Now that I had a day to process and reflect, Im not as depressed anymore. Its weird. I mean Im still bummed she doesnt like me, but it almost feels like there's this weight off my shoulders now that I know for certain she isnt interested. I dont need to try anymore... maybe someday things'll change. But for now, I dont need to worry about it as much... I can go back to how I was before the summer, and invest all my energy in music and games instead of a girl too.
Its okay MC. I'm living the same situation and getting no further then you. Except I'm not repulsed by sex. Let me know how that counseling shit goes. Folks won't leave me alone about that shit and really want me to give it a try.
Sir, I have not. A fact I probably shouldn't admit here but givez a fuck levels are low right now. Been through alot of the same shit MC is talking about. Finding someone, all shared interests, get way too attached and winding up with only one of us caring; surprise twist it was always me.
Xeno's looking for relationshipless sex though. Very different. If I really wanted to, I could probably play the "im in a band" card and have meaningless sex too.
Lol relevant. Chick just messaged me on tinder and we started talking and she said she just got dumped by some dude that had two other girlfriends( ) )convo led to sex and I was like well I'm down. Her next reply was well I'm just looking for a friend right now. Blocked.
Read through all the posts and texts. Wasn't gonna post but there was a thread made for it so why the fuck not.
Honestly, the long text was just too much dude. I know your intentions are good, but it coming through text all at once is like that is pretty overwhelming. I don't really know what kind of reaction you expected. It does at least seem that she genuinely likes you as a friend, so that's gotta count for something.
Btw, I'm not trying to infer that she'd be all for a relationship if you had told her this in person, cause I get the sense that she just isn't interested in dating you, but texts like that certainly don't do any favors. Just remember though that her not being interested in a romantic relationship doesn't mean you did anything wrong, you have your criteria, she has hers. It is what it is.
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Should make it into a t-shirt/buttons/stickers. Make that paper.
Women are evil.
Honestly, the long text was just too much dude. I know your intentions are good, but it coming through text all at once is like that is pretty overwhelming. I don't really know what kind of reaction you expected. It does at least seem that she genuinely likes you as a friend, so that's gotta count for something.
Btw, I'm not trying to infer that she'd be all for a relationship if you had told her this in person, cause I get the sense that she just isn't interested in dating you, but texts like that certainly don't do any favors. Just remember though that her not being interested in a romantic relationship doesn't mean you did anything wrong, you have your criteria, she has hers. It is what it is.