I think he should do what he feels is right. Fact is he knocked a girl up and know he's got to deal with that. He should stop thinking about it so much that it causes headaches, that ain't good. Both should talk about what's best for the both of them together. What you think might be best becausd of his age, her age, financials, ect might not be what they think is best. Tbh I think Dirball posted this on here for some positive help from different people in different places who've quite possibly been through similar shit. Problem is this forum isn't that positive anymore
If you don't think sometimes you should keep your opinion to yourself you really should re consider
no one was trying to narrow his options, its obvious abortion is an option. But coming right out and saying thats what he should do is not only insensitive but also cowardly. You not making it sound like its an option, but that its his only option. Your my homie but the bluntness of your opinion on this makes you sound extremely selfish. Sometimes life isn't always about yourself and how do you think it would make her feel if he suggested that to her. Your opinion on the subject is as if you would only care about how you would feel if you were in the situation, And when a baby is involved there are a lot more peoples feelings then just yourself.
Anyways, I don't want a kid, because I'm selfish and too self centered, and I'd be a terrible Dad. 'Least I can admit that. Plus, it's always occurred to me, what if I had a kid born retarded, autistic, any kind of severely debilitating disability? I couldn't handle a normal kid, let alone one that would take so much extra care, plus, I always feel bad for others that are retarded, etc., and have to go through life like that, and if it was my kid, I'd hate myself, and wish I coulda known way earlier, so an abortion coulda been done, so that he/she doesn't have to suffer through life like that.
If you don't think sometimes you should keep your opinion to yourself you really should re consider
no one was trying to narrow his options, its obvious abortion is an option. But coming right out and saying thats what he should do is not only insensitive but also cowardly. You not making it sound like its an option, but that its his only option. Your my homie but the bluntness of your opinion on this makes you sound extremely selfish. Sometimes life isn't always about yourself and how do you think it would make her feel if he suggested that to her. Your opinion on the subject is as if you would only care about how you would feel if you were in the situation, And when a baby is involved there are a lot more peoples feelings then just yourself.
Dide I isn't give him. Negative reaction I wishe him luck with everything About tr situation, you're just takin the why you believe to be negative or selfish and running with it and not looking at any of the positives I'm saying. I have a lot of experience I sat there while babies parents were too heroines up to feed it and had to feed the baby myself. I saw people's lives not just people the baby that is born into the world them propels parents and everyone around get ducked up over nighas makin bad decisions. I just have a strong opinion on this issue. Like it or not, idc but if keeping another baby out of this world that has a shitty upbringing and shotty family life is what needs to be said I have no issue saying it. Now I'm not saying that's dirtball, all I want to do is wish the kid luck in his future. I think hees a good guy and would be alright either way.
Now hop off my cock faggots. I'm going out with my friends cause I have no baby to watch. :bz
Also Dirt. I hope everything works out for you. Pregnant women are crazy tho, just do everything she asks, don't argue even when she yells at you and its not justified. Its gonna be a bitch lol, but it will be worth it, even if you guys don't stay together she won't be able to just move back out of state if you have a lawyer. Hopefully it works out for the two of you but there is nothing wrong with single parents. Keep us updated tho cause some of us are hoping for the best for you out of a tough situation
Also Dirt. I hope everything works out for you. Pregnant women are crazy tho, just do everything she asks, don't argue even when she yells at you and its not justified. Its gonna be a bitch lol, but it will be worth it, even if you guys don't stay together she won't be able to just move back out of state if you have a lawyer. Hopefully it works out for the two of you but there is nothing wrong with single parents. Keep us updated tho cause some of us are hoping for the best for you out of a tough situation
This is basically what I want to say to dirtball too! We're just coming from different opinions. Good luck dirt and Take the advice of parents on here, they can and will help you!
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no one was trying to narrow his options, its obvious abortion is an option. But coming right out and saying thats what he should do is not only insensitive but also cowardly. You not making it sound like its an option, but that its his only option. Your my homie but the bluntness of your opinion on this makes you sound extremely selfish. Sometimes life isn't always about yourself and how do you think it would make her feel if he suggested that to her. Your opinion on the subject is as if you would only care about how you would feel if you were in the situation, And when a baby is involved there are a lot more peoples feelings then just yourself.
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Now hop off my cock faggots. I'm going out with my friends cause I have no baby to watch. :bz
Im just simply saying how much do you know about his life that is actually fact?
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