I'm getting too old for dating (for my standards).
I used to want someone to spend time with. "Love". Be "loved" by. But Im not even sure I want that anymore. Im so confused and frustrated its rediculous.
Im too picky, so there's extremely small niches of girls Im into. And Im unnattractive and untalented, so girls arent into me.
Ugly toothless dudes that work in sanitation get laid all the time. It's more a matter of standards
I'm getting too old for dating (for my standards).
I used to want someone to spend time with. "Love". Be "loved" by. But Im not even sure I want that anymore. Im so confused and frustrated its rediculous.
Im too picky, so there's extremely small niches of girls Im into. And Im unnattractive and untalented, so girls arent into me.
Ugly toothless dudes that work in sanitation get laid all the time. It's more a matter of standards
I'm getting too old for dating (for my standards).
I used to want someone to spend time with. "Love". Be "loved" by. But Im not even sure I want that anymore. Im so confused and frustrated its rediculous.
Im too picky, so there's extremely small niches of girls Im into. And Im unnattractive and untalented, so girls arent into me.
Bro you ain't unattractive. You've got an above average face and could easily tap into the lumbersexual thing with that hair and beard.
I can barely fathom being able to play guitar with any sort of skill and not being able to get girls. I have to get by on humor
I go to a school where everybody, girls included, plays guitars.
And outside of school, Im typically attracted to artsy ish types, so they dont think its overly impressive either.
Nah. It's your own confidence in your abilities. I've known people that sucked at everything they do in life but still got play because of the way they spin themselves
There's an old adage in art that the more you spit on your audience, the more they love you. In my experience, that tends to play out with women as well. If you act like you're big shit, a lot of the time girls just believe it and fall in line. I know that doesn't mean shit to you because you think you're being honorable by not trying to even convince women of your uniqueness, but afaic that's what works
My best female friend (my ex who I had feels for recently) couldnt even answer why she didnt like me, or whatever. I think Im just inherently unappealing. No girl has liked me or whatever in 4 years. Thats a long time.
Yea, I have no self confidence, and hate myself. But there is a lot contributing to that mindset. There must be some truth to it.
i like weird or out of date pop culture type stuff the thought of "settling down" disgusts me i want to travel a lot, prob don't want kids.. At least not for a long time i want an openly sexual relationship im smoking weed to the day I die i don't believe in jewelry and won't buy any for girls on principle.. Expensive shit like purses as well i don't really want to be married u have no interest in owning a big fancy house or getting nice furniture or yard toys like lawn mowers etc.. I'd rather do new experiences than acquire shit My view in politics and religion are certain different
all these things I feel don't help my case at all lol
My best female friend (my ex who I had feels for recently) couldnt even answer why she didnt like me, or whatever. I think Im just inherently unappealing. No girl has liked me or whatever in 4 years. Thats a long time.
Yea, I have no self confidence, and hate myself. But there is a lot contributing to that mindset. There must be some truth to it.
I get you, but in comic book language: Superman doesn't run around telling people he's allergic to Kryptonite all day.
Sometimes, you have to look at your positive qualities and emphasize them. pondering on what is wrong with you all the time will get you nowhere. I used to feel fairly similar to you about myself. Nowadays, I'm more likely to be like "Who wouldn't want to get with me???" once I considered that I'm a smart, funny, thoughtful dude with purdy hair and eyes, a booming presence and a couple of rare talents, it made it a lot easier for me to "sell" myself to girls. Making movies is what gave me that confidence. prior to that, everything I did was a mess. Once I got to where I was doing good work and getting places with my talents, it was easier for me to see myself in a positive light. A little accomplishment goes a long way
i like weird or out of date pop culture type stuff the thought of "settling down" disgusts me i want to travel a lot, prob don't want kids.. At least not for a long time i want an openly sexual relationship im smoking weed to the day I die i don't believe in jewelry and won't buy any for girls on principle.. Expensive shit like purses as well i don't really want to be married u have no interest in owning a big fancy house or getting nice furniture or yard toys like lawn mowers etc.. I'd rather do new experiences than acquire shit My view in politics and religion are certain different
all these things I feel don't help my case at all lol
the politics and religious stuff was my Achilles heel for years
My best female friend (my ex who I had feels for recently) couldnt even answer why she didnt like me, or whatever. I think Im just inherently unappealing. No girl has liked me or whatever in 4 years. Thats a long time.
Yea, I have no self confidence, and hate myself. But there is a lot contributing to that mindset. There must be some truth to it.
I get you, but in comic book language: Superman doesn't run around telling people he's allergic to Kryptonite all day.
Sometimes, you have to look at your positive qualities and emphasize them. pondering on what is wrong with you all the time will get you nowhere. I used to feel fairly similar to you about myself. Nowadays, I'm more likely to be like "Who wouldn't want to get with me???" once I considered that I'm a smart, funny, thoughtful dude with purdy hair and eyes, a booming presence and a couple of rare talents, it made it a lot easier for me to "sell" myself to girls. Making movies is what gave me that confidence. prior to that, everything I did was a mess. Once I got to where I was doing good work and getting places with my talents, it was easier for me to see myself in a positive light. A little accomplishment goes a long way
I get what you're saying, but its hard.
Like I said, Im picky about girls to begin with. I have an extradordinary small niche of girls I even take a remote interest in. The chances of finding a girl in that niche is slim to none. I've found one. And the chances of that niche girl taking an interest in me is even smaller.
My best female friend (my ex who I had feels for recently) couldnt even answer why she didnt like me, or whatever. I think Im just inherently unappealing. No girl has liked me or whatever in 4 years. Thats a long time.
Yea, I have no self confidence, and hate myself. But there is a lot contributing to that mindset. There must be some truth to it.
I get you, but in comic book language: Superman doesn't run around telling people he's allergic to Kryptonite all day.
Sometimes, you have to look at your positive qualities and emphasize them. pondering on what is wrong with you all the time will get you nowhere. I used to feel fairly similar to you about myself. Nowadays, I'm more likely to be like "Who wouldn't want to get with me???" once I considered that I'm a smart, funny, thoughtful dude with purdy hair and eyes, a booming presence and a couple of rare talents, it made it a lot easier for me to "sell" myself to girls. Making movies is what gave me that confidence. prior to that, everything I did was a mess. Once I got to where I was doing good work and getting places with my talents, it was easier for me to see myself in a positive light. A little accomplishment goes a long way
I get what you're saying, but its hard.
Like I said, Im picky about girls to begin with. I have an extradordinary small niche of girls I even take a remote interest in. The chances of finding a girl in that niche is slim to none. I've found one. And the chances of that niche girl taking an interest in me is even smaller.
I have a feeling that you're going to laugh at this crisis one day. I know I kinda chuckle when I see you talk like this, tbh. No offense. You just talk like you're 46 and your best days are behind you. It's kinda weird
My best female friend (my ex who I had feels for recently) couldnt even answer why she didnt like me, or whatever. I think Im just inherently unappealing. No girl has liked me or whatever in 4 years. Thats a long time.
Yea, I have no self confidence, and hate myself. But there is a lot contributing to that mindset. There must be some truth to it.
I get you, but in comic book language: Superman doesn't run around telling people he's allergic to Kryptonite all day.
Sometimes, you have to look at your positive qualities and emphasize them. pondering on what is wrong with you all the time will get you nowhere. I used to feel fairly similar to you about myself. Nowadays, I'm more likely to be like "Who wouldn't want to get with me???" once I considered that I'm a smart, funny, thoughtful dude with purdy hair and eyes, a booming presence and a couple of rare talents, it made it a lot easier for me to "sell" myself to girls. Making movies is what gave me that confidence. prior to that, everything I did was a mess. Once I got to where I was doing good work and getting places with my talents, it was easier for me to see myself in a positive light. A little accomplishment goes a long way
I get what you're saying, but its hard.
Like I said, Im picky about girls to begin with. I have an extradordinary small niche of girls I even take a remote interest in. The chances of finding a girl in that niche is slim to none. I've found one. And the chances of that niche girl taking an interest in me is even smaller.
I have a feeling that you're going to laugh at this crisis one day. I know I kinda chuckle when I see you talk like this, tbh. No offense. You just talk like you're 46 and your best days are behind you. It's kinda weird
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And outside of school, Im typically attracted to artsy ish types, so they dont think its overly impressive either.
There's an old adage in art that the more you spit on your audience, the more they love you. In my experience, that tends to play out with women as well. If you act like you're big shit, a lot of the time girls just believe it and fall in line. I know that doesn't mean shit to you because you think you're being honorable by not trying to even convince women of your uniqueness, but afaic that's what works
My best female friend (my ex who I had feels for recently) couldnt even answer why she didnt like me, or whatever. I think Im just inherently unappealing. No girl has liked me or whatever in 4 years. Thats a long time.
Yea, I have no self confidence, and hate myself. But there is a lot contributing to that mindset. There must be some truth to it.
i like weird or out of date pop culture type stuff
the thought of "settling down" disgusts me
i want to travel a lot, prob don't want kids.. At least not for a long time
i want an openly sexual relationship
im smoking weed to the day I die
i don't believe in jewelry and won't buy any for girls on principle.. Expensive shit like purses as well
i don't really want to be married
u have no interest in owning a big fancy house or getting nice furniture or yard toys like lawn mowers etc.. I'd rather do new experiences than acquire shit
My view in politics and religion are certain different
all these things I feel don't help my case at all lol
Sometimes, you have to look at your positive qualities and emphasize them. pondering on what is wrong with you all the time will get you nowhere. I used to feel fairly similar to you about myself. Nowadays, I'm more likely to be like "Who wouldn't want to get with me???" once I considered that I'm a smart, funny, thoughtful dude with purdy hair and eyes, a booming presence and a couple of rare talents, it made it a lot easier for me to "sell" myself to girls. Making movies is what gave me that confidence. prior to that, everything I did was a mess. Once I got to where I was doing good work and getting places with my talents, it was easier for me to see myself in a positive light. A little accomplishment goes a long way
Like I said, Im picky about girls to begin with. I have an extradordinary small niche of girls I even take a remote interest in. The chances of finding a girl in that niche is slim to none. I've found one. And the chances of that niche girl taking an interest in me is even smaller.