I think it's the the other way around from wake.. I don't think it's religious moral belief system .. I think his dick doesn't work great causing him anxiety about it (plus coued with the fact that he would be new to it and not really know what to do cuz he doesn't watch porn and stuff) and the moral stuff is a result of that fact.. And sadly the longer he goes without using his wee wee the more fucked up it's going to get. Im starting to think tho if mc isn't really interested in having a healthy sex life and he is truly asexual like he claims then what is really wrong with the friend zone? It's more or less what your looking for anyways.. The only difference would be you won't kiss
yeah but he wants her to also be a forever friendzone so he doesnt have to watch her getting fucked by some other dude who actually has the balls to do it.
He just needs to change his perspective.. He still gets to spend slit of time with her, joke around, have fun, do dork stuff, he could even help her out when she's in a tough time and get satisfaction for just being an awesome person to someone he cares about and respects.. He could appreciate that someone else could count on him and make there life better , since mc stated earlier that making other people happy makes him happy
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
edited January 2015
Great friend you are.... Don't really want to be in a relationship with her where you have a deep loving bond and express that love by holding hands, kissing, and being sexually active. But don't want her to find someone else who would make her happy. jesus, that's fucked up man. I no longer feel bad for your self inflicted depression. I hope she does meet someone soon so she doesn't fall into your cycle of pain and torture and a life on not really having someone.
Good thing you made an appointment to talk with a counselor. Make sure you tell her (or him) what was said above. That's really the meat of the problem, and I am clueless on how to help someone who doesnt want to fix themselves but just wants their best friend to experience the same level of depression. You're not well man.
Great friend you are.... Don't really want to be in a relationship with her where you have a deep loving bond and express that love by holding hands, kissing, and being sexually active. But don't want her to find someone else who would make her happy. jesus, that's fucked up man. I no longer feel bad for your self inflicted depression. I hope she does meet someone soon so she doesn't fall into your cycle of pain and torture and a life on not really having someone.
Good thing you made an appointment to talk with a counselor. Make sure you tell her (or him) what was said above. That's really the meat of the problem, and I am clueless on how to help someone who doesnt want to fix themselves but just wants their best friend to experience the same level of depression. You're not well man.
Only thats not really what I said. I separate sex from love. There is no love in sex, and you can have love without sex. I will fully admit that I am selfish/creepy/jealous/whatever with me saying what I said. In reality, I want her to be happy. And if she finds happiness in another guy, I am all for that. But to me, personally, knowing that some other guy makes her happier than I can, depresses me. It has nothing to do with wanting her to feel the same melancholie sense of aloneness.
There can be live in friendship as well tho.. I say I love you to my female friend even tho I don't want to fuck her, she's like a part of my family.. I see her all the time and she has a bf, yet it doesn't change the fact that we both care about each other and would have each other's backs through anything.. And I find happiness in that.. I think you could as well with a little help
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Good thing you made an appointment to talk with a counselor. Make sure you tell her (or him) what was said above. That's really the meat of the problem, and I am clueless on how to help someone who doesnt want to fix themselves but just wants their best friend to experience the same level of depression. You're not well man.
.....Erik will never come in it