Seriously though, I think sex damages relationships more than it does them good. Like I said it shifts the focus from a purely emotional connection to a physical addiction. Dating becomes more "how can I impress this person to get in their pants" instead of "I love this person, and want to honor them and show them that".
Sex is not honorable. Its a physically disgusting act, as well as mentally warping, addictive, and demeaning.
Seriously though, I think sex damages relationships more than it does them good. Like I said it shifts the focus from a purely emotional connection to a physical addiction. Dating becomes more "how can I impress this person to get in their pants" instead of "I love this person, and want to honor them and show them that".
Sex is not honorable. Its a physically disgusting act, as well as mentally warping, addictive, and demeaning.
Seriously though, I think sex damages relationships more than it does them good. Like I said it shifts the focus from a purely emotional connection to a physical addiction. Dating becomes more "how can I impress this person to get in their pants" instead of "I love this person, and want to honor them and show them that".
Sex is not honorable. Its a physically disgusting act, as well as mentally warping, addictive, and demeaning.
Go a few years without sex, and then tell me I'm wrong.
No, its taking advantage. If she really wanted to do that, she could do it sober. Alcohol fucks with your mind and warps your perception of things. I lose a lot of restraint when I drink. I look back at it when I'm sober and think "man I shouldn't have done that".
If she was to get drunk and strip in front of me, the next day she'd probably be like "yea that was a bad idea". If she really wanted to do that, she could do it sober.
Yeah alcohol does fuck with your mind but it doesn't " warp " anything.. You are warped with this moral brainwash bullshit and you on alcohol is just you void of the brainwashing .. Now there is a point when you're just blackout and embarrassing doe lol
Go a few years without sex, and then tell me I'm wrong.
I have... you're wrong. Before I married my wife I was dating/engaged to a girl whom had strong Christian morals and wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. I loved her, and so I agreed to the terms she had proposed. It didn't make the relationship any better than others that were sexual. It didn't make the relationship more special, and honestly not having that intimate connection with her probably made it less special in retrospect. I didn't ever know her on that level... I was with her for 3.5 years too.
And it wasn't even the lack of sex that broke us up, that wasnt even an issue. We broke up because she came to the life decision that she wanted a strong Christian leader at the head of her household. I told her I was willing to go to church with her weekly (so glad that didnt happen) but that I simply didn't believe in God and wasn't going to pretend that I did. I told her there might be a time I change my position on it, but it wouldnt be for her or anyone else. That she had to basically love me for me, and be okay with me not ever believing in God or an afterlife. She decided that she really needed to find someone that did believe in God, and so we agreed to end the relationship/friendship.
We had a great relationship too... It's a shame that God of all things ruined it. such a stupid concept.
I'm not a troll. Although I do like getting a rise out of you people because of how highly you hold sex in your plebian minds.
Yeah it's only the essential act of all human life as we know it..
Reproductive sex and recreational sex are two different things. I guess I don't have a big problem with reproductive sex (kids are ok, as long as they aren't mine). But fuck recreational sex.
I love it when people say.. I hate how I act when I drink.. What? Funnier, more laid back, more approachable, more apt to just let go and have fun? Yeah I hate that too..
I love it when people say.. I hate how I act when I drink.. What? Funnier, more laid back, more approachable, more apt to just let go and have fun? Yeah I hate that too..
Stupider, stumbling about, puking on the floor in a bar, not even able to focus on a videogame because I'm so fucking gone... yea that makes it worth it.
Not to mention the crushing depression that occurs after you sober up.
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I'm not a troll. Although I do like getting a rise out of you people because of how highly you hold sex in your plebian minds.
I seriously do not want sex, and think its disgusting and ruins relationships, but some of this is to get a rise too.
Sex is not honorable. Its a physically disgusting act, as well as mentally warping, addictive, and demeaning.
And it wasn't even the lack of sex that broke us up, that wasnt even an issue. We broke up because she came to the life decision that she wanted a strong Christian leader at the head of her household. I told her I was willing to go to church with her weekly (so glad that didnt happen) but that I simply didn't believe in God and wasn't going to pretend that I did. I told her there might be a time I change my position on it, but it wouldnt be for her or anyone else. That she had to basically love me for me, and be okay with me not ever believing in God or an afterlife. She decided that she really needed to find someone that did believe in God, and so we agreed to end the relationship/friendship.
We had a great relationship too... It's a shame that God of all things ruined it. such a stupid concept.
weed > sex lol
Not to mention the crushing depression that occurs after you sober up.