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It’s difficult because I think our human nature is to want them to comply when we say so because we are the boss. And when they don’t then it causes anger...
just gotta realize before the age of about 7-8 kids are super innocent. They are soaking up the world and want to have fun, get attention, and have all the choices of a big kid. Frankly it’s manipulation because you’re giving them a choice that really isn’t a choice but it still gives them what they need (attention, choice, a feeling they at they are important and a big kid).
I’ve used this method to raise my kids and they are all very sweet, well mannered, smart children. Maybe I got lucky but personally I don’t think so
It's nuts because I've tried so many things/ways to get her to be a good kid that listens (most of the time at least), but nothing works. I want her to be a gentle person that appreciates nature, animals, etc. Instead she's this ball of rough assholeness and idk wtf to do anymore
My best tip for kids that age is they desire lots of attention and want choices. So instead of telling her what she is doing, phrase it in the form of a choice. Don’t say “it’s time for bed! We are brushing your teeth and then getting PJs on” but instead say “Hey sweetie.. it’s getting late... did you want to brush your teeth first or put on your PJs?”. And super important- get her interested in reading. Have her pick out a few books for you to read before bed
I've done that, most of the time she gives me a snarky/angry no and leaves the room. We have a ton of books. But every time you read to her most of the time she'll go off into another room to do something else, she just gets disinterested or bored really easy
I'm convinced I have birth to Satan and that's why everything has gone to shit in the world since 2016 😂
That's funny I was convinced it was because I finally lost my virginity and that was the last sin I hadn't committed keeping the gates of hell closed lol
We need a mcfuck thread update
Oh right. Forget that's a thing still. Well yeah cashed my v card in back in February and since then it's been a semi-regular thing lol
What? I jus seen the other day that they’re issuing refunds for thousands of shows. Why was that not included? Is it jus postponed and tickets will be honored at a later date?
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just gotta realize before the age of about 7-8 kids are super innocent. They are soaking up the world and want to have fun, get attention, and have all the choices of a big kid. Frankly it’s manipulation because you’re giving them a choice that really isn’t a choice but it still gives them what they need (attention, choice, a feeling they at they are important and a big kid).
we expect anything less?