BT should go to Lybia and tell those rebels to just laugh off the bullet wounds and torn limbs. I mean, its the same thing..... just at a different, bigger, scale.
BT should go to Lybia and tell those rebels to just laugh off the bullet wounds and torn limbs. I mean, its the same thing..... just at a different, bigger, scale.
I have to disagree. These are two completely different situations, and imo you can't compare the two.
BT should go to Lybia and tell those rebels to just laugh off the bullet wounds and torn limbs. I mean, its the same thing..... just at a different, bigger, scale.
Yes, I saw that. It still comes off to me like you're suggesting she treat it the same way when you say that according to her they should just "laugh it off".
BT should go to Lybia and tell those rebels to just laugh off the bullet wounds and torn limbs. I mean, its the same thing..... just at a different, bigger, scale.
I have to disagree. These are two completely different situations, and imo you can't compare the two.
tell me how bullies differ from dictators? ..... except in difference in scale
I'm guessing on speculation, not trying to convince you that's how you acted, lol. I did the same thing as you did, but they just knew that they could crack me. It was later than I started turning my sadness into anger, then started showing it.
And how do you know that? Just because your social doesn't mean you can't have a bad life or have traumatic things happen to you. Of course, you are right, I do believe the other reason you get made fun of is when someone starts it then others join in. They're comfortable making fun of you because they honestly don't know how bad it affects you. But they aren't evil, man. It's just how people work. If you were a total dork like me in school, then you were just an easy target. Someone's gotta be it. :-))
you also don't know how these kids acted like I do. the worst that happened to this kids was their parents got divorced. fuckin wah. I did not show them sadness or anger like you say you did. I wasn't completely apathetic, but I didn't say shit back or even acknowledge their existence. I'm not saying they're evil either but they have poor fuckin character and they deserve whatever karma will bring to them. no matter how much I tried to keep to myself they would always say shit.
I could never imagine my parents getting divorced, man. That would really mess me up.
And again, I really do think that even though you were mostly apathetic, you were still bothered by what they were saying. Imo, whether you realize it or not you of had to show some kind of body language, even if it was small. Also, the way you were dressed, looked, if you were the quiet kid in the classrom, etc. made you the target.
I'm glad you understand they aren't evil, but I don't think you should wish poorly on people who did make fun of you whether they went through some shit or not. They judged you, but I think you should be above judging them.
As I said earlier, from what I experienced and how I am now I regret (even though I also suffer from severe depression) how many days I wasted crying over stupid things like what other kids thought about me. It's not like I was starving, my home life was bad, etc. It was just kids at school. I just find things like that to be extremely petty. And I'm not saying you're a petty person, I just think it makes everyone's lives easier if you learn how to control your emotions and truly not let people bother you.
Hating things is a waste of time. Anger is a great emotion, but you should only get angry about things that really matter.
tell me how bullies differ from dictators? ..... except in difference in scale
Because it's much more complicated than that. We live in a first world country where we can solve things in a civil manner. Third world countries don't have that option.
BT should go to Lybia and tell those rebels to just laugh off the bullet wounds and torn limbs. I mean, its the same thing..... just at a different, bigger, scale.
I have to disagree. These are two completely different situations, and imo you can't compare the two.
tell me how bullies differ from dictators? ..... except in difference in scale
I think what we're trying to say is that the scale difference is so large that it's unfair to compare the two situations. It's like saying that just because someone wants to decriminalize weed and you say that they should be for decriminalizing massive Columbian drug deals. I don't know why that was the first thing to pop in my mind but I hope you get where I'm coming from.
When I started dressing in all black (lolz) in middle school, this one girl gave me some shit but it wasn't anything worth being bothered about. Aside from a few "hey ur ugly lol" or "u stupid goth go worship satan" no one gave me shit. :bz
When I started dressing in all black (lolz) in middle school, this one girl gave me some shit but it wasn't anything worth being bothered about. Aside from a few "hey ur ugly lol" or "u stupid goth go worship satan" no one gave me shit. :bz
You seem like the type of kid who truly did not give a shit what people thought of them, thus why no one gave you shit. :-))
When I started dressing in all black (lolz) in middle school, this one girl gave me some shit but it wasn't anything worth being bothered about. Aside from a few "hey ur ugly lol" or "u stupid goth go worship satan" no one gave me shit. :bz
You seem like the type of kid who truly did not give a shit what people thought of them, thus why no one gave you shit. :-))
tell me how bullies differ from dictators? ..... except in difference in scale
Because it's much more complicated than that. We live in a first world country where we can solve things in a civil manner. Third world countries don't have that option.
what does money have to do with civility?.... of all the things I've heard America being called; "Civil" is not one of them.
btw.... that happened in Australia.
and what exactly is civil?.... sitting down over a cup of tea and discussing WHY it is that the kid is putting his hands on the fat kid?
Do you remember that story where 4 or 5 girls beat the living crap out of another girl, and taped it?.... she never let it bother her prior to that, and look at what the result was.
wind back a month or two and her DEFENDING herself from a bully with a scuffle.... and guaranteed that video tape would have never have happened.
When I started dressing in all black (lolz) in middle school, this one girl gave me some shit but it wasn't anything worth being bothered about. Aside from a few "hey ur ugly lol" or "u stupid goth go worship satan" no one gave me shit. :bz
That's cuz they knew youd get all Razor up in dat bitch.
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And again, I really do think that even though you were mostly apathetic, you were still bothered by what they were saying. Imo, whether you realize it or not you of had to show some kind of body language, even if it was small. Also, the way you were dressed, looked, if you were the quiet kid in the classrom, etc. made you the target.
I'm glad you understand they aren't evil, but I don't think you should wish poorly on people who did make fun of you whether they went through some shit or not. They judged you, but I think you should be above judging them.
As I said earlier, from what I experienced and how I am now I regret (even though I also suffer from severe depression) how many days I wasted crying over stupid things like what other kids thought about me. It's not like I was starving, my home life was bad, etc. It was just kids at school. I just find things like that to be extremely petty. And I'm not saying you're a petty person, I just think it makes everyone's lives easier if you learn how to control your emotions and truly not let people bother you.
Hating things is a waste of time. Anger is a great emotion, but you should only get angry about things that really matter.
btw.... that happened in Australia.
and what exactly is civil?.... sitting down over a cup of tea and discussing WHY it is that the kid is putting his hands on the fat kid?
Do you remember that story where 4 or 5 girls beat the living crap out of another girl, and taped it?.... she never let it bother her prior to that, and look at what the result was.
wind back a month or two and her DEFENDING herself from a bully with a scuffle.... and guaranteed that video tape would have never have happened.