Idc if y'all think its lame of me. Im taking two big steps back.
Then you should be talking to her about it, not us.
I did last night, and thought we were over it. But now this morning she's putting in a tongue ring and saying "aight daddy" to me. So we obviously arent over it.
What do you think is the worst thing that would happen if you did have any kind of sexual relations with her?
Regret, guilt, failure, doing a shitty job, disease, pregnancy, etc etc. Plus I have mental issues and self esteem issues, and all I can think about is "someone else has been here, someone else has made her feel good before" (I know thats MY issue, nothing against her. But I cant deal with it right now).
What do you think is the worst thing that would happen if you did have any kind of sexual relations with her?
Regret, guilt, failure, doing a shitty job, disease, pregnancy, etc etc. Plus I have mental issues and self esteem issues, and all I can think about is "someone else has been here, someone else has made her feel good before" (I know thats MY issue, nothing against her. But I cant deal with it right now).
Wearing a condom solves the last two problems. Also know and remember that no one's first time will ever be the best. Also guilt for what? If shes interested, theres nothing to feel guilty about.
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Im not saying your feelings don’t matter. I am saying you have not had a better opportunity then with this girl when she knows youre a virgin.
And dude, it’s fun.