If you aren't happy socially, find different people to talk to, or through deep personal reflections purge the negative qualities that you see within yourself and try again.
No, I love my best friend. I'm just not social. I don't want a huge group of friends. Just 1 is fine for me actually. I've always been extremely shy. To the point that I shake trying to talk to someone new. Not so much guys, but girls are almost impossible.
Lemme rephrase. Girls that I'm ATTRACTED to. Lol.
I have a solution! Start going out with a girl, and then you won't be attracted to them anymore!
Lol.
Another thing, doesn't mean I can't open up. There's no one else I can be myself around more then when I'm around Kurt, but even him, I was extremely shy around at first.
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If you aren't happy socially, find different people to talk to, or through deep personal reflections purge the negative qualities that you see within yourself and try again.
No, I love my best friend. I'm just not social. I don't want a huge group of friends. Just 1 is fine for me actually. I've always been extremely shy. To the point that I shake trying to talk to someone new. Not so much guys, but girls are almost impossible.
Lemme rephrase. Girls that I'm ATTRACTED to. Lol.
I believe you are in a mindset. You have no comfort talking to people, so going outside of that comfort is troubling to you. I get it. But being shy almost always results in low self-esteem, and they just think that's the way the world works, but it doesn't. I urge you to step outside of that comfort zone, because it's the best thing you can do for yourself in the long term.
That was actually a mature response from ya erik (not the expected 'fuck you cocksucker')
good job
Lol because I'm not getting full blown bashed for once. It's a normal conversation/debate. This is proof that I can be civil and respectful when I'm actually getting it back.
At the point in my life that I was absolutely happy and satisfied with my life to the fullest, when I was with Lizzy. That's when I went pretty much straight edge. I hadn't drank in so long, and didn't see myself drinking again either. I was so happy I didn't need any fucking substance whatsoever, I was always in love with life. But now, fuck that. I can use an escape once in a while, doesn't mean I can't quit if I wanted. But I'm really not happy with my life at all, so fuck it, I don't want to right now. But I'm not addicted and I'll never let myself get to that point.
I really don't need alcohol, I truly don't. Like I said, I only drink to help with my depression
erik....alcohol is a depressant and it will just make you more depressed
No, it chills me out and always makes me really happy and makes me laugh at everything.
you don't understand alcohol or the affects at all...sure it makes you feel better for a moment...but in the end it could be part of the reason you actually are depressed.....and drinking alone and then telling yourself you don't need it...your in denial...or at least will be in the future...your the perfect example of a future alcoholic if all the shit you say is true
I'm just sayin, if you're using alcohol as an anti-depressant, that sounds like a problem. Just sayin. I mean, if I was depressed, alcohol wouldnt be my choice.
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Another thing, doesn't mean I can't open up. There's no one else I can be myself around more then when I'm around Kurt, but even him, I was extremely shy around at first.
good job
erik....alcohol is a depressant and it will just make you more depressed
wouldnt you want an upper?
And did you read, I PREFER to drink alone. I don't need it at all.
And fuck off, don't even start that shit. I refuse to let myself become my fucking Dad.
Now, fuck you and good day sir.