>She is a friend first, beforehand >She is not a slut >She is a virgin >She likes good music >She likes or at least appreciates videogames, comics, anime, ect >accepting of cosplay >Artistically inclined is a plus >Similar intelligence level to myself >at least enjoys bad movies >cannot be an activist >must be independent, low maintance, laid back. Has to be ok with not talking to me everyday, or seeing me every week. >must be open to at the very least talking about a sexless relationship (or even a nonphysical relationship - no holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc) >Emphasis has to be on the relationship, not sex.
What In looking for is basically a friend for life, but with an agreement to commit to eachother and not see other people. Most girls are not into this.
I am not looking to change a girl, or force these ideas on her. she has to be this way to begin with.
>She is a friend first, beforehand >She is not a slut >She is a virgin >She likes good music >She likes or at least appreciates videogames, comics, anime, ect >accepting of cosplay >Artistically inclined is a plus >Similar intelligence level to myself >at least enjoys bad movies >cannot be an activist >must be independent, low maintance, laid back. Has to be ok with not talking to me everyday, or seeing me every week. >must be open to at the very least talking about a sexless relationship (or even a nonphysical relationship - no holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc) >Emphasis has to be on the relationship, not sex.
What In looking for is basically a friend for life, but with an agreement to commit to eachother and not see other people. Most girls are not into this.
I am not looking to change a girl, or force these ideas on her. she has to be this way to begin with.
I don't think these things would be difficult to find if you were accepting of someone...shall we say...homely. There's sure to be a basement troll somewhere that would succumb to such demands, but is that what you want? Are looks a big deal in this equation?
>She is a friend first, beforehand >She is not a slut >She is a virgin >She likes good music >She likes or at least appreciates videogames, comics, anime, ect >accepting of cosplay >Artistically inclined is a plus >Similar intelligence level to myself >at least enjoys bad movies >cannot be an activist >must be independent, low maintance, laid back. Has to be ok with not talking to me everyday, or seeing me every week. >must be open to at the very least talking about a sexless relationship (or even a nonphysical relationship - no holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc) >Emphasis has to be on the relationship, not sex.
What In looking for is basically a friend for life, but with an agreement to commit to eachother and not see other people. Most girls are not into this.
I am not looking to change a girl, or force these ideas on her. she has to be this way to begin with.
that would succumb to such demands
see thats the problem. I dont want them to "succumb to such demands". I want them to want it as well. To already think similarly. I am not looking to force my ideals on anyone, or make them obey my will. They have to be looking for the same thing.
I live with these ideologies and standards. I need a girl who does as well.
Outside of the sex ideology, Ive found a girl who likes good music, and videogames, as is intelligent, doesnt want kids (another thing I forgot to mention. NO. KIDS.) and whatnot. Im sure the sex convo would have started an argument, and the relationship probably would end there. But still.
looks are a very small part of the equation. Im an ugly mother fucker, so I cant expect a (by standard definition) "attractive" girl to take interest in me
>She is a friend first, beforehand >She is not a slut >She is a virgin >She likes good music >She likes or at least appreciates videogames, comics, anime, ect >accepting of cosplay >Artistically inclined is a plus >Similar intelligence level to myself >at least enjoys bad movies >cannot be an activist >must be independent, low maintance, laid back. Has to be ok with not talking to me everyday, or seeing me every week. >must be open to at the very least talking about a sexless relationship (or even a nonphysical relationship - no holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc) >Emphasis has to be on the relationship, not sex.
What In looking for is basically a friend for life, but with an agreement to commit to eachother and not see other people. Most girls are not into this.
I am not looking to change a girl, or force these ideas on her. she has to be this way to begin with.
that would succumb to such demands
see thats the problem. I dont want them to "succumb to such demands". I want them to want it as well. To already think similarly. I am not looking to force my ideals on anyone, or make them obey my will. They have to be looking for the same thing.
I live with these ideologies and standards. I need a girl who does as well.
Outside of the sex ideology, Ive found a girl who likes good music, and videogames, as is intelligent, doesnt want kids (another thing I forgot to mention. NO. KIDS.) and whatnot. Im sure the sex convo would have started an argument, and the relationship probably would end there. But still.
looks are a very small part of the equation. Im an ugly mother fucker, so I cant expect a (by standard definition) "attractive" girl to take interest in me
I know you differentiate between yourself the anti-sexual and asexuals, but have you reached out to asexuals? I used to know a girl that was asexual (a tragedy too, cuz she looks like j.lo), and she would love to find a guy that doesn't want to put his hands all over her all the time. instead, she just drinks herself into oblivion so it doesn't bother her
>She is a friend first, beforehand >She is not a slut >She is a virgin >She likes good music >She likes or at least appreciates videogames, comics, anime, ect >accepting of cosplay >Artistically inclined is a plus >Similar intelligence level to myself >at least enjoys bad movies >cannot be an activist >must be independent, low maintance, laid back. Has to be ok with not talking to me everyday, or seeing me every week. >must be open to at the very least talking about a sexless relationship (or even a nonphysical relationship - no holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc) >Emphasis has to be on the relationship, not sex.
What In looking for is basically a friend for life, but with an agreement to commit to eachother and not see other people. Most girls are not into this.
I am not looking to change a girl, or force these ideas on her. she has to be this way to begin with.
that would succumb to such demands
see thats the problem. I dont want them to "succumb to such demands". I want them to want it as well. To already think similarly. I am not looking to force my ideals on anyone, or make them obey my will. They have to be looking for the same thing.
I live with these ideologies and standards. I need a girl who does as well.
Outside of the sex ideology, Ive found a girl who likes good music, and videogames, as is intelligent, doesnt want kids (another thing I forgot to mention. NO. KIDS.) and whatnot. Im sure the sex convo would have started an argument, and the relationship probably would end there. But still.
looks are a very small part of the equation. Im an ugly mother fucker, so I cant expect a (by standard definition) "attractive" girl to take interest in me
I know you differentiate between yourself the anti-sexual and asexuals, but have you reached out to asexuals? I used to know a girl that was asexual (a tragedy too, cuz she looks like j.lo), and she would love to find a guy that doesn't want to put his hands all over her all the time. instead, she just drinks herself into oblivion so it doesn't bother her
i dont "reach out" to girls regarding dating. i havent met any asexuals irl. As I said, I need to be friends with the girl first.
No, you're not. You accept failure before you even try. You practically choose it for yourself. I've said before you need to change the way you think because it's 98.5% negativity with you. That's not healthy for anyone and you're only 21
That's false and you contradict yourself. My friend always dated and had multiple girlfriends and boyfriends. She just was in it for the companionship, not sex. She just always ran into the problem of that not being enough for her mates
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>She is a friend first, beforehand
>She is not a slut
>She is a virgin
>She likes good music
>She likes or at least appreciates videogames, comics, anime, ect
>accepting of cosplay
>Artistically inclined is a plus
>Similar intelligence level to myself
>at least enjoys bad movies
>cannot be an activist
>must be independent, low maintance, laid back. Has to be ok with not talking to me everyday, or seeing me every week.
>must be open to at the very least talking about a sexless relationship (or even a nonphysical relationship - no holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc)
>Emphasis has to be on the relationship, not sex.
What In looking for is basically a friend for life, but with an agreement to commit to eachother and not see other people. Most girls are not into this.
I am not looking to change a girl, or force these ideas on her. she has to be this way to begin with.
I live with these ideologies and standards. I need a girl who does as well.
Outside of the sex ideology, Ive found a girl who likes good music, and videogames, as is intelligent, doesnt want kids (another thing I forgot to mention. NO. KIDS.) and whatnot. Im sure the sex convo would have started an argument, and the relationship probably would end there. But still.
I got the Alex Grey Lateralus eye tattoo as my little reminder of this.