Starting to realize something, it's almost fucking impossible to be happy when you're trying to make others happy.
Your number 1 primary goal in life should be to make yourself happy. Sometimes making others happy has the side effect of making you happy too, and that's a good thing that a secondary life goal lines up with the primary life goal... But in general if you are not doing all you can to make your life happy, you doing life all wrong.
I do feel bursts of happiness when I make other people happy. Focusing on yourself first is selfish.
Yep it is, but what you fail to realize is that being selfish isnt necessarily a bad thing. Many great things come out of being selfish. Lets take your pathetic life as an example....
You claim to put everyone above yourself and because of it you are a miserable person that no one likes to be around. Being around people like this (you) makes people feel depressed and miserable. Now lets say you changed this aspect of yourself and you were more selfish and started living life to make you happy. Now you are happy, positive, and determined. Everyone likes being around someone that is happy and positive and successful. Being around people like that has a side effect of making others feel happy. So what positive effect has been gained from you putting others first? You've made the world a worse place MC. You'd be better off putting a shotgun in your mouth.
And this is a very trivial example of why it is good to be selfish. Being selfish is an important quality in being successful in business. If you are successful in business then you will be creating jobs for many people, which helps them provide for their life and families and gives them more opportunities for being happy in their life.
I could do this all day. The made up story of Jesus Christ is a fucking farce and not realistic. You need to stop thinking your life needs to be like this imaginary character, because it's a recipe for failure.
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You claim to put everyone above yourself and because of it you are a miserable person that no one likes to be around. Being around people like this (you) makes people feel depressed and miserable. Now lets say you changed this aspect of yourself and you were more selfish and started living life to make you happy. Now you are happy, positive, and determined. Everyone likes being around someone that is happy and positive and successful. Being around people like that has a side effect of making others feel happy. So what positive effect has been gained from you putting others first? You've made the world a worse place MC. You'd be better off putting a shotgun in your mouth.
And this is a very trivial example of why it is good to be selfish. Being selfish is an important quality in being successful in business. If you are successful in business then you will be creating jobs for many people, which helps them provide for their life and families and gives them more opportunities for being happy in their life.
I could do this all day. The made up story of Jesus Christ is a fucking farce and not realistic. You need to stop thinking your life needs to be like this imaginary character, because it's a recipe for failure.