I don't know what I think/feel at this point. It seems like I go from getting over her, to back interested, to getting over her again every other month.
I was over her. I seriously was. I didn't care if she didn't like me, or if she hooked up with or started dating other guys. And at this point I'm "ok" with it - its her life and I can't control that, and honestly I have to prepare myself for it anyway.
When I'm away at school and we aren't talking all the time, or when we are hanging out, but things are just friendly hangouts - Its easy for me to feel over her.
But when we're texting every day, or hanging out every weekend, or hangouts get flirty or whatever (like last weekend) - Then I get roped back in.
It sucks. And my emotional and mental health are being destroyed by the constant back-and-forth, on-again-off-again, maybe-she-is-maybe-she-isn't bullshit.
I don't know what to do. Despite all my efforts, I can't control my emotions. I can't control how I feel about her, or how I don't feel about her. Or how a feel/don't feel about other girls. I really do think this girl is special. And I can't see myself with any other girl that I know right now. But she's obviously not on the same page, otherwise she would have said something to me that she changed her mind about dating me.
And I don't want to lose her as a friend either, so I don't want to say something that would make her really uncomfortable around me or whatever.
It's a lose-lose for me. Nothing I can do will help me, it all depends on how she feels towards me at this point. And I don't think there is anything I can do at this point to win her over.
This shit actually has a pretty simple solution dude. You already give her just about everything you have to offer her. Just stop.
Cut the bitch off. No calls, no texts, no hang outs.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
edited March 2015
Heard a funny joke MC might like...
So if two people have sex they call that a twosome, and if three people have sex they call that a threesome. I guess that explains why everyone calls me handsome
No dude. Some girls will if you let them. Others won't. Some guys will too. Others won't. Some people will try to drag you down. Others will try to lift you up. That's just how people are.
As far as finding you interesting, most girls aren't all that interesting to talk to anyway. With a bit more confidence, you could do just fine if you wanted.
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So if two people have sex they call that a twosome, and if three people have sex they call that a threesome. I guess that explains why everyone calls me handsome
Her: "what the fuck?"
Me: "its a pic of my cock"
As far as finding you interesting, most girls aren't all that interesting to talk to anyway. With a bit more confidence, you could do just fine if you wanted.