You just gotta learn to ease up and let things happen in their own time and space. Don't measure yourself again others. You don't know what the circumstances are. There's also shit you learn as you age about your behavior affecting how people view you. I used to be too outwardly critical of myself. I was too quick to point out my flaws to other people. Next thing I knew, I was giving people a negative perception of me that perservered and it was my fault. Women also sense self esteem. I just try to be my normal self and don't get too desperate. I gave Amanda enough chances. I don't feel bad about anything I did in our relationship. No use pondering on that. This current girl is actually the second semi-serious girl I've had since November. She's beautiful, but we're really different and she's older than me, so that means no more kiddos, which bothers me. I'm not overthinking it. Just to trying to go with the flow
. You literally need to approach every situation like you don't care about the outcome, and all your trying to do is be yourself and have fun.
You just gotta learn to ease up and let things happen in their own time and space. Don't measure yourself again others. You don't know what the circumstances are. There's also shit you learn as you age about your behavior affecting how people view you. I used to be too outwardly critical of myself. I was too quick to point out my flaws to other people. Next thing I knew, I was giving people a negative perception of me that perservered and it was my fault. Women also sense self esteem. I just try to be my normal self and don't get too desperate. I gave Amanda enough chances. I don't feel bad about anything I did in our relationship. No use pondering on that. This current girl is actually the second semi-serious girl I've had since November. She's beautiful, but we're really different and she's older than me, so that means no more kiddos, which bothers me. I'm not overthinking it. Just to trying to go with the flow
Just to add to this... always remember - girls want to have fun too. MC you really need to get out of your head and lighten up a bit. You literally need to approach every situation like you don't care about the outcome, and all your trying to do is be yourself and have fun. Good shit happens with women when you reach that zen level. Also don't be afraid to take conversations sexual... girls like being desired and chased. All of them do
This is true. Youre very unlikely to meet anyone that off-the-bat wants to deal with much emotional turmoil. You kinda gotta approach girls like you would want them approaching you. If you meet a girl thats an emotional basketcase, it's gonna turn you off. I know it sounds romantic to find someone depressed that you can bring out of their funk, but the reality is not that tidy or pretty. I know from experience. I had a girlfriend that killed herself when I was 20. It fucked me up for almost 3 years. Girls are hyper-aware of mental instability because they have to worry about weirdo stalker types. It's more of an instant turnoff than it is for men.
All Im reading is "you're out of luck MC. Girls arent into dudes like you".
Id honestly be better off ordering a fleshlight from Amazon and developing a porn addiction.
Or you're just going about it wrong. You dont help yourself by not pursuing pretty much any girl ever. Youve mentioned several opportunities here and when we encourage you to take action, you never try. Never gonna get a hit if you dont swing the bat
Why would I pursue every girl I come across? Im not into every single girl I meet. And idk what opportunities Ive mentioned here. I've never had a legitimate opportunity.
Someone on the Acen FB group asked why nobody had a dating event this year. People said its because they tried in the past, and only dudes show up, no chicks )
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Id honestly be better off ordering a fleshlight from Amazon and developing a porn addiction.
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