And i honestly wouldnt have called any of those dates "awesome".
Then why would you be like "Fuck it! Lets be serious! you're my gf now and I shall marry you and love you for the rest of my days"
Look I think you are doing dating all wrong. If you go out on a date with a girl and you arent feeling it.... Don't call her back! That's how dating works. Or if she asks for your number, give her the number for some mens rape hotline. People get that sort of message.
And i honestly wouldnt have called any of those dates "awesome".
Then why would you be like "Fuck it! Lets be serious! you're my gf now and I shall marry you and love you for the rest of my days"
Look I think you are doing dating all wrong. If you go out on a date with a girl and you arent feeling it.... Don't call her back! That's how dating works. Or if she asks for your number, give her the number for some mens rape hotline. People get that sort of message.
Thats why we broke up. I mean it was fun for a while, but not amazing or something super special. Then it got really bad.
From what ive seen, dating is no longer "lets go for a movie and milkshakes and if we dont like it, we wont call eachother again". Its a long term thing now. Ive never seen people date like that. All of them at least last a month.
From what ive seen, dating is no longer "lets go for a movie and milkshakes and if we dont like it, we wont call eachother again". Its a long term thing now. Ive never seen people date like that. All of them at least last a month.
This is 100% incorrect. I know lots of people that date today... Maybe it's a terminology thing, but I know lots of people who say "Im going to meet up for drinks with this chick I found off tinder today" <- that's a date. They arent dating... they arent serious. They are just meeting for drinks to feel each other out and see if they want to see each other again. And you keep doing this until either you or that person say to the other "you know. I think im starting to have feelings for you. Can you please not see other people?" then you are bf and gf.
Honestly you put way too much significance into this man. Im not even hating.
MC, I'm going to be honest with you for a minute. I first started my crusade against drugs and booze when I really came to grips with shit at about age 15. I was straight edge for nearly four years. I was hardcore as fuck about it too. I never gave a fuck if someone else was drinking or smoking, but I wouldn't even touch a cigarette. Some shit happened and I was at a real shit period. That was when I first started smoking and drinking and to be 100% honest...I'm happy I started. I was giving into propaganda, especially when it came to weed. But sometimes after a stressful busy day a good smoke or a good drink just makes things better. Definitely makes social gatherings funner. Here's the thing though, I know the reason I started was the wrong reason; using booze and weed for short term relief to deal with a long term problem. On the other hand, I learned alot. Weed is not some devil substance like so many people make it out to be. And I think you view it as pointless because you have the "If that's the only way you can have fun you guys aren't trying hard enough." But smoking or drinking aren't "the fun" in our lives, they just add so much more to a great time we're already having.
0. Not trying to convert. Never have, never will because that shit ain't my business and I could care less if he does it or not. I just thought hearing something from a person who used to be straight edge who changed his mind about shit would help his overwhelming negativity towards himself and his unwillingness to realize that changing your mind down the road wouldn't be considered hypocrisy.
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Look I think you are doing dating all wrong. If you go out on a date with a girl and you arent feeling it.... Don't call her back! That's how dating works. Or if she asks for your number, give her the number for some mens rape hotline. People get that sort of message.
Honestly you put way too much significance into this man. Im not even hating.