Quick question mc, have you ever flirted in your life?
define "flirted"
That's a no.
Yea, I don't think I have.
Nigguh.. Don't you think that would be an important part of dating ?
I never partook in "dating". I've had two girlfriends. Each one just kinda became my girlfriend and that was that. I went to a school dance with the first girl (she asked me), and we became a couple after that. Second one, we went to a Beatles cover band show, week later she came over to my house to go swimming in my pool (she asked me to both, coincidentally), and we were a couple after that.
I never did the "dating" thing. I never will, I'm not that kind of person.
But no, I don't think flirting is important. I think its a shallow and surface level form of interaction with another human being.
How would he flirt? "So uh yea....I'm level 56 in Fallout. Pretty impressive. You like Power Rangers? I got a huge collection back at the crib. "
Exactly why I don't date anymore. In combination with many MANY different reasons, mainly philosophical and world-view related.
I don't have ANYTHING to offer to a girl. Girls don't like my interests, they don't even like my music. I go to a school where literally everybody is a musician, so the fact I make music isn't impressive to them. I'm not attractive. I dont want sex. I dont want kids or a family. There is literally nothing I could offer a girl that would make them like me. And I'm ok with that. Just took that realization to be ok with it.
Flirting lets a person know you're interested and like them on a high enough level to put in any effort. Flirting is shallow? First time I've heard that one. And surface level form of human interaction is a "Hi" followed by some other pointless crap like weather. Conversation lasts maybe a few minutes then both move along
Flirting is basically the most base interaction you could have. Its the equivalent of just saying "hi" or talking about the weather, only with a sexual purpose instead of just a friendly one.
I don't care about flirting. I don't care about childish word exercises to try and get somebody to take notice in me, or find me attractive. I want to jump right into serious and meaningful thought. Get to know somebody immediately. Not fucking dance around each other like "oh you have a great smile" and ogle one another from across the room. Its a waste of time for me.
That awkward moment when you're reading posts in a thread and you're laughing and then as you get farther along you realize its slowly turning into another MC Vs. relationships argument.
That awkward moment when you're reading posts in a thread and you're laughing and then as you get farther along you realize its slowly turning into another MC Vs. relationships argument.
You can flirt without even saying a word. But you wouldn't know that because you don't flirt and think it's shallow.
Most people don't even have serious and meaningful conversation with friends unless they've been friends for a good while. What makes you think someone would go for that right off the bat?
And I'm not one for small talk. If I don't have something to talk to somebody about, I usually don't talk to them for very long.
Why is it a surprise that I don't flirt, and don't see the "value" in it? There is not discernible point to flirting. Its childish initiation. Just go up, say, "we should date", and start getting to know eachother. Don't beat around the dick.
It's not a surprise you don't flirt. You don't fo much of anything. It's the way you view it which is interesting and dumb as shit. Also, you cannot just go up to someone and say, "we should date". It doesn't work like that and you'd either get laughed at, ignored, or recieve a sarcastic or rude response. The fact that you assume or expect (judging by what you said) they'd think, "ok, let's get to know each other now" is extremely delusional. Saying something like, "I think you're attractive and would like to get to know you better", would go over a lot smoother but your chances are still slim.
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MC the type of nigga to find his dream girl who somehow wants him and cut it off cause she used
Scratch that, too much of a simp to have the willpower to do so.
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I don't hate my life. I hate life in general.
I never partook in "dating". I've had two girlfriends. Each one just kinda became my girlfriend and that was that. I went to a school dance with the first girl (she asked me), and we became a couple after that. Second one, we went to a Beatles cover band show, week later she came over to my house to go swimming in my pool (she asked me to both, coincidentally), and we were a couple after that.
I never did the "dating" thing. I never will, I'm not that kind of person.
But no, I don't think flirting is important. I think its a shallow and surface level form of interaction with another human being.
Exactly why I don't date anymore. In combination with many MANY different reasons, mainly philosophical and world-view related.
I don't have ANYTHING to offer to a girl. Girls don't like my interests, they don't even like my music. I go to a school where literally everybody is a musician, so the fact I make music isn't impressive to them. I'm not attractive. I dont want sex. I dont want kids or a family. There is literally nothing I could offer a girl that would make them like me. And I'm ok with that. Just took that realization to be ok with it.
Flirting is basically the most base interaction you could have. Its the equivalent of just saying "hi" or talking about the weather, only with a sexual purpose instead of just a friendly one.
I don't care about flirting. I don't care about childish word exercises to try and get somebody to take notice in me, or find me attractive. I want to jump right into serious and meaningful thought. Get to know somebody immediately. Not fucking dance around each other like "oh you have a great smile" and ogle one another from across the room. Its a waste of time for me.
Most people don't even have serious and meaningful conversation with friends unless they've been friends for a good while. What makes you think someone would go for that right off the bat?
Why is it a surprise that I don't flirt, and don't see the "value" in it? There is not discernible point to flirting. Its childish initiation. Just go up, say, "we should date", and start getting to know eachother. Don't beat around the dick.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/flirt
And why am I discussing this?