If you really want to get technical, it would make it the previous generation's fault.
No its this generations fault. The use of technology, our shortening attention spans, the selfishness. These are all traits our our generation. We're the "selfie generation", the "me generation" (terms coined by social researchers). Sex permeates our society. Referring to that Russell Brand video, its almost harder to ignore porn than it is to find it now. We don't care about our interactions with other people nearly as much as generations before us. and it shows in our dating. Like I said, dating isn't about getting to know the other person anymore, but about learning what to say to get in their pants. If you're not fucking by the third "date" then something is wrong. But how can you really get to know somebody in three dates? It takes years. But as long as we're physically feeling good, then it doesn't matter how scarred our mental/emotional/psychological health is becoming.
This was the closest post you've said that I could almost agree with.. I still don't see anything wrong with fucking by the third date but the first half of your statement I def agree with
Mc kinda contradicts himself tho, he says no one puts in the effort or sacrifice part of relationships anymore and then he gives a laundry list if things girls need to be in order for him to even slightly care you sound like the cunty girls who say " still waiting on my Prince Charming!! " fuck that shit.. It's a give in take no one is perfect no relationship is perfect,.. Life is messy and you have to sacrifice some things for the greater good, get over it
How can you want for some to (eventually) work their way into a romantic interest with you, when you won't even care to kiss/hold hands/hug them? It's one thing if you prefer to not have sex with someone you're with (or at least, not till marriage if you both want kids), if she feels the same then that's fine, but those other things are naturally a part of a relationship.
Because Im looking to build a purely emotional connection.
Yeah sex is the most magical special thing there is that kids these days don't understand or appreciate buttt there is no emotions involved lmao he can't even keep his own wacky shit in order
I used to think sex was some magical wonderful thing that should have been appreciated. Its actually nothing more than sweaty people rubbing juices together - its not special. You dont need an emotional connection to have it. Thats what you guys said. It used to at least have some symbolic principles.
I said sex lost all meaning for me. Im not contradicting anything.
Yes you are still.. In that case if it's void of all meaning and is just sweaty people grinding each other then how does it cause emotional scaring? Fucking retarded
Because dating and relationship building gets perverted in peoples' minds. Like I said, you internalize "date=sex" (and an addiction to the chemicals released during it - what you really want), not "date=getting to know somebody". You dont actually want that person. You want their vag and the chemicals your brain releases when you pound it. And you mistake that sensation for love. Thats how its scarring.
Ahh that's good to know, for years I thought I actually liked girls.. It's good to know now that it was only magic vag juice than made me think I cared for them thanks for clearing that up...:| what about you then? You say you have no sexual feelings yet still like girls.. Explain that logic.. You're running in circles trying to make your shit work
You're just flat out wrong dude.. Of course sex is emotional .. Kissing is emotional.. So is fucking hugging and holding hands.. The reason why sex can cause emotional scaring is because it's fucking emotional! It's not just confused brain chemicals it's because you actually care for someone and their well being.. Only a cold hearted cynic can't see that..
Exactly your close minded desire to vilify sex entirely because of lildikk syndrome gas turned you into a small, cold hearted cynic rather than just rolling with punches and making the best of a situation and potentially being happy .. Congrats
Exactly your close minded desire to vilify sex entirely because of lildikk syndrome gas turned you into a small, cold hearted cynic rather than just rolling with punches and making the best of a situation and potentially being happy .. Congrats
Im naturally pessimistic and cynical. Me having a small dick doesnt have anything to do with it.
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I said sex lost all meaning for me. Im not contradicting anything.
what about you then? You say you have no sexual feelings yet still like girls.. Explain that logic.. You're running in circles trying to make your shit work