Fucking bitch cancelled on my friend two weeks in a row now. I smell McFuckery brewing.
So friend 1 likes girl 1. Girl 1 moves back over seas (shes a foreign exchange student), but she has plan to move back here and apply for citizen ship. Friend 1 asks girl 1 out. Girl 1 says she got a boyfriend since returning overseas. Friend 1 should have asked her out months ago, but ok. Girl 1 starts getting more flirty with friend 1 now that she knows he likes her Friend 2 says rumors at their work say girl 2 likes friend 1. Ok, friend 1 asks girl 2 out. Girl 2 excitedly says "yes". They exchange numbers. Next day friend 1 asks if "next saturday" would work for the date. Girl 2 says no, she has a family party. "Ok how about the next saturday then?" Girl 2 says yes. A week later, girl 2 cancels because she forgot she "made plans with a friend a while ago". Friend 1: "ok, how about the next saturday" Girl 2: "cant, its my moms birthday" Friend 1: "ok, then you pick the day when we can go out, and I'll make it work around my schedule". Girl 2 gets mad and stops talking to friend 1. Girl 1 suddenly has breakdown over text about how she misses friend 1, and how nice he was to her while she was in the states. But she still has her bf.
Tfw friend 1 has been double McFucked in the course of one month.
I gotta be real here: All these examples you have of your friends getting shafted are slanted. We all know your friends are likely socially awkward like you are. To expect them to have normal relationships all the time with girls is unreasonable. You can't keep blaming the girls for this shit. You know good and well that these guys are doing awkward shit to shoot themselves in the foot. You using them as examples of why you don't want to try with women is like me pointing at a retarded kid struggling with math to explain why I can't learn algebra. Taking cues from failure makes it comfortable to fail. You need to challenge yourself. There are men all over the place that are way uglier and stub-dicked than you that do just fine with girls. It's your approach that makes the difference. I've said it before, but your constant concern with girls indicates you really do want a relationship more than you outwardly admit. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have such strong opinions. If I told you that I didn't care about scuba diving, but constantly complained about scuba gear, that would be kinda weird wouldn't it? Say I don't like landscaping, but constantly complain about how people cut their grass. That's kinda what you're doing about women. Half the shit you post here is about girls taking advantage of your friends or FemiNazis on the Internet.
Why do you care? Because it bugs you, obv.
There's a difference between being misanthropic and socially awkward. I tend to lean towards the former. You'll never hear me complain about how girls tease me. Deep down I fucking hate most people. Like for real. If I go the rest of my life without another girlfriend, I might be ok. But aside from this paragraph, you'll be unlikely to see me speak on it. I don't really give a fuck what women think or what they're up to because most of them are inconsequential to me. Honestly, I think of most of them in the same terms as I think of men because most of humanity is just one big stupid pile of shit to me. And this really isn't a point of view that has resulted from everything that happened to me. I've always felt this way. I can mostly take it or leave it when it comes to people. It amazes me sometimes that I've ended up with kids because I always figured I was too distant to ever make the leap. I get that women are flighty and don't live up to their convictions, but I don't really care because men are the same way. Odds are that your friends act just as stupid and shameful. You just posted that shit about your friend saying men were useless and deleted you on fb for not agreeing.
Anyways, I guess what I'm trying to get around to is this: You can only get McFucked if you allow it or even court it. The girls you're always ranting about aren't doing anything wrong. They're just fumbling around in the dark the same as everyone else. I doubt they mean to hurt you or your friends. If you want to be successful with relationships, you're gonna have to practice. The fact that you've learned an instrument is almost miraculous considering how much quit you have in you. You didn't just pick up a guitar the first time and play some Megadeth. It took practice. Same goes with relationships. If you really don't want a relationship, then stop worrying about them.
I gotta be real here: All these examples you have of your friends getting shafted are slanted. We all know your friends iare likely socially awkward like you are. To expect them to have normal relationships all the time with girls is unreasonable. You can't keep blaming the girls for this shit. You know good and well that these guys are doing awkward shit to shoot themselves in the foot. You using them as examples of why you don't want to try with women is like me pointing at a retarded kid struggling with math to explain why I can't learn algebra. Taking cues from failure makes it comfortable to fail. You need to challenge yourself. There are men all over the place that are way uglier and stub-dicked than you that do just fine with girls. It's your approach that makes the difference. I've said it before, but your constant concern with girls indicates you really do want a relationship more than you outwardly admit. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have such strong opinions. If I told you that I didn't care about scuba diving, but constantly complained about scuba gear, that would be kinda weird wouldn't it? Say I don't like landscaping, but constantly complain about how people cut their grass. That's kinda what you're doing about women. Half the shit you post here is about girls taking advantage of your friends or FemiNazis on the Internet.
Why do you care? Because it bugs you, obv.
There's a difference between being misanthropic and socially awkward. I tend to lean towards the former. You'll never hear me complain about how girls tease me. Deep down I fucking hate most people. Like for real. If I go the rest of my life without another girlfriend, I might be ok. But aside from this paragraph, you'll be unlikely to see me speak on it. I don't really give a fuck what women think or what they're up to because most of them are inconsequential to me. Honestly, I think of most of them in the same terms as I think of men because most of humanity is just one big stupid pile of shit to me. And this really isn't a point of view that has resulted from everything that happened to me. I've always felt this way. I can mostly take it or leave it when it comes to people. It amazes me sometimes that I've ended up with kids because I always figured I was too distant to ever make the leap. I get that women are flighty and don't live up to their convictions, but I don't really care because men are the same way. Odds are that your friends act just as stupid and shameful. You just posted that shit about your friend saying men were useless and deleted you on fb for not agreeing.
Anyways, I guess what I'm trying to get around to is this: You can only get McFucked if you allow it or even court it. The girls you're always ranting about aren't doing anything wrong. They're just fumbling around in the dark the same as everyone else. I doubt they mean to hurt you or your friends. If you want to be successful with relationships, you're gonna have to practice. The fact that you've learned an instrument is almost miraculous considering how much quit you have in you. You didn't just pick up a guitar the first time and play some Megadeth. It took practice. Same goes with relationships. If you really don't want a relationship, then stop worrying about them.
They may not "mean to hurt us" but they know damn well what they are doing and how to play the game to get stuff out of us. And they know damn well the consequences of those actions.
You talk about practicing relationships, but how are we supposed to practice or grow when these women will never even give us a chance?
Ive realized this reality, and Im fed up with it. Ive rejected it in my own life. Doesnt mean Im not going rant about cunts on the internet. Or feel defensive when they fuck over my best friend.
If a girl isn't acting/treating/reciprocating in the way you/your friends are wanting ot hoping for, fucking, leave. It's your own goddamn choice to stay in that situation. If you're unhappy with it, leave. But sticking around and complaining about it, playing the victim is a goddamn pussy move. And I'm pretty certain everyone here knows I used to think that way a little while back, but I realized how much of a fucking pushover I was being. I left, i quit talking to her and everything has been all the better for it. If you're not happy, leave.
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i always read it as schlongburg now
Girl 1 moves back over seas (shes a foreign exchange student), but she has plan to move back here and apply for citizen ship.
Friend 1 asks girl 1 out. Girl 1 says she got a boyfriend since returning overseas.
Friend 1 should have asked her out months ago, but ok.
Girl 1 starts getting more flirty with friend 1 now that she knows he likes her
Friend 2 says rumors at their work say girl 2 likes friend 1.
Ok, friend 1 asks girl 2 out. Girl 2 excitedly says "yes". They exchange numbers.
Next day friend 1 asks if "next saturday" would work for the date. Girl 2 says no, she has a family party.
"Ok how about the next saturday then?" Girl 2 says yes.
A week later, girl 2 cancels because she forgot she "made plans with a friend a while ago".
Friend 1: "ok, how about the next saturday"
Girl 2: "cant, its my moms birthday"
Friend 1: "ok, then you pick the day when we can go out, and I'll make it work around my schedule".
Girl 2 gets mad and stops talking to friend 1.
Girl 1 suddenly has breakdown over text about how she misses friend 1, and how nice he was to her while she was in the states. But she still has her bf.
Tfw friend 1 has been double McFucked in the course of one month.
This is why I stopped trying with women.
At least he puts himself out there tho.
Why do you care? Because it bugs you, obv.
There's a difference between being misanthropic and socially awkward. I tend to lean towards the former. You'll never hear me complain about how girls tease me. Deep down I fucking hate most people. Like for real. If I go the rest of my life without another girlfriend, I might be ok. But aside from this paragraph, you'll be unlikely to see me speak on it. I don't really give a fuck what women think or what they're up to because most of them are inconsequential to me. Honestly, I think of most of them in the same terms as I think of men because most of humanity is just one big stupid pile of shit to me. And this really isn't a point of view that has resulted from everything that happened to me. I've always felt this way. I can mostly take it or leave it when it comes to people. It amazes me sometimes that I've ended up with kids because I always figured I was too distant to ever make the leap. I get that women are flighty and don't live up to their convictions, but I don't really care because men are the same way. Odds are that your friends act just as stupid and shameful. You just posted that shit about your friend saying men were useless and deleted you on fb for not agreeing.
Anyways, I guess what I'm trying to get around to is this: You can only get McFucked if you allow it or even court it. The girls you're always ranting about aren't doing anything wrong. They're just fumbling around in the dark the same as everyone else. I doubt they mean to hurt you or your friends. If you want to be successful with relationships, you're gonna have to practice. The fact that you've learned an instrument is almost miraculous considering how much quit you have in you. You didn't just pick up a guitar the first time and play some Megadeth. It took practice. Same goes with relationships. If you really don't want a relationship, then stop worrying about them.
You talk about practicing relationships, but how are we supposed to practice or grow when these women will never even give us a chance?
Ive realized this reality, and Im fed up with it. Ive rejected it in my own life. Doesnt mean Im not going rant about cunts on the internet. Or feel defensive when they fuck over my best friend.