If it takes you half a year to show interest in someone, then yeah you're probably never gonna get a girlfriend
Ive been over this before: I have to ensure they're cool before I get interested. That means friends first. Which takes a couple months. Then I get interested after I realize they're cool and we get along. By then its too late, and the cycle continues.
I will never get interested in a girl upon first meeting one. Im not superficial like that. I gotta make sure they're compatible first.
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
Like i'm no Don Juan but i asked my current girlfriend out after we were at the same party/bar with mutual friends like 3 times. We talked those first couple times and found out we have a ton of similar interest in music, sports, hobbies, etc. And of course my friends that knew her all told me about her and that she was a nice girl. So we went on a casual date. No biggie.
But i bet you if i had waited 6 months after those times at the bar to ask her out she would've assumed i wasnt interested and she'd be dating some other asshole right now.
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
For me, dates are for if we're already a couple. Until then, its not a date.
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
For me, dates are for if we're already a couple. Until then, its not a date.
Who the fuck taught you that was the way it was supposed to be?
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
For me, dates are for if we're already a couple. Until then, its not a date.
Who the fuck taught you that was the way it was supposed to be?
Nobody taught me anything when it comes to dating. Its just what I have done.
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
For me, dates are for if we're already a couple. Until then, its not a date.
The complete opposite of how dating works for the entirety of America for like 40 years but ok
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
For me, dates are for if we're already a couple. Until then, its not a date.
The complete opposite of how dating works for the entirety of America for like 40 years but ok
I dont know why you're acting like this is the first time you've gotten this from me. I've been saying it for years. I dont date. My exes were friends first. I dont like "going out" with random women that I barely know. I like to get to know them first THEN decide if they are worth pursuing romantically.
Luckily they have this awesome thing for that called dates. A date isnt a shotgun marriage, dude. You take a girl on a date. If it doesnt work out or you realize you dont like her that much, you go your seperate ways. If you like her, schedule a second date.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
For me, dates are for if we're already a couple. Until then, its not a date.
The complete opposite of how dating works for the entirety of America for like 40 years but ok
I dont know why you're acting like this is the first time you've gotten this from me. I've been saying it for years. I dont date. My exes were friends first. I dont like "going out" with random women that I barely know. I like to get to know them first THEN decide if they are worth pursuing romantically.
Thats fine, do whatever backwards non productive dating approaches you want. Your friends too. But dont get mad at a girl because your friend is awkward as fuck and doesnt know how to sack up and ask someone out.
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I will never get interested in a girl upon first meeting one. Im not superficial like that. I gotta make sure they're compatible first.
No one said you have to ask a girl out on day one. But 5 months is retarded.
But i bet you if i had waited 6 months after those times at the bar to ask her out she would've assumed i wasnt interested and she'd be dating some other asshole right now.
I dont do casual.
I dont know why you're acting like this is the first time you've gotten this from me. I've been saying it for years. I dont date. My exes were friends first. I dont like "going out" with random women that I barely know. I like to get to know them first THEN decide if they are worth pursuing romantically.