WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
givz a fukk
idk. depends of what you define as better. Would being financially secure make it easier to spoil your kid? Yeah. Will having money make the kid a better person? I cant say I agree with that. I've seen lots of very rich people with piece of shit children who are a drain on our planet. And I've seen kids from poverty who are really well rounded people with great character.
Yes it's easier to not have to worry about shit like paying for dippers, or baby food and stuff like that. but you dont need to be rich to make ends meet or raise a good child. What is most important is being involved in your kids life and realizing that you need to treasure every second of it because before you blink they will be all grown up and off on their own.
My kids are not great kids cause I make good money. They are good kids because my wife and I are super involved in their lives. Because they mean everything to us.
Having kids young and "accidental", even when you're not well off, is not that bad. I still give my kid as much love as anyone. And I spoil her just as much as someone who IS well off. She's a smart fucking kid, very very intelligent. And I had her at 19. People shouldn't be so quick to judge.
You're a 30 something year old successful business man who has the money, means to raise a kid. Not a 19 year old who smokes pot every second, lives with mom and has no money.
i didn't have a steady job when we found out about my son. besides, what if the mom has a decent job?
Hold a knife to her throat and make her get an abortion.
I understand people who are young and have "accidental" babies love them and spoil them and love them and would die for them. But lets face it, having 2 loving people and 2 stable people financially is better for the child. Also, I'm so tired of seeing all these single fucking moms around here living in my apartment complex for free because they decide to get pregnant by some douche who givz a fukk about them or the baby. People should be responsible for their actions and my fucking tax money shouldnt be given out to someone because they want to be irresponsible whore and fucking not have common fucking sense. I know someone who lives for fucking free, fucking rent free cause theyre a mother of 3 with 3 baby dadies and none of them give a fuck. Mean while me and my wife have to work our asses off to pay over a G a month rent. It's not fair and it's ridiculous. If you guys think its ok for young 19 year old potheads with no job to fucking inpregnant people they just met, then youre fucking retarded. I'm 28, financially stable, married, and I'm still not ready for a fucking kid.
Don't even bother trying to have intelligent conversation... just move on, ignore, and understand that he is just going to continue misusing words and slang.
I guess if thinking young people can make great parents makes me salty.. then I guess i'm salty as fuck. :-??
You know what i've noticed.... and I havent done extensive research on this but is more like a casual observation. It appears that younger in age that the parents are is directly proportional to the popularity of the kids. If for example you are an old fuck and salty as all hell, then your kids are dressing in clothing styles that are way out of date and not into the latest trends.... those kids end up getting picked on. And the kids that have really young parents are cool as fuck because their parents are dressing them in fly threads and listening to hot tunes.
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Yes it's easier to not have to worry about shit like paying for dippers, or baby food and stuff like that. but you dont need to be rich to make ends meet or raise a good child. What is most important is being involved in your kids life and realizing that you need to treasure every second of it because before you blink they will be all grown up and off on their own.
My kids are not great kids cause I make good money. They are good kids because my wife and I are super involved in their lives. Because they mean everything to us.
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