Had another pretty good counselor session. Startin to feel better about some things
like what?
Basically that Im not crazy. And my beliefs stem from logical thinking and life experience, and that I should stay true to what I believe.
Little confidence boost after every session.
Honestly a big help too is that I finally have some friends I hang out with regularly down here. They remind me a lot of my best friends back home, so its nice.
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That's bad advice, if "what you believe" is wrong and fucked up. Think about it this way... Say you take one of these ISIS militant suicide bomber who is about to blow up a preschool of children because Allah would want that. Do you think that it would be a good idea for this guy to stay true to his beliefs? And I understand that this is a very extreme analogy, but in the same grain you've been brain washed in the same manor to put an irrational fear on Sex. It is an unhealthy and incorrect belief that you should 100% not stay true to, exactly like my hypothetical suicide bomber.
His views on women are flat out wrong but his views on sex don't really have to be.. You can make sex be whatever you want it to be , it's your life .. As long as your not hurting anyone else or yourself
I dont give a shit what you guys say anymore. What I am looking for, and what you are looking for are two entirely different things. Im glad I have some reassurance now, because there's nothing wrong with it. In fact my counselor says he cant find anything to be negative about it, and thinks girls would appreciate that I care more about getting to know them than getting it in them. My oneism is justifiable, and reasonable.
And he's married too, so he's not a virgin.
Wake, that analogy is retarded, because my beliefs arent killing other people.
It's not a problem that you want to get to know them first. God damn fuck boy have you even read anything that we have said.
Its the fact that you think out of 7 billion people you are only allowed to love one of them. Not only is that completely wrong, but its fucked up and selfish.
He said that now that he's been married, my philosophy coincides with his life experiences. He says that in his other relationships, he THOUGHT he loved whoever he was with, and that the "love" he experienced was very different than the type he experiences with his wife. That love with his wife, is the oneism love coming into play. His past loves weren't real.
Only difference is I'm shaping my entire dating experience around that instead of waiting for it to happen.
He said that now that he's been married, my philosophy coincides with his life experiences. He says that in his other relationships, he THOUGHT he loved whoever he was with, and that the "love" he experienced was very different than the type he experiences with his wife. That love with his wife, is the oneism love coming into play. His past loves weren't real.
Only difference is I'm shaping my entire dating experience around that instead of waiting for it to happen.
So how do you know that you love this girl? How do you know that this love is real? How do you know that there isn't a chance you'll meet another girl who makes what you feel for this girl feel like nothing?
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now I think I'll go flush my own head in the toilet
dat breaking bad thread ^:)^
On the bright side Erik will steal the catchphrase in a few months and claim it as his own
Jeez you're an angry wee man
you need to relax a little and learn to take a joke
you'll have a heart attack if you're not careful
Little confidence boost after every session.
Honestly a big help too is that I finally have some friends I hang out with regularly down here. They remind me a lot of my best friends back home, so its nice.
And he's married too, so he's not a virgin.
Wake, that analogy is retarded, because my beliefs arent killing other people.
It's not a problem that you want to get to know them first. God damn fuck boy have you even read anything that we have said.
Its the fact that you think out of 7 billion people you are only allowed to love one of them. Not only is that completely wrong, but its fucked up and selfish.
Only difference is I'm shaping my entire dating experience around that instead of waiting for it to happen.
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