were only 19 and 20 years old and both in school right now marriage wouldnt be a good idea plus, i dont wanna get married until im 27 when i get to rutgers moving in is a possibility since they now have coed dorms
why are you so against me being happy, alec?
I'm not. I think you are fooling yourself and setting yourself up for nothing but heartache. Go forth and be happy, I couldn't care less. Have you spent any face time with Alex? How do you know you're going to be happy? 10 or 20 second comments over the interwebz ain't no meaningful relationship. You absolutely have to put in the time before you'll know. Good luck.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
i don't want kids ever. maybe adoption but that's very far in the future.
Same here. I want to adopt five year olds. I hate babies with a fiery passion.
When my wife was pregos with my first, I felt like a really shitty father because I really felt nothing for the child. What sort of father says that?! But the moment that child was born and I saw her for the first time I was overwhelmed with this deep burning love for this child. It was like someone took a baseball bat and hit me in the face. I was dizzy, and I knew there was nothing I wouldnt do for this little girl. It was the greatest day of my life by far, and something I am very grateful for having experienced.
You just need to be smart about it.....take your time and such. A lot of people rush it and marry early. I know my parents did.
Yeah...and a lot of people marry just to be married. That shit doesn't work. And if you aren't ready...like if you still want to fuck other people...then don't get married lol
i don't want kids ever. maybe adoption but that's very far in the future.
Same here. I want to adopt five year olds. I hate babies with a fiery passion.
When my wife was pregos with my first, I felt like a really shitty father because I really felt nothing for the child. What sort of father says that?! But the moment that child was born and I saw her for the first time I was overwhelmed with this deep burning love for this child. It was like someone took a baseball bat and hit me in the face. I was dizzy, and I knew there was nothing I wouldnt do for this little girl. It was the greatest day of my life by far, and something I am very grateful for having experienced.
That's totally cool with me if you want to have kids of your own. Personally, I would feel like a giant hypocrite and wouldn't be able to live with myself if I did.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
That's totally cool with me if you want to have kids of your own. Personally, I would feel like a giant hypocrite and wouldn't be able to live with myself if I did.
And I just think babies are gross, lol.
I wasn't trying to change your mind, just thought i'd share the happiest day of my life. :-D
That's totally cool with me if you want to have kids of your own. Personally, I would feel like a giant hypocrite and wouldn't be able to live with myself if I did.
And I just think babies are gross, lol.
I wasn't trying to change your mind, just thought i'd share the happiest day of my life. :-D
Oh no, it's all good. I just didn't want you to think I hate people who have their own kids, lol!
Oh, btw, you can't get your tubes tied until you're 29. I'm so pissed at this. How is it that I can get plastic surgery or tan but not get that done? X(
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However she picked me only after we told her that her first choice Zoe (our dog) is a girl :-S :-(( :-((
Have you spent any face time with Alex? How do you know you're going to be happy? 10 or 20 second comments over the interwebz ain't no meaningful relationship. You absolutely have to put in the time before you'll know. Good luck.
i dont think i'd be a good parent.
And I just think babies are gross, lol.
O_O
Otherwise, I know I'd go batshit insane if I had one of my own.
That is really sweet, though.