WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I have a friend irl named Brent. He is an alright dude and enjoy golfing with him. So we had some things in common and so I confided in him with this information yesterday while we were out golfing about some work shit I have going on with this dude name Jeff. I specifically said "Please don't tell Jeff what I told you because it will literally make the situation worst between Jeff and I". Then I get a text message today from Jeff telling me that Brent told him what I said yesterday... I thought I could trust Brent with that.
Anyways, what would you do in this situation? Would you tell Brent "Dude, I can't believe you told Jeff that after I speicically told you not too. What exactly did you tell him?" Or would you just realize that Brent isnt to be trusted, drop it, and just never tell Brent sensitive information again in the future?
So they just repaved our road on friday and I swear they half assed this shit. There's cracks in one spot, a bump in another and at the end it's a thinner section because they ran out. Because of that there's a corner that has nothing. Meanwhile they're paving the road behind our house now. If they don't fix their half-assed bs I'm gonna be pissy pants for a while. Because I know come winter this new pavement is gonna get fucked up
I'd still stay friends with him but I'd never tell him anything ever again.. Even if he promised and all that bullshit
Yeah I think that's where I am too. In general I like the dude still, and I dont really have a lot of friends I can go golfing with. He does really nice shit too, like when I met him for golf yesterday he had bought me a bucket of balls, and half way though he went and bought himself a water bottle from the vending machine and came back with two. He didnt even ask if I wanted one, he just figured I would and bought two. That's the sort of shit that make me think he's an okay dude.
I don't really feel he is ill intentioned. I don't know how much he told him, and perhaps he only said something because he thought he could actually make it better for me. That's why I was wondering if I should ask him what he said, or if I should just let it go and not talk about sensitive info in the future.
I'll probably just drop it and realize that anything I say might be said to other people so I need to be careful about what I say.
Definitely confront him. Snakes need to be called out
yeah im considering it mostly because I'd like to know his intention. But it wont be a confrontation but more of a simple question why he betrayed my trust.
The thing is... I really don't want this to turn into a "Jeff told me that you told him what I told you yesterday" and then Brent tells Jeff "Dude. Why would you tell Joel that I told you what did?" And then I get into another convo with Jeff "Brent told me you were pissed he told me".
Like I'd like to know why, but I also don't want this to be some stupid never ending game of telephone.
I wouldn't even mention it. I'd just chalk it up as a loss and keep it in mind next time. It would be different if he'd done something like snitched on you cheating to your wife or something serious like that. Some people just can't keep their mouths shut
I wouldn't even mention it. I'd just chalk it up as a loss and keep it in mind next time. It would be different if he'd done something like snitched on you cheating to your wife or something serious like that. Some people just can't keep their mouths shut
Yeah true. It wasn't serious shit this time like you said.... but would have been nice to know he could keep his mouth shut. Wont make that mistake again.
I wanted to go to sleep an hour ago but once I left the room for something, my cat hasn't left me alone. I tried picking him up and putting him out the door n shutting it, but he ran back in faster than I could get the door shut. This happened about 20 times before I gave up. Now he's taking up a portion of my side of the bed while sir snores-a-lot takes up the rest. I hope I fall asleep soon, I'm tired af lol
My mind is kinda blown right now. Even the guy I've been doing music with was trying to fuck Amanda behind my back. Two dudes I've been hanging out with a lot. People I've known for more than a decade have been hiding shit behind my back for her. I fucking hate everything now.
Open relationships are tricky cuz it has to be consensual. Basically, it's an open and honest sort of thing. She's been using her charms to get drugs and alcohol out of people. The people I've caught her fucking/trying to fuck don't even know were in an open relationship. In a bunch of the messages I found, they're plainly asking if I will find out and she's assuring them it won't happen. It's more the intention that's fucked up than the sex. These fucks think they're getting over on me.
And I doubt custody will be an issue. I have copied a ton of texts where she's buying pills and coke from people and freely admitting to drinking and driving
My biggest issue is gonna be that she's been telling people I beat her, trying to win their sympathies and turn them against me. I've never even come close. Actually it's the opposite. We got in 2 major fights previously. In one, she sucker punched me while I was talking and broke 2 of my teeth. In the other, she head butted me and gave me a concussion. I have hospital records for that one
She has felonies for domestic abuse from her marriage as well. That's why she can't see her oldest daughter
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Anyways, what would you do in this situation? Would you tell Brent "Dude, I can't believe you told Jeff that after I speicically told you not too. What exactly did you tell him?" Or would you just realize that Brent isnt to be trusted, drop it, and just never tell Brent sensitive information again in the future?
thoughts? Im leaning towards #2.
I don't really feel he is ill intentioned. I don't know how much he told him, and perhaps he only said something because he thought he could actually make it better for me. That's why I was wondering if I should ask him what he said, or if I should just let it go and not talk about sensitive info in the future.
I'll probably just drop it and realize that anything I say might be said to other people so I need to be careful about what I say.
The thing is... I really don't want this to turn into a "Jeff told me that you told him what I told you yesterday" and then Brent tells Jeff "Dude. Why would you tell Joel that I told you what did?" And then I get into another convo with Jeff "Brent told me you were pissed he told me".
Like I'd like to know why, but I also don't want this to be some stupid never ending game of telephone.
Fuck Everybody then. Best of luck to you dude.
Jokes aside, whats the plan moving forward? Any custody concerns to worry about?
And I doubt custody will be an issue. I have copied a ton of texts where she's buying pills and coke from people and freely admitting to drinking and driving
She has felonies for domestic abuse from her marriage as well. That's why she can't see her oldest daughter