If if this girl was perfect (she isnt, but that's the lens you choose to see her through) it doesn't take into account that people change over time... some for the better and some for the worse. Either she isnt perfect and has room to grow as a person, or she is perfect now and can only go downhill from the pedestal she is on. It cant be both.
He said that now that he's been married, my philosophy coincides with his life experiences. He says that in his other relationships, he THOUGHT he loved whoever he was with, and that the "love" he experienced was very different than the type he experiences with his wife. That love with his wife, is the oneism love coming into play. His past loves weren't real.
Only difference is I'm shaping my entire dating experience around that instead of waiting for it to happen.
I don't think love is like a switch you turn on.. There can be different levels if love.. I can love a friend if the family or someone I've known my whole life.. But if there life was up against my moms? Yea they're gonna die lol I think romantic love is the same.. He may live his wife the most of any girl but that doesn't make it trv and all other girls false.. It just levels of degree or else like jake said, who's to say there isn't someone better out there that you just haven't met yet? its like how many people have a fav food at 22 yrs old and when they die at 93 they have the same exact fav meal? Lol prob not alot
It just levels of degree or else like jake said, who's to say there isn't someone better out there that you just haven't met yet?
This is the problem with dating. Where does it stop? Will there ALWAYS be someone better? If thats the case, why date? Why get married? You'll never meet the perfect person, so whats the fucking point?
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its like how many people have a fav food at 22 yrs old and when they die at 93 they have the same exact fav meal? Lol prob not alot