What was your answer to that? Because I interpret that as she wants to get serious with you. And if you do want that, and she doesn't actually want that, Then she's going to have to start living without you. That's how shit works. can't have your cake and eat it too
I'm kinda sick of the minor flirtation BS too though. I get where you're coming from. My situation isn't nearly as bad, because at least my female friend actually acts like a friend. But some of the things she says to me sometimes is like "really, why would you say something like that when you know I like you?" Like the other day.
I'm kinda sick of the minor flirtation BS too though. I get where you're coming from. My situation isn't nearly as bad, because at least my female friend actually acts like a friend. But some of the things she says to me sometimes is like "really, why would you say something like that when you know I like you?" Like the other day.
Its frustrating.
you should tell her how that makes you feel when she does that. If she is going to be your friend, then she shouldnt joke/hint of it being more knowing how you feel. If she does, knowing where you are, then she isnt being a very good friend. If she wants to take it further though... great, you're on board for that.
Okay so, a not so positive conversation between her and I happened today, nothing out of the "ordinary", unfortunately. And I know that this bullshit is getting old (believe me, i know), but one particular thing she said has me at mixed thoughts. Just want to see what someone from an unbiased standpoint would say.
I told her i was tired of playing these bullshit games, with her acting like we're nothing more friends at times, but then tells me things like "I've been thinking about you" and "I really miss you" etc. I flat out asked her why does she even still want to hang around me, because she knows how I feel, and it doesn't make any sense to me that she would want to constantly see me and casually hang out given everything. And her answer to my question was "because I can't live without you."
Now before anyone gets the wrong idea, I'm honestly kind of irritated and angry at this answer, because I know it's a bullshit answer. I'm convinced the only reason she gives half a shit anymore is because she's used to it. -
She's gonna be out of town from Wed for about a week and a half, gonna use that time to focus on everything else. Tired of the bullshit, and I know you guys are tired of me talking about it. (not that anyone here actually gives a shit, but whatever)
Here's a crazy idea....STOP FUCKING RESPONDING TO HER YOU BITCH MADE SIMP
I'm kinda sick of the minor flirtation BS too though. I get where you're coming from. My situation isn't nearly as bad, because at least my female friend actually acts like a friend. But some of the things she says to me sometimes is like "really, why would you say something like that when you know I like you?" Like the other day.
Its frustrating.
you should tell her how that makes you feel when she does that. If she is going to be your friend, then she shouldnt joke/hint of it being more knowing how you feel. If she does, knowing where you are, then she isnt being a very good friend. If she wants to take it further though... great, you're on board for that.
I mean its minor shit. Like when I was out drinking the other day I was like "hey, we should go out drinking when Im home", and she said something to the effect of "ok, but you're gonna end up drinking more than me cuz I'm a lightweight and still don't know if I'll end up stripping when Im drunk"
To which I said "i dont know how to respond to that"
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Its frustrating.
To which I said "i dont know how to respond to that"
And she replied "yes you do. figure it out".
:-|
Yea, lets tempt this dude who already likes me with the idea of me stripping and getting frisky when I drink. Fuck.