So it's a pride thing. If in 2 years you sincerely wanna smoke some loud, you're gonna fight it due to pride's sake simply to avoid being a "hypocrite" to your ignorant ways.
Even if I someday wanted to have sex or do drugs, I wouldnt. Because that would be hypocritical and impious towards my current lifestyle. I cant say all these things today, and turn around and start doing them because I give in to some unwritten standard of behavior. And Im not talking about belief changes, my beliefs are changing all the time. Im talking about actions.
I dont want to turn out like Erik.
Not trying to attack you, but being stuck in one mindset and never trying to advance your experience, is worse then being a hypocrite. I'm not saying go do drugs because I don't care if you do or don't. But drugs are only bad because "they" tell you their bad. Whether it's your government or your preacher or teachers or whatever but for centuries drugs have been used as a rite of passage, or for a spiritual journey, or even to expand minds. Oh and btw caffeine is a drug, but "they" say, it's ok to ingest that drug but not these ones. So that makes it ok? it is possible to experiment with drugs without ever letting it take over your life. i do all sorts of drugs and I've never been fired from a job, charged with a crime, killed anyone, never not paid my bills because I thought getting high was the priority.
@wake, id never date someday I just met at a bar either. I feel like you should at least be friends first. Be able to hang out with them when you're not potentially dating first.
) ) your dating method is "Let me friendzone myself, and then try and change that to long term relationship" ) ) jesus christ that is funny.
Sometimes it does work being friends first, but that's only if it's clear that there is some kind of interests first. With MC's position there's not the interest a girl would want to see, so she's going to immediately friendZone him first.
@wake, id never date someday I just met at a bar either. I feel like you should at least be friends first. Be able to hang out with them when you're not potentially dating first.
) ) your dating method is "Let me friendzone myself, and then try and change that to long term relationship" ) ) jesus christ that is funny.
I dont give a shit about some random girl enough to want to date her. Im sorry. I dont look at girls like most dudes. Physical appearance doesnt determine a datable girl for me. I need to be able to get along with her, share interests, find her interesting, like her personality, etc. Thats only possible by becoming friends first.
I've already concluded MC is never going to be in a relationship let alone go on dates. This is what happens when you cage your mind and prevent yourself from expanding as a person
Or you can, y'know, go on a date or two and determine if you have all those things before just being stuck as a friend
This is it. I can appreciate what MC said about wanting to have common interest, and find her interesting, and yadda yadda yadda. And that is what dating is for. You don't ask a girl out on a date to get married. You ask her out to see if you have interest in her, common interests, etc. That's what dating is. And if you don't want to fuck her on the first date, most girls would appreciate that. dating is a numbers game.
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You ever beat your meat? Blast the staff? Pound your prick? :-?
I'm not saying go do drugs because I don't care if you do or don't. But drugs are only bad because "they" tell you their bad. Whether it's your government or your preacher or teachers or whatever but for centuries drugs have been used as a rite of passage, or for a spiritual journey, or even to expand minds.
Oh and btw caffeine is a drug, but "they" say, it's ok to ingest that drug but not these ones. So that makes it ok?
it is possible to experiment with drugs without ever letting it take over your life.
i do all sorts of drugs and I've never been fired from a job, charged with a crime, killed anyone, never not paid my bills because I thought getting high was the priority.