Wtf, omg, so all the shit Rebecca Black is getting she needs to "get over it" but the fat kid is a hero? Are you fucking kidding me?
Both those kids in that video are so fucking young. Why would you tell these kids to burn in hell? They're fucking kids. They don't know any better, and the more you give into your violent feelings anyway the more you WILL become violent and act upon them. It's called conditioning.
Christ.
Can not agree at all. The gopher fag is 12, not 5, he knew damn well what he was doing, and if he can abuse someone based on their weight, he can take it right back. Karma is a bitch, fuck that faggot. Plus, the fat kid is 15, my age.
And yes, Rebecca Black CAN get over it. She's getting bashed on a stupid song she made, completely different than getting made fun of for your looks/weight/etc. She's also not getting physically abused like he was. I wish that kid got both ankles broken rather than a few scars.
LOL WUT? The kid is fucking 12, and the 15 year old allowed himself to be bothered by him in the first place? What a little whiny bitch, seriously.
In my experiences, bullies do stop when you ignore them. Only you make yourself angry. YOU control your emotions. Sharks smell blood in the water. Don't make yourself a target over petty bullshit and they WILL leave you alone.
And yes, Rebecca Black CAN get over it. She's getting bashed on a stupid song she made, completely different than getting made fun of for your looks/weight/etc. She's also not getting physically abused like he was. I wish that kid got both ankles broken rather than a few scars.
So emotional abuse is less worse than physical abuse?! And dude, for a 13 year old all these death threats and shit IS pretty harsh.
I don't think you realize the power of the internet and the people on it.
Kid got abused his entire life and contemplated suicide at 14. -___- Gopher deserved it. Fuck him. I give major props to the other kid for bodyslamming that piece of shit and making himself be feared rather than ridiculed. That's how you get it done. Nigger in 5th grade constantly used to call me cracker and fat. Choked the fuck out of him one time and it stopped. Want shit done, you do it yourself.
LOL WUT? The kid is fucking 12, and the 15 year old allowed himself to be bothered by him in the first place? What a little whiny bitch, seriously.
In my experiences, bullies do stop when you ignore them. Only you make yourself angry. YOU control your emotions. Sharks smell blood in the water. Don't make yourself a target over petty bullshit and they WILL leave you alone.
He was automatically a target because of his weight and looks. And I'm sure he tried to ignore it...but getting it done to you literally everyday is hard to ignore. Sure, the other kid probably has problems too. But that is NO reason to bully people to make yourself feel better. I would have layed the fucker out also.
The bully isn't the one who caused this kid to have a bad self esteem then. I had suicidal thoughts from when I was 9 but because depression runs in my family. Oh, and I WAS the fat kid for a very long time. So yeah, I know all about that jazz. I was constantly made fun of and picked on to the point of crying every day. It made me so hateful because my rage got in the way of understanding WHY they did this. So I made myself a target. I'm the only one who let them get to me, thus why they kept going after me. It was my fault.
I found out later one of my most prominent bullies was physically and mentally abused by his parents every fucking day. THAT is why he always made me the center of ridicule every day. I understand that now, and feel just awful for hating him as much as I did.
All I'm saying is that there is much more to your problems than "OMG BULLIES". Mental illnesses are the root of an awful self esteem, not other people. If you cannot control your emotions and ignore these things there IS something wrong with you and you need to fix it and not expect other people to change for you.
LOL WUT? The kid is fucking 12, and the 15 year old allowed himself to be bothered by him in the first place? What a little whiny bitch, seriously.
In my experiences, bullies do stop when you ignore them. Only you make yourself angry. YOU control your emotions. Sharks smell blood in the water. Don't make yourself a target over petty bullshit and they WILL leave you alone.
Obviously no one left the kid alone. If he's been bullied his whole life and this is the first time he snaps, then that CLEARLY shows that ignoring them didn't do jack shit. He had to finally fight back and that alone sent a message to the bully and now he stopped fucking with him. Ignoring and telling doesn't work most of the time. You have to stand up for yourself and this kid did that. You are calling him a whiny bitch cause of his age? You are going to actually sit back and tell me you would get punched multiple times and not do anything? You would just let someone walk all over you and psychically abuse you because you think it's ok cause he's 12 and doesn't know better? come on now that's just ridicules.
Thing is, no one should HAVE to go through that, whether or not they can deal with it mentally is not the point, but no one should have to go through that regardless, so I don't give a fuck, that little queer got what he had coming to him, wish it would have been more than what he got and he proceeded to beat the living shit out of him after he bodyslammed him.
Obviously no one left the kid alone. If he's been bullied his whole life and this is the first time he snaps, then that CLEARLY shows that ignoring them didn't do jack shit. He had to finally fight back and that alone sent a message to the bully and now he stopped fucking with him. Ignoring and telling doesn't work most of the time. You have to stand up for yourself and this kid did that. You are calling him a whiny bitch cause of his age? You are going to actually sit back and tell me you would get punched multiple times and not do anything? You would just let someone walk all over you and psychically abuse you because you think it's ok cause he's 12 and doesn't know better? come on now that's just ridicules.
I highly doubt he actually ignored him and kept his emotions in control. He's only convincing himself of that.
And yes, I would. Because it actually has happened to me before, at that age. This chick punched me several times as hard as she could. I laughed in her face. She left me alone from then on despite the fact I was her target for a long time, and she would avoid me.
It's not letting someone walk all over you. It's you being the bigger person. Again, only you control your emotions. I'm pretty sure if the fat kid didn't have any mental problems or a bad self esteem none of that would happen in the first place.
There's always more to the story. But I was made fun of since primary school. I'm not even sure why. My hair? Clothes? I have no idea. It never stopped either...all the way into high school. I've never been fat, so idk what that's like. But at least when I got to high school the chuckles stopped. But I knew they still made fun of me behind my back...that's just common sense. Just no one had the balls to say anything to me because I was dubbed Satan.
Sure, bullys usually have a reason for what they do...but they're weak also. I have some sympathy for what some go through but that is no reason to do shit to someone else. That is even weaker imo. If you don't want that shit done to you, then why would you do it to someone else? No reason for it and it usually doesn't stop with ignoring, it gets worse. On some occasions it does, but if that's the case they're bullying you for fun and their own personal gain. Once you don't show anything anymore...they move onto their next target
Sometimes, they need the shit scared out of them so they won't do it anymore
Thing is, no one should HAVE to go through that, whether or not they can deal with it mentally is not the point, but no one should have to go through that regardless, so I don't give a fuck, that little queer got what he had coming to him, wish it would have been more than what he got and he proceeded to beat the living shit out of him after he bodyslammed him.
Then that turns you into a bully and makes you just as bad as they were. Fighting is primitive. And you're right, nobody should have to go through it, but it happens. The best thing you can do is embrace it, and be control of your emotions.
That's why I'm so fucking happy now and love everything. I'm finally in control after a decade of not being able to. Nothing bothers me anymore. When you're able to roll with the punches when someone dishes it out, you know you're stable. Hating does nothing.
I also have no sympathy for "AW HE WAS ABUSED MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY SO THAT GIVES HIM THE RIGHT TO BULLY. " because I was abused mentally and physically from a young age by my Dad and I never intentionally bullied anyone in my life, so that's a load of bullshit.
Sure, bullys usually have a reason for what they do...but they're weak also. I have some sympathy for what some go through but that is no reason to do shit to someone else. That is even weaker imo. If you don't want that shit done to you, then why would you do it to someone else? No reason for it and it usually doesn't stop with ignoring, it gets worse. On some occasions it does, but if that's the case they're bullying you for fun and their own personal gain. Once you don't show anything anymore...they move onto their next target
Sometimes, they need the shit scared out of them so they won't do it anymore
You just answered your own question of why they bullied you in middle school, lol. You were, in their eyes, something to be jealous of. And you're absolutely right, nobody should be doing this shit to one another.
But this is why you should sympathize with bullies. Usually they are the target of either ridicule of their friends, or they come from an abusive home. Which, again, a lot of the people who were my primary bullies had a LOT of problems at home. That's why I think it's better to be nice to them because they haven't had someone to talk to about their problems. That's why they target you, because they think that if they're not happy then everyone else doesn't deserve to be happy, either. It's a never ending cycle of abuse, and by physically or mentally hurting someone right back you have just become a bully yourself.
I also have no sympathy for "AW HE WAS ABUSED MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY SO THAT GIVES HIM THE RIGHT TO BULLY. " because I was abused mentally and physically from a young age by my Dad and I never intentionally bullied anyone in my life, so that's a load of bullshit.
That's really sad and very unfortunate, dude. You obviously are a lot more stable than most people who have had to go through that. Kudos, seriously. Everybody is different in how they handle things. You have already shown you are better than that because you never had to prey on someone else to get that anger out.
And I never said anyone has the right to bully anyone. I'm just saying you should understand how that person works. Despite how many people try to deny this, how you act around others says a lot about a person.
Sure, bullys usually have a reason for what they do...but they're weak also. I have some sympathy for what some go through but that is no reason to do shit to someone else. That is even weaker imo. If you don't want that shit done to you, then why would you do it to someone else? No reason for it and it usually doesn't stop with ignoring, it gets worse. On some occasions it does, but if that's the case they're bullying you for fun and their own personal gain. Once you don't show anything anymore...they move onto their next target
Sometimes, they need the shit scared out of them so they won't do it anymore
You just answered your own question of why they bullied you in middle school, lol. You were, in their eyes, something to be jealous of. And you're absolutely right, nobody should be doing this shit to one another.
But this is why you should sympathize with bullies. Usually they are the target of either ridicule of their friends, or they come from an abusive home. Which, again, a lot of the people who were my primary bullies had a LOT of problems at home. That's why I think it's better to be nice to them because they haven't had someone to talk to about their problems. That's why they target you, because they think that if they're not happy then everyone else doesn't deserve to be happy, either. It's a never ending cycle of abuse, and by physically or mentally hurting someone right back you have just become a bully yourself.
I know for sure they weren't jealous. My clothes sucked and were gay, and my hair style wasn't great either. For the longest time I only had 2 friends. In primary school she was also friends with the people who made fun of me..so when recess happened I was pretty much left alone by myself on the wall. When I was in middle school I tried something different and started wearing clothes they were, seeing if that would shut em up. No, that made shit worse. So, by high school I had dark clothes, band shirts, and found the style I still kinda rock. And by then, it kinda stopped because I wasn't the main person to bully anymore. There was a gay kid the rednecks loved to pick on and the preppy kids made fun of dirty, ugly kids. Also, I was considered an ugly kid until the uglier ones showed up
If bullies are the target of their parents then they should suck it the fuck up and just talk to a counselor and not mentally and physically beat other kids down because their life is so unfortunate. Don't make other lives shit as well. Because of what they did to me for about 13 years I will never think I'm pretty at all. No matter how many people say so.or how many times Marc tells me. Maybe it's true I'm beautiful but I don't think I will ever see it and I never think highly of myself. Most of the people who did this had much more then me and were much more fortunate and had more money. If someone would have punched me a few times, I would have beat the shit out of em just like that fat kid
Sure, bullys usually have a reason for what they do...but they're weak also. I have some sympathy for what some go through but that is no reason to do shit to someone else. That is even weaker imo. If you don't want that shit done to you, then why would you do it to someone else? No reason for it and it usually doesn't stop with ignoring, it gets worse. On some occasions it does, but if that's the case they're bullying you for fun and their own personal gain. Once you don't show anything anymore...they move onto their next target
Sometimes, they need the shit scared out of them so they won't do it anymore
You just answered your own question of why they bullied you in middle school, lol. You were, in their eyes, something to be jealous of. And you're absolutely right, nobody should be doing this shit to one another.
But this is why you should sympathize with bullies. Usually they are the target of either ridicule of their friends, or they come from an abusive home. Which, again, a lot of the people who were my primary bullies had a LOT of problems at home. That's why I think it's better to be nice to them because they haven't had someone to talk to about their problems. That's why they target you, because they think that if they're not happy then everyone else doesn't deserve to be happy, either. It's a never ending cycle of abuse, and by physically or mentally hurting someone right back you have just become a bully yourself.
I know for sure they weren't jealous. My clothes sucked and were gay, and my hair style wasn't great either. For the longest time I only had 2 friends. In primary school she was also friends with the people who made fun of me..so when recess happened I was pretty much left alone by myself on the wall. When I was in middle school I tried something different and started wearing clothes they were, seeing if that would shut em up. No, that made shit worse. So, by high school I had dark clothes, band shirts, and found the style I still kinda rock. And by then, it kinda stopped because I wasn't the main person to bully anymore. There was a gay kid the rednecks loved to pick on and the preppy kids made fun of dirty, ugly kids. Also, I was considered an ugly kid until the uglier ones showed up
If bullies are the target of their parents then they should suck it the fuck up and just talk to a counselor and not mentally and physically beat other kids down because their life is so unfortunate. Don't make other lives shit as well. Because of what they did to me for about 13 years I will never think I'm pretty at all. No matter how many people say so.or how many times Marc tells me. Maybe it's true I'm beautiful but I don't think I will ever see it and I never think highly of myself. Most of the people who did this had much more then me and were much more fortunate and had more money. If someone would have punched me a few times, I would have beat the shit out of em just like that fat kid
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And yes, Rebecca Black CAN get over it. She's getting bashed on a stupid song she made, completely different than getting made fun of for your looks/weight/etc. She's also not getting physically abused like he was. I wish that kid got both ankles broken rather than a few scars.
In my experiences, bullies do stop when you ignore them. Only you make yourself angry. YOU control your emotions. Sharks smell blood in the water. Don't make yourself a target over petty bullshit and they WILL leave you alone.
I don't think you realize the power of the internet and the people on it.
I found out later one of my most prominent bullies was physically and mentally abused by his parents every fucking day. THAT is why he always made me the center of ridicule every day. I understand that now, and feel just awful for hating him as much as I did.
All I'm saying is that there is much more to your problems than "OMG BULLIES". Mental illnesses are the root of an awful self esteem, not other people. If you cannot control your emotions and ignore these things there IS something wrong with you and you need to fix it and not expect other people to change for you.
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And yes, I would. Because it actually has happened to me before, at that age. This chick punched me several times as hard as she could. I laughed in her face. She left me alone from then on despite the fact I was her target for a long time, and she would avoid me.
It's not letting someone walk all over you. It's you being the bigger person. Again, only you control your emotions. I'm pretty sure if the fat kid didn't have any mental problems or a bad self esteem none of that would happen in the first place.
Sure, bullys usually have a reason for what they do...but they're weak also. I have some sympathy for what some go through but that is no reason to do shit to someone else. That is even weaker imo. If you don't want that shit done to you, then why would you do it to someone else? No reason for it and it usually doesn't stop with ignoring, it gets worse. On some occasions it does, but if that's the case they're bullying you for fun and their own personal gain. Once you don't show anything anymore...they move onto their next target
Sometimes, they need the shit scared out of them so they won't do it anymore
That's why I'm so fucking happy now and love everything. I'm finally in control after a decade of not being able to. Nothing bothers me anymore. When you're able to roll with the punches when someone dishes it out, you know you're stable. Hating does nothing.
But this is why you should sympathize with bullies. Usually they are the target of either ridicule of their friends, or they come from an abusive home. Which, again, a lot of the people who were my primary bullies had a LOT of problems at home. That's why I think it's better to be nice to them because they haven't had someone to talk to about their problems. That's why they target you, because they think that if they're not happy then everyone else doesn't deserve to be happy, either. It's a never ending cycle of abuse, and by physically or mentally hurting someone right back you have just become a bully yourself.
And I never said anyone has the right to bully anyone. I'm just saying you should understand how that person works. Despite how many people try to deny this, how you act around others says a lot about a person.
If bullies are the target of their parents then they should suck it the fuck up and just talk to a counselor and not mentally and physically beat other kids down because their life is so unfortunate. Don't make other lives shit as well. Because of what they did to me for about 13 years I will never think I'm pretty at all. No matter how many people say so.or how many times Marc tells me. Maybe it's true I'm beautiful but I don't think I will ever see it and I never think highly of myself. Most of the people who did this had much more then me and were much more fortunate and had more money. If someone would have punched me a few times, I would have beat the shit out of em just like that fat kid