I seriously could not be with a girl who's fucked other dudes though. No matter how much I liked her. If I found out she'd fucked other dudes, its an instant "Im out".
idk I can kinda see where mc is coming from on the "it's an emotional thing" front but def not the one and only that's a bit far fetched
Its a two front thought process.
First: The idea of sticking my dick where other dudes have ejaculated is disgusting to me. More disgusting than I want to deal with.
Second: Everyone remembers their first time. I dont want to be with a girl where one of her best, most emotional, and most intimate moments ESPECIALLY HER FIRST, is with another guy. That automatically makes me less important.
Not to mention jelousy issues, and then it gives her a frame of reference to realize how shitty I am.
it's not like the semen just stays posted up there chillin that shit gets cleaned out lol. Also not everybody's first time is something worth remembering, even if they remember it. either way, I get why you want your first time to be something special to you.
Its also contributing to why I feel like I wont ever get into a meaningful relationship. The older I get, the more of my female peers that are going to have intimate encounters, the smaller my pool becomes.
Its also contributing to why I feel like I wont ever get into a meaningful relationship. The older I get, the more of my female peers that are going to have intimate encounters, the smaller my pool becomes.
then narrow your expectations to adjust to the situation :-?
well yeah its limiting but it's selfish because you'd only want to be with somebody who's been with nobody else before and only wants to be with you forever. kinda selfish.
I seriously could not be with a girl who's fucked other dudes though. No matter how much I liked her. If I found out she'd fucked other dudes, its an instant "Im out".
I'd be the same with CDawn if I ever met her in person... if she wasn't a virgin I'd be like "Leah I'm sorry but I can't make love to you"
well yeah its limiting but it's selfish because you'd only want to be with somebody who's been with nobody else before and only wants to be with you forever. kinda selfish.
In the process of only being with one person myself and only wanting to be with her forever. Its not selfish at all. Its ideal.
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First: The idea of sticking my dick where other dudes have ejaculated is disgusting to me. More disgusting than I want to deal with.
Second: Everyone remembers their first time. I dont want to be with a girl where one of her best, most emotional, and most intimate moments ESPECIALLY HER FIRST, is with another guy. That automatically makes me less important.
Not to mention jelousy issues, and then it gives her a frame of reference to realize how shitty I am.
Im the last person shes done anything remotely romantic with.
No no it's not
I'd be the same with CDawn if I ever met her in person...
if she wasn't a virgin I'd be like "Leah I'm sorry but I can't make love to you"