Wow. I think you did the right thing man. As hard as a decision as it was. So is she denying it to you or will she come Clean now that the pressure is on? Did you give the name of he student too? She may just bluff it and deny it and ask for proof from the school?
I have her ass on tape blowing this kid, along with 5 hours of audio that absolutely confirms an ongoing sexual affair...nothing for her to deny, she knows I have recordings... Today I simply called and said her name and the guy's name are having an affair. the secretary tried to put me on hold to speak with someone else, and I hung up....
This is a case where you'd feel like shit if you just let it go. I firmly believe you did the right thing. Calling in anonymously with all those feels takes a lot, dude.
This is a case where you'd feel like shit if you just let it go. I firmly believe you did the right thing. Calling in anonymously with all those feels takes a lot, dude.
we are fucked either way...financially and otherwise...
Things will turn out for the better. You may struggle financially throughout this whole process, and the emotions will be horrible... but it's the higher road. Nobody should have to ever go through this sort of thing, buddy. People realize that and are going to be here for you 100% of the way.
What's with the wtf flag? I'm not saying run and tell them mom is getting D on the side with a student, but it sounds like there is a lot going on and some tension in the house and kids pick up on that shit. They are gonna know something is up, especially if things escalate from where they are right now. Are you trying to hide it from them, are you going to be open and honest with them? Are you going to prepare them for any potential blow back from their mom's indescretions becoming public news, and possibly a criminal situation? How are they going to deal with it when it becomes breaking news at their school? If the proverbial shit is about to hit the fan, you may want to get them ready for some of the shit they will be dealing with in the future.
Things will turn out for the better. You may struggle financially throughout this whole process, and the emotions will be horrible... but it's the higher road. Nobody should have to ever go through this sort of thing, buddy. People realize that and are going to be here for you 100% of the way.
^ This Dont worry about the money You and your kids health and wellbeing is the most important thing
This is awful, and I'm very sorry you have to go through this. Just know that we are all here to support you in any way we can. >:D<
My parents just finalized their divorce, and my grandparents are in the process of divorcing because of cheating. I can say from experience that you need to find a way to deal with telling the kids. It made it much easier for me and my sister to handle things because we kind of had some warning before shit hit the fan. I know our case isn't quite the same, but I think it's important that your kids aren't completely caught off guard about everything.
The night my mom confronted my stepdad about everything, I didn't have any warning at all, and it made things awful, but they got back together, and when they re-split a year later, they both gave us some warning and it made it much easier to deal with emotionally. Same with my grandparents...the warning made it easier. Doesn't make it suck any less, but it makes it easier to deal with the emotional side of things.
Of course, this is just my opinion. You be the judge and do what you think is right for you and your kids.
What's with the wtf flag? I'm not saying run and tell them mom is getting D on the side with a student, but it sounds like there is a lot going on and some tension in the house and kids pick up on that shit. They are gonna know something is up, especially if things escalate from where they are right now. Are you trying to hide it from them, are you going to be open and honest with them? Are you going to prepare them for any potential blow back from their mom's indescretions becoming public news, and possibly a criminal situation? How are they going to deal with it when it becomes breaking news at their school? If the proverbial shit is about to hit the fan, you may want to get them ready for some of the shit they will be dealing with in the future.
shit dawg, sorry i meant 'wtf' like agreeing wit u; like wtf am I gonna say to them....
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Today I simply called and said her name and the guy's name are having an affair. the secretary tried to put me on hold to speak with someone else, and I hung up....
Now all we need is a "fukkov izza gat a btich preggznat" thread from catz...
This is a case where you'd feel like shit if you just let it go. I firmly believe you did the right thing. Calling in anonymously with all those feels takes a lot, dude.
Dont worry about the money
You and your kids health and wellbeing is the most important thing
My parents just finalized their divorce, and my grandparents are in the process of divorcing because of cheating. I can say from experience that you need to find a way to deal with telling the kids. It made it much easier for me and my sister to handle things because we kind of had some warning before shit hit the fan. I know our case isn't quite the same, but I think it's important that your kids aren't completely caught off guard about everything.
The night my mom confronted my stepdad about everything, I didn't have any warning at all, and it made things awful, but they got back together, and when they re-split a year later, they both gave us some warning and it made it much easier to deal with emotionally. Same with my grandparents...the warning made it easier. Doesn't make it suck any less, but it makes it easier to deal with the emotional side of things.
Of course, this is just my opinion. You be the judge and do what you think is right for you and your kids.
shit dawg, sorry i meant 'wtf' like agreeing wit u; like wtf am I gonna say to them....