
What you gon do? A weeaboo is so threatening. Your parents failed for raisin such a mentally retarded piece of shit.
So how much of a failure is your mom then? You don't go to school. You barely work. You're a bedroom musician with no friends. You're in the same boat as me love-life wise, you just chose to use and abuse women for your own perverted sexual pleasure, treating them as objects. You're much more of failure than I am. Is that your mom's fault too? Or are you willing to admit you're just a sack of piss and meat?
Again wit the no friends shit when I guarantee I have more than you lmao. And it's not usin and abusin when you playin the exact same game they do. Not that you would know much about the game.
This conversation was hilarious to read. The reason MC has his fucked up views on relationships/marraige is because of three things. His parents, the people around him irl (other family members, friends, friends of family and friends), and the media. Why you'd let media twist your view of anything like it has with MC is beyond me.
And you want to know why some people don't work at their relationship anymore or never have? Miscommunication or lack or communication at all is a big factor. You've passed that "honeymoon" phase in the beginning where you couldn't keep your hands off each other. You let that change fuck with your head instead of accepting it's normal. Trust issues that stem from past relationships (romantic and/or non-romantic) which cause massive issues you either discuss (chances are you don't) or bottle up until it explodes. Your eyes wonder but instead of just looking and acknowledging, "hey, that person is cute/attractive", you have a burning desire to act upon it. Which causes you to fantasize having sex with that person instead of your significant other during sex.
Every relationship would last a lifetime if both people put effort in and worked at it. But that isn't always the case and Wake's situation is a good example of that. You can't keep something alive if one side gives up. But none of this will makes sense or compute in MC's mind because he already had his mind made up about these things years ago. No one can tell him any different because in his mind he's right and everyone else is wrong. He's just waiting for all of us to agree with him
This conversation was hilarious to read. The reason MC has his fucked up views on relationships/marraige is because of three things. His parents, the people around him irl (other family members, friends, friends of family and friends), and the media. Why you'd let media twist your view of anything like it has with MC is beyond me.
And you want to know why some people don't work at their relationship anymore or never have? Miscommunication or lack or communication at all is a big factor. You've passed that "honeymoon" phase in the beginning where you couldn't keep your hands off each other. You let that change fuck with your head instead of accepting it's normal. Trust issues that stem from past relationships (romantic and/or non-romantic) which cause massive issues you either discuss (chances are you don't) or bottle up until it explodes. Your eyes wonder but instead of just looking and acknowledging, "hey, that person is cute/attractive", you have a burning desire to act upon it. Which causes you to fantasize having sex with that person instead of your significant other during sex.
Every relationship would last a lifetime if both people put effort in and worked at it. But that isn't always the case and Wake's situation is a good example of that. You can't keep something alive if one side gives up. But none of this will makes sense or compute in MC's mind because he already had his mind made up about these things years ago. No one can tell him any different because in his mind he's right and everyone else is wrong. He's just waiting for all of us to agree with him
While I do think a lack of communication contributes to the overall demise of many relationships, it is not the sole factor. The fact remains that humans are not cut out for long lasting monogomous relationships.
As I said before, most people have multiple sexual partners. Most people go through many break ups before settling on getting married. Why would that relationship magically work out when all before do not? Its foolish. Humans would not have multiple sexual partners and break ups if it worked.
Our divorce rates are about 50%, and increasing substantially every year. Do you know why that is? Because we're living longer. In the past, people were widowed alot earlier in life. But now, people are living so long that they are getting divorced now because their spouse wont die. There is an all time high in divorce and promoscuity amongst the elderly.
Why do you think my generation has a hook up culture, instead of a date culture? Its all instant satisfaction. My generation has grown up with instant messaging and social media. All information delivered in a short and direct fashion. Nobody wants to put effort into anything any more. Including relationships. Why would you put effort into making a relationshop work, when you could break up with that person and tomorrow go fuck some other person without so much as a second question?
Again wit the no friends shit when I guarantee I have more than you lmao. And it's not usin and abusin when you playin the exact same game they do. Not that you would know much about the game.
You're a womanizer and your objectify women, thinking nothing more of them than potential lays and you know it. If woman are thinking of men the same way, they're cunts too.
I formed my beliefs. 100% me. I was raised Christian (by my mother) in a middle class home with parents who never divorced. How could I blame them? If I followed what my parents raised me thinking, I'd go on dates. I'd have a girlfriend. I'd want to start a family of my own.
But I don't. That's entirely on me. I've spoken with my mother about my views. She doesn't understand them at all.
I will not blame my parents, because the only person I have to blame for my life is myself. I'm not some faggot that passes it off. I am the ruler of myself. My views come from observing my parents, but equally observing the relationships of my peers, and the relationships of those I see online and in the media. Not just my parents.
I literally have no resentment towards my parents. 0. I don't blame them for a thing. They are not contributory towards my nihilism, cynicism, or misanthropy.
You should resent them is my point. When people are brainwashed or conditioned to be like you are, they oftentimes don't view this mental abuse as being a contributing factor in their mental state.
Although what I'm going to describe is a more extreme example, I'm doing it to illustrate the point. In abusive relationships where the husband physically beats up his wife, it is extemely common to hear the wife say "It's my fault he beat me! Dont blame him! I knew he didn't like me folding towels that way, and I deserved him putting me in the hospital"
you are the same way but not in literal way for that extreme case... But your parents did victimize you. Your parents did do this to you and they are 100% to blame. As the victim you want to make up excuses for their abuse to you, but ultimately they are the most responsible party here. They are the ones that brainwashed you and conditioned you to be this way. Perhaps their misguided motives were not done with evil intentions, however their potentially accidental parenting failures does not excuse them from the responsibility of what they did to you.
like I said- fuck them. Fuck them for doing his to you. How dare them. I swear I wish I could be there at your funeral to point the finger at them and blame them for your death. You might be the one who pulled the trigger but they are the one that bought you the gun, taught you to put it in your mouth, and whispered in your ear what a good idea it is to pull the trigger....., FUCK THEM.
Wake going all "This girl ACTUALLY get me!!!!!" On us. Simp confirmed.
You know I agree.
You know what else- I'm a full fledge white knight and I don't want to change that about myself. Like I was reading this story online about some chick who I don't even know. Really heart breaking shit. I literally wanted to fly to Texas, find this girl (I don't even know what she looks like), and do something, anything to make her life better. When I see people hurting or in need, I want to help. I can't walk away like I don't have the time for them... I make the time. Not because I hope it turns into dick sucking but because I genuinely care for people. If that makes me uncool on MU, okay. It's how I am though and can't really pretend I'm not
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But don't attack my family.
My cousin's name is Erik too. Has nothing to do with your name. Has to do with your attitude.
Embrace it man. They are to blame.... 100%. Don't protect those assholes anymore. Not after what they did to you. They don't deserve it anymore... Let it go
But I don't. That's entirely on me. I've spoken with my mother about my views. She doesn't understand them at all.
I will not blame my parents, because the only person I have to blame for my life is myself. I'm not some faggot that passes it off. I am the ruler of myself. My views come from observing my parents, but equally observing the relationships of my peers, and the relationships of those I see online and in the media. Not just my parents.
I literally have no resentment towards my parents. 0. I don't blame them for a thing. They are not contributory towards my nihilism, cynicism, or misanthropy.
So how much of a failure is your mom then? You don't go to school. You barely work. You're a bedroom musician with no friends. You're in the same boat as me love-life wise, you just chose to use and abuse women for your own perverted sexual pleasure, treating them as objects. You're much more of failure than I am. Is that your mom's fault too? Or are you willing to admit you're just a sack of piss and meat?
You're 20 somethin. Quit actin like a 14 year old #1 Slipknot fan. It's fuckin disgusting.
And you want to know why some people don't work at their relationship anymore or never have? Miscommunication or lack or communication at all is a big factor. You've passed that "honeymoon" phase in the beginning where you couldn't keep your hands off each other. You let that change fuck with your head instead of accepting it's normal. Trust issues that stem from past relationships (romantic and/or non-romantic) which cause massive issues you either discuss (chances are you don't) or bottle up until it explodes. Your eyes wonder but instead of just looking and acknowledging, "hey, that person is cute/attractive", you have a burning desire to act upon it. Which causes you to fantasize having sex with that person instead of your significant other during sex.
Every relationship would last a lifetime if both people put effort in and worked at it. But that isn't always the case and Wake's situation is a good example of that. You can't keep something alive if one side gives up. But none of this will makes sense or compute in MC's mind because he already had his mind made up about these things years ago. No one can tell him any different because in his mind he's right and everyone else is wrong. He's just waiting for all of us to agree with him
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As I said before, most people have multiple sexual partners. Most people go through many break ups before settling on getting married. Why would that relationship magically work out when all before do not? Its foolish. Humans would not have multiple sexual partners and break ups if it worked.
Our divorce rates are about 50%, and increasing substantially every year. Do you know why that is? Because we're living longer. In the past, people were widowed alot earlier in life. But now, people are living so long that they are getting divorced now because their spouse wont die. There is an all time high in divorce and promoscuity amongst the elderly.
Why do you think my generation has a hook up culture, instead of a date culture? Its all instant satisfaction. My generation has grown up with instant messaging and social media. All information delivered in a short and direct fashion. Nobody wants to put effort into anything any more. Including relationships. Why would you put effort into making a relationshop work, when you could break up with that person and tomorrow go fuck some other person without so much as a second question?
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You're a womanizer and your objectify women, thinking nothing more of them than potential lays and you know it. If woman are thinking of men the same way, they're cunts too.
Although what I'm going to describe is a more extreme example, I'm doing it to illustrate the point. In abusive relationships where the husband physically beats up his wife, it is extemely common to hear the wife say "It's my fault he beat me! Dont blame him! I knew he didn't like me folding towels that way, and I deserved him putting me in the hospital"
you are the same way but not in literal way for that extreme case... But your parents did victimize you. Your parents did do this to you and they are 100% to blame. As the victim you want to make up excuses for their abuse to you, but ultimately they are the most responsible party here. They are the ones that brainwashed you and conditioned you to be this way. Perhaps their misguided motives were not done with evil intentions, however their potentially accidental parenting failures does not excuse them from the responsibility of what they did to you.
like I said- fuck them. Fuck them for doing his to you. How dare them. I swear I wish I could be there at your funeral to point the finger at them and blame them for your death. You might be the one who pulled the trigger but they are the one that bought you the gun, taught you to put it in your mouth, and whispered in your ear what a good idea it is to pull the trigger....., FUCK THEM.
You know what else- I'm a full fledge white knight and I don't want to change that about myself. Like I was reading this story online about some chick who I don't even know. Really heart breaking shit. I literally wanted to fly to Texas, find this girl (I don't even know what she looks like), and do something, anything to make her life better. When I see people hurting or in need, I want to help. I can't walk away like I don't have the time for them... I make the time. Not because I hope it turns into dick sucking but because I genuinely care for people. If that makes me uncool on MU, okay. It's how I am though and can't really pretend I'm not