Stop beating around the bush and just do what you’ve already decided. The longer you wait to break it off, the more you will hurt her
I havent "already decided". I really like this chick. Just she's got so much more baggage than I was prepared for, and I cant get over that she's had sex before, no matter how much I try.
I should have just stayed single. I was right in my fears. And now Im in over my head and realizing Id be this way with any girl I date. The opportunity for me to find my "one true meaningful relationship" ended years ago.
I fucked up
Bullshit you haven’t. Reread what you responded to me with. Obviously you like her, I wasn’t at all saying you did not. But clearly her past being her past is not something you can deal with. You really think more time is going to help you with this? It isn’t. Unfortunately you aren’t ready for this.
If you want my conpletely honest honest feelings on what you should do... 1. Move out of your parents house and cut that cord cause you are being minioulated by your mom because she’s to afraid to let you go. 2 get professional counciling and tell them exactly everything you struggled with in this relationship
let me be clear... the problem here is *you*.
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He admitted to fapping to a picture of your mom catz
no dude... MC dont fapp dude. get your facts straight, if youve been keeping up youd know that, that dude has a problem with sexuality n needs a psychiatrist.
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Ive decided Im not gonna dump her. I have these freak outs about things because Im inexperienced and scared. Im gonna try at this for a little while longer. I may never accept her sexual past, but I dont blame HER or get angry at HER for it, I just hate the situation and it makes me feel bad. But she's is understanding of it, and has made an effort to accept that of me, and work with me. So I owe it to her to do the same.
Besides, she's coming with to upcoming concerts and her birthday is this week too.
Current fears: Im going to suck, Im not going to be memorable, its not going to mean anything, she still remembers her past sex, one of her past partners is going to be better than me, shes not going to enjoy it, she enjoyed a past partner more, etc etc
If I do fuck, then Im also going to have the constant fear of her getting pregnant thrown onto the pile.
what you gotta realize is that when you fall for someone all of your past trauma and hurt comes out from hiding because you become vulnerable. Just remember its not her job to fix that. Its yours. Do you have health insurance? You really should try and talk to someone whos a professional.
While its good to talk to with your significant other about your things and issues, some things are better kept to yourself for you to dealwith. Talking to her about everything is going to make you come off as needy and thats not attractive.
Current fears: Im going to suck, Im not going to be memorable, its not going to mean anything, she still remembers her past sex, one of her past partners is going to be better than me, shes not going to enjoy it, she enjoyed a past partner more, etc etc
If I do fuck, then Im also going to have the constant fear of her getting pregnant thrown onto the pile.
Pretty sure those fears are what everyone thought about before their first time. As I said having sex will allow those fears to fade away
You tryin to be a hero fool? You wanna see badass mother fucker?! I'll show ya a badass!!!
what you gotta realize is that when you fall for someone all of your past trauma and hurt comes out from hiding because you become vulnerable. Just remember its not her job to fix that. Its yours. Do you have health insurance? You really should try and talk to someone whos a professional.
While its good to talk to with your significant other about your things and issues, some things are better kept to yourself for you to dealwith. Talking to her about everything is going to make you come off as needy and thats not attractive.
It was her idea to no fap. And outside of me being open about how her past sex bothers me, I havent been dumping anything on her. Though she's been unloading a lot of her past traumas and bullshit onto me.
Current fears: Im going to suck, Im not going to be memorable, its not going to mean anything, she still remembers her past sex, one of her past partners is going to be better than me, shes not going to enjoy it, she enjoyed a past partner more, etc etc
If I do fuck, then Im also going to have the constant fear of her getting pregnant thrown onto the pile.
Pretty sure those fears are what everyone thought about before their first time. As I said aging sex will allow those fears to fade away
They wont. I know myself too well. Even if things are going great, in the back of my mind the thought of some of some other dude being inside her will always be there
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I saw that before the edit
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Besides, she's coming with to upcoming concerts and her birthday is this week too.
If I do fuck, then Im also going to have the constant fear of her getting pregnant thrown onto the pile.
what you gotta realize is that when you fall for someone all of your past trauma and hurt comes out from hiding because you become vulnerable. Just remember its not her job to fix that. Its yours. Do you have health insurance? You really should try and talk to someone whos a professional.
While its good to talk to with your significant other about your things and issues, some things are better kept to yourself for you to dealwith. Talking to her about everything is going to make you come off as needy and thats not attractive.