I'm surprised you didn't just call me out from the start. So yeah, while I certainly disagree with what you're saying about Alex, I was mainly just trolling for a reaction from TQ but she's logged off now so I'm done. Damn thread died too soon.
Agreed. But I am saying Alex doesnt have it bad. Not because of comparison with my life or people I know... but because Alex mom calling his 20 something son a fuckhead isn't bad
HOW the fuck would you know if hes had it bad?!?!?! the dude just posted something in the grind my gears thread....whats the matter what it was about...dude was having a ruff day sometimes those happen...and sometimes no matter how small it is to you because of the way he was raised it bothers him, and just maybe he was having a bad day at the time so he came here like most of us do to get our frustrations out in a positive way....and rather then have your elitist attitude that you have, "oh iv been threw some shit, (, i know how it really is and what happened to alex was nothing" well maybe hes a different person then you, and maybe it really was something. Im starting to realize you are a narcissistic person...every time someone has something negative happen to them and you think its no big deal you compare it to something in your life like we give a fuck.
point is a lot of us have know alex for around 5 years....i consider a lot of these people almost like my own little family, and no matter what it is thats bothering someone we should be supportive rather then try and drag them down and belittle there problems
I was brought up by the grammar police who continually corrected me on the correct use of there/their and bought/brought and my friend and I etc when I was young. Now I'm OCD and a clean freak and anal. Although that could be my star sign I had it bad man (
The "I" represents everyone that isn't you. You've been through so much and you're so amazing that you feel that you can make expert opinions on anything said in here.
Alex makes a simple complaint about his mother being a delusional crazy woman and you basically start calling him a bitch. I get it, you went through a lot, I just don't care. But hey, you and Torture Queen have his life figured out so I guess I might as well take a back seat and let yall keep insulting everyone under the age of 30 for being "little shits".
hold up here. Alex made a comment. I made a comment saying his comment wasnt that big of a deal. It should have ended there, or alex could have come back and said "whatever man. I thought it sucked" and then it would have been it. No one would have ever noticed the comment....
Except what you are witnessing here is the fall out of Bianca telling me I am out of line for having an opinion on Alex's lame ass comment. I am entitled to my opinion just as you are entitled to yours. And she decides to turn her cunt dial to 11 and rabble off about how I dont know how bad alex has it for his mom calling him a fuckhead. boohoo to that. So I attempted to give her some perspective... That wasnt meant for you, or Alex (well maybe alex a little) or anyone else on this board. But as usual it fell on deaf ears because you guys know everything and there isnt anything you can learn from other people who have lived life longer. but whatever slipknot is the greatest metal band ever.
I'm surprised you didn't just call me out from the start. So yeah, while I certainly disagree with what you're saying about Alex, I was mainly just trolling for a reaction from TQ but she's logged off now so I'm done. Damn thread died too soon.
And I'm glad you think it's a small thing, Wake. I absolutely despise comparing scars, but this isn't by any means the first time something like this has happened. This was just a "wtf" moment for me, when there's been physical abuse in the past in my life. Nothing sexual at all, but a lot of physical violence. And if I didn't care for my little sisters to have their parents around (because who am I to take them from them?), I'd probably be in jail for attempted manslaughter.
I don't know about you, but I don't consider it cool when your parent tries to break their son's arm in front of his friends to prove their power.
The "I" represents everyone that isn't you. You've been through so much and you're so amazing that you feel that you can make expert opinions on anything said in here.
Alex makes a simple complaint about his mother being a delusional crazy woman and you basically start calling him a bitch. I get it, you went through a lot, I just don't care. But hey, you and Torture Queen have his life figured out so I guess I might as well take a back seat and let yall keep insulting everyone under the age of 30 for being "little shits".
hold up here. Alex made a comment. I made a comment saying his comment wasnt that big of a deal. It should have ended there, or alex could have come back and said "whatever man. I thought it sucked" and then it would have been it. No one would have ever noticed the comment....
Except what you are witnessing here is the fall out of Bianca telling me I am out of line for having an opinion on Alex's lame ass comment. I am entitled to my opinion just as you are entitled to yours.
why should it not have ended after she told you not to defend his mother? all she did was tell you not to defend his mom because you don't know anything about him/her...which is justified because she actually does know them
but instead you decided to rattle off this tl/dr paragraph about your own life
When I was 6 years old I accidentally broke something of my Mom's. She calmly asks me what my favorite toy is. As your typical 6 year old I was honest and told her it was my bag of marbles that I had just gotten that day. She told me to give them to her and I did... She then grabs my hand and marches me out to the back patio. She makes me sit down on the steps and watch as she proceeds to smash every single one of my marbles
When I was maybe 8 years old, I did something bad, and my mom sat me down and said "Do you know what my last name is? Christensen. C-H-R-S-T ensen. I wonder where I am going to go when I die? Now lets look at your last name ****** H-E-L-L *****. I wonder where you are going to go?".
When I was in second grade I made this wooden spoon holder for my mom. This is the type of thing you would set a spoon on when you are cooking so you dont get your counter dirty. I was so proud of it... I felt I did the best job painting it and I was so proud when I gave it to her for mothers day. The next day I had done something she didnt like and so she took that thing I made and gave me a spanking with it so hard that she broke it in half. she then grabbed the belt and finished beating me. I didnt care much about the physical abuse but the fact that she broke that spoon holder deeply hurt me.
Once my step dad (who was an alcoholic) asked me how my day at school was... I said good. He thought I said something different and started charging at me... I ran and he caught me in the driveway. He proceeded to bash my head repeatedly in the pavement until I passed out. I woke up hours later in my own blood where he left me. I thought he was going to kill me that day.
When I was 14 we were having thanksgiving dinner... my mom says to my brother "please pass me the potatoes" because they were between him and my step-dad. This greatly pissed off my step dad so he picked up his heavy ceramic plate and threw it as hard as he could breaking it across her head. Blood instantly sprayed the entire table and he calmly sat back down like nothing happen. I ran for the phone and my mom tackled me to the ground trying to rip the phone out of my hands screaming "IT WAS MY FAULT!! IT WAS MY FAULT". I finally gave up the phone because of all her blood all over my face and I ran upstairs and grabbed his rifle. I loaded it and ran down stairs..... My mom jumped in front of my and begged me to put it away. I told him to get the fuck out and never come back. And he did leave for a few days.
My parents didnt give me any money for college. In fact what they said was and I quote "You're 18, Get the fuck out now and dont ever come back. I dont care what gutter you live in" And I didnt hear from them for 4 years after that....
instead of letting it go.....like you said bianca should have....sorry didn't know everything was always someone else's fault...if there is one thing you do well its place blame on other people
point is a lot of us have know alex for around 5 years....i consider a lot of these people almost like my own little family, and no matter what it is thats bothering someone we should be supportive rather then try and drag them down and belittle there problems
That's bullshit Rex. How old are you? I have to say I am really surprised to hear you say this because you've always seemed to me to act like one of my friends. And my friends growing up were absolutely supportive of me when some serious shit went down.... But if I went to those friends over some trivial bullshit like my mom calling me a fuckhead they would literally laugh at me, call me a bitch, and tell me to buck up. And you know what? I fucking needed that and appreciate them doing that for me. Yeah there are times when shit happens and it's nice to have friends there to get support from, but a good friend isnt going to just give you sympathy when it shouldnt be had. A good friend is going to call it like they see it and tell their friend to stop being a baby over trivial shit.
You are nothing like what I thought you were for the last couple years. totally weird. I just have a hard time picturing you giving your friend a hug when they came and told you that their mom called them a name. You just seem like the type to say "lol. grow a pair man" type.
And I'm glad you think it's a small thing, Wake. I absolutely despise comparing scars, but this isn't by any means the first time something like this has happened. This was just a "wtf" moment for me, when there's been physical abuse in the past in my life. Nothing sexual at all, but a lot of physical violence. And if I didn't care for my little sisters to have their parents around (because who am I to take them from them?), I'd probably be in jail for attempted manslaughter.
I don't know about you, but I don't consider it cool when your parent tries to break their son's arm in front of his friends to prove their power.
Thanks.
I dont want to compare scars nor was I ever saying you didnt have negative shit happen to you in the past. I only said that I didnt think this one instance wasnt that bad, but you just said that as well....
Why don't you just end your relationship with them? I've said it multiple times and I just dont get it. You're a grown ass man. If shit is bad then why carry on a false pretense with them that it isnt?
Wake, there's a misunderstanding here that you haven't caught on to. The way you're perceiving it is Alex saying his mom calling him a fuckhead is the worst thing that's happened and he's making a huge deal of it. That isn't the case. He's just complaining that his mom was quick to become an irrational bitch when he asked a simple question. He isn't asking us for sympathy, just making a small comment/complaint.
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HOW the fuck would you know if hes had it bad?!?!?! the dude just posted something in the grind my gears thread....whats the matter what it was about...dude was having a ruff day sometimes those happen...and sometimes no matter how small it is to you because of the way he was raised it bothers him, and just maybe he was having a bad day at the time so he came here like most of us do to get our frustrations out in a positive way....and rather then have your elitist attitude that you have, "oh iv been threw some shit,
point is a lot of us have know alex for around 5 years....i consider a lot of these people almost like my own little family, and no matter what it is thats bothering someone we should be supportive rather then try and drag them down and belittle there problems
Now I'm OCD and a clean freak and anal.
Although that could be my star sign
I had it bad man
Except what you are witnessing here is the fall out of Bianca telling me I am out of line for having an opinion on Alex's lame ass comment. I am entitled to my opinion just as you are entitled to yours. And she decides to turn her cunt dial to 11 and rabble off about how I dont know how bad alex has it for his mom calling him a fuckhead. boohoo to that. So I attempted to give her some perspective... That wasnt meant for you, or Alex (well maybe alex a little) or anyone else on this board. But as usual it fell on deaf ears because you guys know everything and there isnt anything you can learn from other people who have lived life longer. but whatever slipknot is the greatest metal band ever.
>get on fifteen minutes ago
>five new pages about me
>oh.
Take your 5 pages and shove em where the sun don't shine
I don't know about you, but I don't consider it cool when your parent tries to break their son's arm in front of his friends to prove their power.
Thanks.
why should it not have ended after she told you not to defend his mother? all she did was tell you not to defend his mom because you don't know anything about him/her...which is justified because she actually does know them
but instead you decided to rattle off this tl/dr paragraph about your own life
instead of letting it go.....like you said bianca should have....sorry didn't know everything was always someone else's fault...if there is one thing you do well its place blame on other people
You are nothing like what I thought you were for the last couple years. totally weird. I just have a hard time picturing you giving your friend a hug when they came and told you that their mom called them a name. You just seem like the type to say "lol. grow a pair man" type.
Why don't you just end your relationship with them? I've said it multiple times and I just dont get it. You're a grown ass man. If shit is bad then why carry on a false pretense with them that it isnt?