I gotta be real here: All these examples you have of your friends getting shafted are slanted. We all know your friends iare likely socially awkward like you are. To expect them to have normal relationships all the time with girls is unreasonable. You can't keep blaming the girls for this shit. You know good and well that these guys are doing awkward shit to shoot themselves in the foot. You using them as examples of why you don't want to try with women is like me pointing at a retarded kid struggling with math to explain why I can't learn algebra. Taking cues from failure makes it comfortable to fail. You need to challenge yourself. There are men all over the place that are way uglier and stub-dicked than you that do just fine with girls. It's your approach that makes the difference. I've said it before, but your constant concern with girls indicates you really do want a relationship more than you outwardly admit. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have such strong opinions. If I told you that I didn't care about scuba diving, but constantly complained about scuba gear, that would be kinda weird wouldn't it? Say I don't like landscaping, but constantly complain about how people cut their grass. That's kinda what you're doing about women. Half the shit you post here is about girls taking advantage of your friends or FemiNazis on the Internet.
Why do you care? Because it bugs you, obv.
There's a difference between being misanthropic and socially awkward. I tend to lean towards the former. You'll never hear me complain about how girls tease me. Deep down I fucking hate most people. Like for real. If I go the rest of my life without another girlfriend, I might be ok. But aside from this paragraph, you'll be unlikely to see me speak on it. I don't really give a fuck what women think or what they're up to because most of them are inconsequential to me. Honestly, I think of most of them in the same terms as I think of men because most of humanity is just one big stupid pile of shit to me. And this really isn't a point of view that has resulted from everything that happened to me. I've always felt this way. I can mostly take it or leave it when it comes to people. It amazes me sometimes that I've ended up with kids because I always figured I was too distant to ever make the leap. I get that women are flighty and don't live up to their convictions, but I don't really care because men are the same way. Odds are that your friends act just as stupid and shameful. You just posted that shit about your friend saying men were useless and deleted you on fb for not agreeing.
Anyways, I guess what I'm trying to get around to is this: You can only get McFucked if you allow it or even court it. The girls you're always ranting about aren't doing anything wrong. They're just fumbling around in the dark the same as everyone else. I doubt they mean to hurt you or your friends. If you want to be successful with relationships, you're gonna have to practice. The fact that you've learned an instrument is almost miraculous considering how much quit you have in you. You didn't just pick up a guitar the first time and play some Megadeth. It took practice. Same goes with relationships. If you really don't want a relationship, then stop worrying about them.
They may not "mean to hurt us" but they know damn well what they are doing and how to play the game to get stuff out of us. And they know damn well the consequences of those actions.
You talk about practicing relationships, but how are we supposed to practice or grow when these women will never even give us a chance?
Ive realized this reality, and Im fed up with it. Ive rejected it in my own life. Doesnt mean Im not going rant about cunts on the internet. Or feel defensive when they fuck over my best friend.
If it's a known fact that anyone is hurting anyone else on purpose, then they should be dropped immediately. For real. If your friend keeps dealing with some girl he knows to be using him, it's his fault that he gets used. If it's just happenstance that he's getting hurt because he's not letting some girl know his true feelings, then you can't fault the girl. You have to be really up front with girls because they're fucking naive about men. A lot of them legitimately don't know guys like them unless it's put to them point blank. They're emotionally unaware like that.
You make a joke about how you actively avoid women. You don't take any advice from anyone here about being more assertive and proactive about your situation. I mean, I know this place isn't the greatest place to go for relationship advice, but I have seen some really good, productive suggestions that you've completely ignored or even denounced before. It gets old to see you rail against the same shit when you won't do anything about it. You're passive-aggressive to the nth degree. It's unhealthy. From the outside looking in, you come off as really emotionally stunted. It's none of my business why, but you should be aware of it because from what you say here, the people on this site aren't the only ones that notice
And I'm still not buying that you really don't want a girlfriend. And honestly, it's a little unbelievable sometimes that you hate feminists so much because you live by their code. You treat women like they're these delicate flowers when most of them are just dumb sluts
I gotta be real here: All these examples you have of your friends getting shafted are slanted. We all know your friends iare likely socially awkward like you are. To expect them to have normal relationships all the time with girls is unreasonable. You can't keep blaming the girls for this shit. You know good and well that these guys are doing awkward shit to shoot themselves in the foot. You using them as examples of why you don't want to try with women is like me pointing at a retarded kid struggling with math to explain why I can't learn algebra. Taking cues from failure makes it comfortable to fail. You need to challenge yourself. There are men all over the place that are way uglier and stub-dicked than you that do just fine with girls. It's your approach that makes the difference. I've said it before, but your constant concern with girls indicates you really do want a relationship more than you outwardly admit. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have such strong opinions. If I told you that I didn't care about scuba diving, but constantly complained about scuba gear, that would be kinda weird wouldn't it? Say I don't like landscaping, but constantly complain about how people cut their grass. That's kinda what you're doing about women. Half the shit you post here is about girls taking advantage of your friends or FemiNazis on the Internet.
Why do you care? Because it bugs you, obv.
There's a difference between being misanthropic and socially awkward. I tend to lean towards the former. You'll never hear me complain about how girls tease me. Deep down I fucking hate most people. Like for real. If I go the rest of my life without another girlfriend, I might be ok. But aside from this paragraph, you'll be unlikely to see me speak on it. I don't really give a fuck what women think or what they're up to because most of them are inconsequential to me. Honestly, I think of most of them in the same terms as I think of men because most of humanity is just one big stupid pile of shit to me. And this really isn't a point of view that has resulted from everything that happened to me. I've always felt this way. I can mostly take it or leave it when it comes to people. It amazes me sometimes that I've ended up with kids because I always figured I was too distant to ever make the leap. I get that women are flighty and don't live up to their convictions, but I don't really care because men are the same way. Odds are that your friends act just as stupid and shameful. You just posted that shit about your friend saying men were useless and deleted you on fb for not agreeing.
Anyways, I guess what I'm trying to get around to is this: You can only get McFucked if you allow it or even court it. The girls you're always ranting about aren't doing anything wrong. They're just fumbling around in the dark the same as everyone else. I doubt they mean to hurt you or your friends. If you want to be successful with relationships, you're gonna have to practice. The fact that you've learned an instrument is almost miraculous considering how much quit you have in you. You didn't just pick up a guitar the first time and play some Megadeth. It took practice. Same goes with relationships. If you really don't want a relationship, then stop worrying about them.
They may not "mean to hurt us" but they know damn well what they are doing and how to play the game to get stuff out of us. And they know damn well the consequences of those actions.
You talk about practicing relationships, but how are we supposed to practice or grow when these women will never even give us a chance?
Ive realized this reality, and Im fed up with it. Ive rejected it in my own life. Doesnt mean Im not going rant about cunts on the internet. Or feel defensive when they fuck over my best friend.
If it's a known fact that anyone is hurting anyone else on purpose, then they should be dropped immediately. For real. If your friend keeps dealing with some girl he knows to be using him, it's his fault that he gets used. If it's just happenstance that he's getting hurt because he's not letting some girl know his true feelings, then you can't fault the girl. You have to be really up front with girls because they're fucking naive about men. A lot of them legitimately don't know guys like them unless it's put to them point blank. They're emotionally unaware like that.
You make a joke about how you actively avoid women. You don't take any advice from anyone here about being more assertive and proactive about your situation. I mean, I know this place isn't the greatest place to go for relationship advice, but I have seen some really good, productive suggestions that you've completely ignored or even denounced before. It gets old to see you rail against the same shit when you won't do anything about it. You're passive-aggressive to the nth degree. It's unhealthy. From the outside looking in, you come off as really emotionally stunted. It's none of my business why, but you should be aware of it because from what you say here, the people on this site aren't the only ones that notice
And I'm still not buying that you really don't want a girlfriend. And honestly, it's a little unbelievable sometimes that you hate feminists so much because you live by their code. You treat women like they're these delicate flowers when most of them are just dumb sluts
Im not "passive agressive", im agressive period. It legit pisses me off. I ignore the advice here because its so far separated from who I am as an individual, its not even plausible for me to attempt.
I really dont want a relationship. I had an epiphany a few days ago. Relationships have only ever brought me pain in the past. And I can see how gfs or the prospect of gfs have changed my friends (for the worse, imo), and thats not something Im willing to go through. Im not willing to go through the introductory phase of opening up to someone again. Its not something I want to do. And something I honestly dread.
I will admit I used to put women on the pedestal, but Im not like that anymore. I do not trust women when it comes to relationships anymore. Period. My first thought is always that they want something, and that they come off as entitled. I dont know what to blame for that, but thats not important.
And because of that I know that perfect relationships arent real, and there is no perfect girl out there. And since I know anything less than perfection is going to make me unhappy. So I decided Im better off not pursuing.
I come to this thread to rant and vent. Nothing more. My friend legitimately got taken advantage of by two women in a short time span. He's not putting himself in these situations. And he cut it off with both soon after he realized it. But he opened himself up to two, and had it stomped out by two in less than a month. How am I not supposed to be mad about that?
I have nothing but contempt for the dating process. I dont want it. I just feel like Im missing out. But eventually that feeling will pass, and I'll just be angry. And I can live with the anger.
As for the jokes, my single nerdy alone virgin-ness is a meme at this point, and it makes me laugh. If you notice, aside from the jokes, Ive been posting about others lately. Not myself. Because I feel removed from the entire thing individually.
Your dynamic with women is like 90% of what you discuss. The rest of the time it's BabyMetal and Breaking Benjamin and how overrated Tool and Gojira are
Your dynamic with women is like 90% of what you discuss. The rest of the time it's BabyMetal and Breaking Benjamin and how overrated Tool and Gojira are
Nah. Just in this thread, obvs
All I talk about is video games/anime/comics and music in reality. It hardly ever comes up irl. I really dont care.
I just bitched about it today because my friend was bemoaning the fact he was stood up basically, last night.
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And you guys say i get my shit mixed up.
You make a joke about how you actively avoid women. You don't take any advice from anyone here about being more assertive and proactive about your situation. I mean, I know this place isn't the greatest place to go for relationship advice, but I have seen some really good, productive suggestions that you've completely ignored or even denounced before. It gets old to see you rail against the same shit when you won't do anything about it. You're passive-aggressive to the nth degree. It's unhealthy. From the outside looking in, you come off as really emotionally stunted. It's none of my business why, but you should be aware of it because from what you say here, the people on this site aren't the only ones that notice
And I'm still not buying that you really don't want a girlfriend. And honestly, it's a little unbelievable sometimes that you hate feminists so much because you live by their code. You treat women like they're these delicate flowers when most of them are just dumb sluts
I really dont want a relationship. I had an epiphany a few days ago. Relationships have only ever brought me pain in the past. And I can see how gfs or the prospect of gfs have changed my friends (for the worse, imo), and thats not something Im willing to go through. Im not willing to go through the introductory phase of opening up to someone again. Its not something I want to do. And something I honestly dread.
I will admit I used to put women on the pedestal, but Im not like that anymore. I do not trust women when it comes to relationships anymore. Period. My first thought is always that they want something, and that they come off as entitled. I dont know what to blame for that, but thats not important.
And because of that I know that perfect relationships arent real, and there is no perfect girl out there. And since I know anything less than perfection is going to make me unhappy. So I decided Im better off not pursuing.
I come to this thread to rant and vent. Nothing more. My friend legitimately got taken advantage of by two women in a short time span. He's not putting himself in these situations. And he cut it off with both soon after he realized it. But he opened himself up to two, and had it stomped out by two in less than a month. How am I not supposed to be mad about that?
I have nothing but contempt for the dating process. I dont want it. I just feel like Im missing out. But eventually that feeling will pass, and I'll just be angry. And I can live with the anger.
As for the jokes, my single nerdy alone virgin-ness is a meme at this point, and it makes me laugh. If you notice, aside from the jokes, Ive been posting about others lately. Not myself. Because I feel removed from the entire thing individually.
Your dynamic with women is like 90% of what you discuss. The rest of the time it's BabyMetal and Breaking Benjamin and how overrated Tool and Gojira are
All I talk about is video games/anime/comics and music in reality. It hardly ever comes up irl. I really dont care.
I just bitched about it today because my friend was bemoaning the fact he was stood up basically, last night.