WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I've had friends whose wife miscarried and they were fucked up over it. Perhaps it's one of those situations that you can't possibly relate unless it happens to you; however I feel right now that I wouldnt be that upset about that. I feel like I didnt really start developing feelings for my kids until they were born. Before that, it didnt really seem real to me. Like I see my wife getting bigger in the stomach, but it doesn't really make me start having feelings for it.
Never had a kid but seeing many who did I think I would feel for an unborn child. A life you created and a responsibility you accepted. I would feel like I failed even though its beyond your control. Can't even begin to imagine that kind of pain.
I've had friends whose wife miscarried and they were fucked up over it. Perhaps it's one of those situations that you can't possibly relate unless it happens to you; however I feel right now that I wouldnt be that upset about that. I feel like I didnt really start developing feelings for my kids until they were born. Before that, it didnt really seem real to me. Like I see my wife getting bigger in the stomach, but it doesn't really make me start having feelings for it.
She still had to give birth to the baby. If it didn't feel real up to then, I imagine that it would hit really hard at that point.
Until you have kids you cannot understand the feeling of complete love and devotion that you have for them. I love my daughter more than anything/anyone in the entire world. Yes kids are hard work and it's not easy raising them but the reward you get from kids far far outweighs the stress and sleepless nights. I wish I'd started earlier in life and had more kids
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seeing this chick now who has a kid, first time I've ever done that so we'll see how it goes
And that's not out of ignorance seeing how I had to care for a group of them 24 hours a day 5 days a week.
UNTIL.
You have a child.
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