Girl and better job as I.T. Mainly girl though. She's a sweetheart so I kinda know it was the right move just gonna take some getting use to. One think I notice though. New Yorkers don't give a fuck and I kinda like that attitude.
I have lived in Cali for the last 7 years and moved to NY this past week. I have a lot of mixed feelings right now. I'm up in the suburbs. Not sure if I like this. Hope things work out and I didn't make a bad move.
You made a bad move
Well, I hope your wrong but you never know. Shit happens.
I’ve hit a level of sadness I haven’t felt since we lost our son during the pregnancy years ago. Probably doesn’t help that I’ve been up since 2am shitting almost nonstop do you illness.
My dad went in for open heart surgery 2 and half or so years ago I’m not sure if I talked about it here. They let his oxygen drop for too long (don’t care to here about any of your legal advice) and he hasn’t been the same since. He has a severe form of dementia and it just seems like he went from being a normal dad to pissing and shitting himself and on the floor over night. He doesn’t recognize my mom even any more half the time. Last night he had a seizure and they thought he had died. He made it through but today was rough on my mom. Usually when it’s a real bad day for him she will have me call and talk to him. They live in SC. Today he hit me with “I’m not sure if I’ll see you or the kids again I don’t even know where you mom is”.
I’m not looking for sympathy I just haven’t talked about this with really anyone and felt like I could put it out there here as talking about it in person won’t fly with me right now.
You tryin to be a hero fool? You wanna see badass mother fucker?! I'll show ya a badass!!!
I'm sorry to hear that. I would just say talk to him on the phone as much as you can even if he's not all there right now and support mom as much as possible.
You could have been talking to us about it my man. Not a lot we can do for you but its still good to get it out there and off of your chest. No need to hold that shit in. That’s a lot to process. We’re here if you need us.
It’s hard to open up and be vulnerable underneath that crusty exterior, and while circumstances are medically different for your dad, we are all getting closer to the age where we see mortality in our parents. Don’t hold it in, we will all be at that point soon enough. I already had kids when I signed up here, but it’s been cool af watching some of you become parents and raise your kids. Watching others graduate are and start their lives. Watching MC’s band grow. We on this journey together.
Been doing more research and I may get a Ford Fusion. 🤔
They're not bad, probably the best American-made sedan you can get nowadays. I still would personally recommend a Toyota Camry or Honda Accord for better long-term reliability tho
Edit: just saw some more of the thread since apparently this hasn't been updating for me. Definitely go with the Ford Fusion over a Camaro or 300, 1000x over.
Bruh that's basically the most comfortable car ever made
It is comfortable as fuck though. I honestly like it alot. Plus I'm a fat fuck so it's plenty roomy. I'd imagine it suites a tall fuck like you too lol
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Edit: just saw some more of the thread since apparently this hasn't been updating for me. Definitely go with the Ford Fusion over a Camaro or 300, 1000x over.
Not that I'm tall I'm pretty short but it was a comfy ride