1. you dont have enough money - how many times do i have to tell you, mcds is not my only source of cash, you do not know what i have saved or locked away in CDs 2. your relationship with shane is rocky to begin with, hes hitting you and breaking things - 3. that could result in you two spltting up and having a child in a broken home - how many children are raised w/ single parents? a lot. IE, Shane. 4. your always complain about your health problems constantly and you going to add to that now - actually my docs have encouraged me to have kids.
OK, I understand why not to have kids w/ him but ya'll are saying for ME to not have kids. Really, my future child already has money in the bank from my family that I can't touch till I have a kid. I wanna know how any of you think that you can love a child or treat a child better than I can. My leg is temporary, not permanent.
kids should come into this world in a stable environment. not to one handicapped, complains all day long, mcdonalds worker. i would not be in any position to have a child right now either so im not just shitting on you but your sounded selfish imo, getting what you want without thinking of the kids future
I come to the forums to vent. If it's that much of a problem, I'll leave. BTW, how many handicap parents are there? A lot. Shane's aunts are both handicapped and have raised children and 1 of them can't even walk fully. I work at McDs because I choose to work there. Would you rather me sit at home and collect social security all day long and suck out of your tax paying money?
dear lord judy, yah you sound fit to have children.......... i applaud u working i really do but i have a job as well, doesnt mean i should be popping kids into this world
"Really, my future child already has money in the bank from my family that I can't touch till I have a kid."
...please tell me you're not having a baby to get that money.
No. I've wanted a baby since I was 18. I was about to get ready to have a family w/ my ex fiancee who I loved dearly but shit turned downhill. I do not want a baby for money and as far as health insurance goes, the baby will not guarantee anything. I want a baby to love and not for any benefit of my own. Ya'll are misguided by how Shane rants on about how the government is actually telling me to have a baby to save my own money and have them pay for it all.
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2. your relationship with shane is rocky to begin with, hes hitting you and breaking things -
3. that could result in you two spltting up and having a child in a broken home - how many children are raised w/ single parents? a lot. IE, Shane.
4. your always complain about your health problems constantly and you going to add to that now - actually my docs have encouraged me to have kids.
Past 3 months I'd be in a wheel chair because I would not want to risk any stress on my baby.
thats very selfish, imo
...please tell me you're not having a baby to get that money.
and jusy, how old are you? women have significantly more risks giving birth over 35
...please tell me you're not having a baby to get that money.
No. I've wanted a baby since I was 18. I was about to get ready to have a family w/ my ex fiancee who I loved dearly but shit turned downhill. I do not want a baby for money and as far as health insurance goes, the baby will not guarantee anything. I want a baby to love and not for any benefit of my own. Ya'll are misguided by how Shane rants on about how the government is actually telling me to have a baby to save my own money and have them pay for it all.
im gonna trump this and ask to see a birth certificate