You've kissed two girls (closed mouth I presume), only relationship you had was really a friendship by definition, you're a young adult at 21 yet you say "I'm old and there's nothing left for me".
You think it'll be better but you'll still be depressed.. I've had similar thoughts as you when I was you get but not to your extreme.. You will long a real connection that is above a friendship no matter what eventually I assure you
Never even talked to a girl in high school didnt kiss a girl or lose my virginity till freshmen year of college used to think if prob never get a blowjob, that only porn peoe got that shit lmao i was lame as fuck.. I realized finally how retarded I was being and it's gotten better every year since im still no player by any means but I do ok .. You have to put effort in tho.. You put like a 5/100 total effort into being in a good relationship.. You gotta at least get to 75/100 what do you have to lose?
Never even talked to a girl in high school didnt kiss a girl or lose my virginity till freshmen year of college used to think if prob never get a blowjob, that only porn peoe got that shit lmao i was lame as fuck.. I realized finally how retarded I was being and it's gotten better every year since im still no player by any means but I do ok .. You have to put effort in tho.. You put like a 5/100 total effort into being in a good relationship.. You gotta at least get to 75/100 what do you have to lose?
And you're still single though. Do you see yourself getting married or finding a longtime girl? Honestly answer that.
There was this Alaska reality show on mtv last year and one dude was literally a carbon copy of mc.. Big, grizzly, giant beard, frizzy hair, no self esteem... Get brought a rose to the bar and balled up and asked the first cute girl around him out and gave her the rose.. A week later she was his gf.. You're full of shit with logic, you're just scared .. You have to start thinking more positive, it's the only way good thingswill start happening to you.. Once again what the fuck do you have to lose? You're already horribly depressed it only goes up from here lol
Never even talked to a girl in high school didnt kiss a girl or lose my virginity till freshmen year of college used to think if prob never get a blowjob, that only porn peoe got that shit lmao i was lame as fuck.. I realized finally how retarded I was being and it's gotten better every year since im still no player by any means but I do ok .. You have to put effort in tho.. You put like a 5/100 total effort into being in a good relationship.. You gotta at least get to 75/100 what do you have to lose?
And you're still single though. Do you see yourself getting married or finding a longtime girl? Honestly answer that.
Yes I do.. I'm with you in that girls your age kinda suck for what you're looking for.. That's why you need to use all the resources possible to search for happiness.. I've said it before internet dating where people are more serious would be your best option.. Swallow your pride, lose your negative philosophy, quit being a slob, and give it your all.. I bet even putting in crazy effort will increase your self esteem even if it doesn't work..my biggest problemis I'm obsessed with poon so I ways have to walk the line of hot vs date able.. You don't have that problem so you already have an advantage over me.. I have had pretty terrible luck with girls but I remain optimistic because there were some amazing times in there as well that I'd never want to forget..from so eone who has been more so unsuccessful, it was all still worth it and my only regret was not trying harder
There was this Alaska reality show on mtv last year and one dude was literally a carbon copy of mc.. Big, grizzly, giant beard, frizzy hair, no self esteem... Get brought a rose to the bar and balled up and asked the first cute girl around him out and gave her the rose.. A week later she was his gf.. You're full of shit with logic, you're just scared .. You have to start thinking more positive, it's the only way good thingswill start happening to you.. Once again what the fuck do you have to lose? You're already horribly depressed it only goes up from here lol
I can always get more depressed. I can always get rejected more, dumped again, add to my list of exes. If I get this way with this one girl, how can I expect to stay sane with more girls fucking with my head?
What you gotta do, and I struggle with this too, is you gotta stop putting too much emotion in it right away.. Let it grow first.. Hurt usually come cuz people like me and you care too much too fast.. I'm not saying don't care about them more so like pretend the person isn't even available and your talking to them just as you would anyone .. When I talk to a girl that is unavailable I'm smooth as shit but when they're single way worse..you just gotta stay relaxed have confidence and don't get too emotional too fast.. And for the live of good no paragraphs if doom about your feelings.. They don't work. At all.
No what girls would love that you could do and they'd be the type of girls you'd like ? Charity shit girls love that shit.. If you did some co ed charity shit and stayed positive I guarantee you could find someone interested.. That takes effort tho
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My lord, child. Drink a tall glass of reality
If not, 0. Back to the basement. Im not about that struggle life. I dont need more heartache. I dont need to add to my list of exes.
didnt kiss a girl or lose my virginity till freshmen year of college
used to think if prob never get a blowjob, that only porn peoe got that shit lmao
i was lame as fuck.. I realized finally how retarded I was being and it's gotten better every year since
im still no player by any means but I do ok .. You have to put effort in tho.. You put like a 5/100 total effort into being in a good relationship.. You gotta at least get to 75/100 what do you have to lose?
eone who has been more so unsuccessful, it was all still worth it and my only regret was not trying harder
girls love that shit.. If you did some co ed charity shit and stayed positive I guarantee you could find someone interested.. That takes effort tho