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Females, give your opinions. (Dudes too, but mainly for the females.)
So, on the Hip Hop forum, someone started a thread about this, and I thought it was an interesting thread, and that I'd start it here and see the girl's opinions. This is his original post.
I was at the mall. I was in the top 10 for freshest dressed their.(i analyzed the whole mall and put myself in the top 10 for freshest dressed) And as i was analyzing i saw a bunch of lazy dressed ugly dudes with these high class fresh hot ass chicks. I was confused by this. I mean im fresh as fuck and super model good looking. A classy type of dude. But here's the thing. i don't get bitches.
My friend who dresses pretty good but not as good as me he's not bad looking but i look better. He gets bitches. my cousin who isnt really fashionable at all but he is a funny guy has a super model type lookin chick. Ass all fat an shit. She dresses very classy and he dresses in basket ball shorts and a shirt.
Now what ive noticed today is that girls dont really give a shit how a guy dresses and really dont give a shit how he looks. Girls like guys who approach them. and well have a personality. If you have those two things you can fuck any girl you want
Approach and personality those are the two main things and only things.
im gonna start dressing like a bummy ass muther fucker and approach some chicks and see if i can pull some numbers. How you dress doensnt mean shit How you look doesnt mean shit
Im tired of dressing like a G ass Classy ass muther fucker and not pullin Bops. i see these bummy ass dudes with runway models and i ask myself
What am i doing wrong.
That's the end of his post, so girls, is he correct? Does a dude's overall swag, and I say that in a very serious way, meaning his overall character, way he presents himself, approaches you, personality, etc. matter way more than how he looks at first? Obviously, in the long run, for a relationship, personality and what not matters the most, but for me, the first thing that matters most is looks, bitch has to be physically appealing for me to even bother. Is it different for females? If a dude is decent at best, dressed in an old t-shirt with raggedy ass jeans, but still has confidence ten miles high, is funny, interesting, etc. Would you get at him regardless?
Another dude wrote this, found it really interesting:
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.
Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.
They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.
A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.
A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.
ANYWAYS, discuss nigguhs.
I was at the mall. I was in the top 10 for freshest dressed their.(i analyzed the whole mall and put myself in the top 10 for freshest dressed) And as i was analyzing i saw a bunch of lazy dressed ugly dudes with these high class fresh hot ass chicks. I was confused by this. I mean im fresh as fuck and super model good looking. A classy type of dude. But here's the thing. i don't get bitches.
My friend who dresses pretty good but not as good as me he's not bad looking but i look better. He gets bitches. my cousin who isnt really fashionable at all but he is a funny guy has a super model type lookin chick. Ass all fat an shit. She dresses very classy and he dresses in basket ball shorts and a shirt.
Now what ive noticed today is that girls dont really give a shit how a guy dresses and really dont give a shit how he looks. Girls like guys who approach them. and well have a personality. If you have those two things you can fuck any girl you want
Approach and personality those are the two main things and only things.
im gonna start dressing like a bummy ass muther fucker and approach some chicks and see if i can pull some numbers. How you dress doensnt mean shit How you look doesnt mean shit
Im tired of dressing like a G ass Classy ass muther fucker and not pullin Bops. i see these bummy ass dudes with runway models and i ask myself
What am i doing wrong.
That's the end of his post, so girls, is he correct? Does a dude's overall swag, and I say that in a very serious way, meaning his overall character, way he presents himself, approaches you, personality, etc. matter way more than how he looks at first? Obviously, in the long run, for a relationship, personality and what not matters the most, but for me, the first thing that matters most is looks, bitch has to be physically appealing for me to even bother. Is it different for females? If a dude is decent at best, dressed in an old t-shirt with raggedy ass jeans, but still has confidence ten miles high, is funny, interesting, etc. Would you get at him regardless?
Another dude wrote this, found it really interesting:
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.
Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.
They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.
A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.
A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.
ANYWAYS, discuss nigguhs.
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i analyzed the whole mall and put myself in the top 10 for freshest dressed) And as i was analyzing i saw a bunch of lazy dressed ugly dudes with these high class fresh hot ass chicks. I was confused by this. I mean im fresh as fuck and super model good looking.....
Lol WTF?
That's why I like being unattractive. People like me for me.
I can't really excuse the guys that want that though, but then again I suppose they are ignorant of how wonderful it is to really love somebody, and have deep conversations with someone.