Thing is though, he should tread lightly. You never know. Bf could be a fucking psychopath. You don't want to put shit on the line for a girl who a.) can't commit to one dude and b.) keeps playin games with you.
I think people are too lenient with it. It should be something special.... I'd need for it to be the girl's first time too though. That window seems to be shrinking fast.
I think people are too lenient with it. It should be something special.... I'd need for it to be the girl's first time too though. That window seems to be shrinking fast.
How's that working out for you? People need to give up this fairy tale image of relationships sex and love..?real life is more messy and unpredictable
Well Im not giving in to it. I see how sex changes people. Even on here. It changes the perception of relationships and sex in general. Dating becomes more about "how to get laid" than about getting to know someone. It becomes more of a thing to do because you're bored, and less of a form of expressing your feelings for someone. I dont want to give in to that.
And yes, I am THAT insecure about myself. I couldnt be with somone that laid with other dudes. Im willing to bet all of you remember your first time. Thats something that sticks with you. Knowing that a girl has memories of her first time with some other dude just doesnt sit right with me. Not to mention I'd be internally struggling with the fact that I'd have to be better than any other dude she was with. I need someone with no frame of reference. Additionally the thought of sticking my dick where someone elses dick was kinda grosses me out as well. If I feel that close to a girl where Id want to be that open and vaunerable with her, Id want complete openness. A sexual past could prevent that.
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yeah that's how I feel. I just ain't trying to be no side bitch either
I just don't see much of a difference with wanting a chick who has a bf and positioning yourself for her and actually cheating
That's why you don't put it on the line... Hit it and quit it
People put to much emphasis on "first time" imo just get it over with or you keep putting it off
I think people are too lenient with it. It should be something special.... I'd need for it to be the girl's first time too though. That window seems to be shrinking fast.
How's that working out for you? People need to give up this fairy tale image of relationships sex and love..?real life is more messy and unpredictable
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Well Im not giving in to it. I see how sex changes people. Even on here. It changes the perception of relationships and sex in general. Dating becomes more about "how to get laid" than about getting to know someone. It becomes more of a thing to do because you're bored, and less of a form of expressing your feelings for someone. I dont want to give in to that.
And yes, I am THAT insecure about myself. I couldnt be with somone that laid with other dudes. Im willing to bet all of you remember your first time. Thats something that sticks with you. Knowing that a girl has memories of her first time with some other dude just doesnt sit right with me. Not to mention I'd be internally struggling with the fact that I'd have to be better than any other dude she was with. I need someone with no frame of reference. Additionally the thought of sticking my dick where someone elses dick was kinda grosses me out as well. If I feel that close to a girl where Id want to be that open and vaunerable with her, Id want complete openness. A sexual past could prevent that.
Dude you're absolutely fucked the modern day girl won't be that way , I'm sorry
You're only hope is to find a churchy girl but good luck showing her some cannibal corpse
it's funny to me when people think they have to choose between sex and a meaningful respectful relationship, you know you can have both right ?
girls want sex just as much as guys do