you obviously lack in the comprehension department, i made no reference to my children nor did i at any point in time say i didn't want to up hold my parental obligations, i also never made a reference to my parents. i work my ass off every day to support my children and give them everything that i possibly can. they know this, we work together as a family to make things better. i'm stating that the young people of society think things should be handed to them on a fucking silver platter and that shit is owed to them... life doesnt owe you shit and you have to work for what you have...
Oh so it's a generational difference? That's great that you were such an awesome child and all kids today are just selfish little shits.
Damn you sure are getting worked up over a simple post in the "GRINDS MY GEARS" thread. I didn't know that making a simple complaint about your parents on a forum means that an entire generation has gone to shit and that Alex is a whiney little bitch and complains about everything. I'm glad you have his life figured out so well.
Also, I don't care how great you think you treat your kids, it's expected of you to act that way so quit trying to prove to us once again how awesome you are and how much everyone else sucks.
One last thing, if my friend's parents were to throw them into a wall and beat them because the dishes weren't done, I'd call the god damn police because that shit shouldn't be tolerated. God forbid this generation actually stands up for themselves...
Alex doesn't strike me as one who fits into the "little shits" category. I'll agree that there are several kids that might, but guess who gets to take a large portion of the blame for that? THE PARENTS.
if not, he could have fooled me by crying about such a trivial thing.
You're right though. I do think the parents have a share of the blame for a lot of the current state of mind of these little shits. In fact I've said multiple times that Bianca's parents should be ashamed of themselves for allowing her to grow up with no concept of reality. But that doesnt excuse the 'little shits' themselves for not rising above their parents shortcomings.
I went through some difficult shit as a kid... and when it was finally over the weight of what I was carrying came crashing down on me. And I went to counseling to help me work though the shit that was running around in my head. Granted this was a University councilor but at our first meeting she says to me "wow. I can't believe you lived though that and are currently putting yourself in college. This type of abuse usually results in a person being homeless on the street... How did you do that?"
And i said to her - What other options did I have? I could either feel sorry for myself and the shitty cards life dealt me; or I could put it behind and rise above it because I knew I was better then that.
Shit happens to everyone. Im not saying my shit is worse then anyone elses.... But Alex strikes me as the type who would like to dwell on that and look for others sympathies to make him feel better about his life not working out like he wants it to. Maybe im wrong. Or maybe he will read what I said and think to himself "you know... wakes right. that wasnt that big of a deal. Im better then my parents and it's time I start finding my own way without them".
Wake you're such an inspiration to us all. I'm such a horrible person but thankfully you're here to guide us to the path to success that only you can lead us too. Let us all bow before your presence ^:)^
You're complaining that kids expect everything on a silver platter when the thing that alex wants should be given by default as for the sides to the story, I was there and saw it first hand there's no doubt to what alex says
Then he should GET THE FUCK OUT. if his life with his parents is that toxic and it's all bad then he should never say another word to them. Why not? They arent paying for his school. They arent doing anything good for him other then all this negative shit... so he should cut off his life from them. What is so difficult to comprehend about that?
you know why he doesnt? Because he knows he is getting a lot from them. and he knows he doesnt want to do it without them yet. Because it's much better to get all the benefit from them, but then cry to your friends about how awful they are... He gets all the positive from his parents and all the sympathy from his friends.
Alex's complaint didn't strike my as a "woe is me" type deal. He was jus making a complaint that his mom was putting him down. It doesn't matter that you or someone you know had it worse than Alex or somebody else, just because you had it worse doesn't mean they don't have it bad.
Wake you're such an inspiration to us all. I'm such a horrible person but thankfully you're here to guide us to the path to success that only you can lead us too. Let us all bow before your presence ^:)^
Hail Wake!!!
where did I call you a horrible person? If fact I believe what I said about you is that you were a very intelligent person that usually defaults to intelligent discussion as opposed to name calling. Was I wrong?
The only person here is i actually believe is a horrible person is Bianca. Sure it might not seem like it because we havent been at each others throat for the last two months.. but that isnt because I changed my opinion of her but just because she has said less to be critical about over the last few months. Bianca is the epitome the the paris hilton syndrome. Everything handed to her with a silver spoon and she thinks the worlds owes it to her. I wish reality would hit her sometime but likely her parents will always be there to support her and tell her she is never wrong... and when they do die they will leave her a fortune so she wont have to worry about that.... Would be nice if she had a dose of reality doe.
But Slap, didn't you know? Wake had it rough! Back in his day, it was a 10 mile walk each way to school. In a blizzard too! And once you got there the teacher punched you in the face!
Alex's complaint didn't strike my as a "woe is me" type deal. He was jus making a complaint that his mom was putting him down. It doesn't matter that you or someone you know had it worse than Alex or somebody else, just because you had it worse doesn't mean they don't have it bad.
Agreed. But I am saying Alex doesnt have it bad. Not because of comparison with my life or people I know... but because Alex mom calling his 20 something son a fuckhead isn't bad. I dont know her side of the story but name calling doesnt get any sympathy from me. If she had said to him "You know you little shit. I curse god every day that I didnt abort you. I fucking hate you". Then he has something. Then I'd be like "Man that's fucked up Alex. Sorry to hear it". but fuckhead? get out of here.
This whole discussion is retarded. Its like saying your upset because you broke your side mirror on your car, and someone else is like "quit bitching, I got into a 7 car pileup"
Yeah, the 2nd one is worse, but it still fucking sucks that you broke your side mirror.
Wake you're such an inspiration to us all. I'm such a horrible person but thankfully you're here to guide us to the path to success that only you can lead us too. Let us all bow before your presence ^:)^
Hail Wake!!!
where did I call you a horrible person? If fact I believe what I said about you is that you were a very intelligent person that usually defaults to intelligent discussion as opposed to name calling. Was I wrong?
The only person here is i actually believe is a horrible person is Bianca. Sure it might not seem like it because we havent been at each others throat for the last two months.. but that isnt because I changed my opinion of her but just because she has said less to be critical about over the last few months. Bianca is the epitome the the paris hilton syndrome. Everything handed to her with a silver spoon and she thinks the worlds owes it to her. I wish reality would hit her sometime but likely her parents will always be there to support her and tell her she is never wrong... and when they do die they will leave her a fortune so she wont have to worry about that.... Would be nice if she had a dose of reality doe.
The "I" represents everyone that isn't you. You've been through so much and you're so amazing that you feel that you can make expert opinions on anything said in here.
Alex makes a simple complaint about his mother being a delusional crazy woman and you basically start calling him a bitch. I get it, you went through a lot, I just don't care. But hey, you and Torture Queen have his life figured out so I guess I might as well take a back seat and let yall keep insulting everyone under the age of 30 for being "little shits".
This whole discussion is retarded. Its like saying your upset because you broke your side mirror on your car, and someone else is like "quit bitching, I got into a 7 car pileup"
Yeah, the 2nd one is worse, but it still fucking sucks that you broke your side mirror.
You know, it's fucking funny. Everyone is all "WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ALEX'S SITUATION WIT HIS PARENTS AND CALL HIM AN ATTENTION WHORE.", blah blah blah, but that's all you fucking retarded ass hypocrites did/do whenever my Dad was/is brought up, which usually isn't even by me. It's always "WAHHHH your Dad was an alcoholic and abused you, WAHHHH you had it so rough WAHHHH cry me a river WAHHHH. " and that I was an "attention whore", even doe, as I said, I wasn't even the one bringing him up half the time.
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Damn you sure are getting worked up over a simple post in the "GRINDS MY GEARS" thread. I didn't know that making a simple complaint about your parents on a forum means that an entire generation has gone to shit and that Alex is a whiney little bitch and complains about everything. I'm glad you have his life figured out so well.
Also, I don't care how great you think you treat your kids, it's expected of you to act that way so quit trying to prove to us once again how awesome you are and how much everyone else sucks.
One last thing, if my friend's parents were to throw them into a wall and beat them because the dishes weren't done, I'd call the god damn police because that shit shouldn't be tolerated. God forbid this generation actually stands up for themselves...
You're right though. I do think the parents have a share of the blame for a lot of the current state of mind of these little shits. In fact I've said multiple times that Bianca's parents should be ashamed of themselves for allowing her to grow up with no concept of reality. But that doesnt excuse the 'little shits' themselves for not rising above their parents shortcomings.
I went through some difficult shit as a kid... and when it was finally over the weight of what I was carrying came crashing down on me. And I went to counseling to help me work though the shit that was running around in my head. Granted this was a University councilor but at our first meeting she says to me "wow. I can't believe you lived though that and are currently putting yourself in college. This type of abuse usually results in a person being homeless on the street... How did you do that?"
And i said to her - What other options did I have? I could either feel sorry for myself and the shitty cards life dealt me; or I could put it behind and rise above it because I knew I was better then that.
Shit happens to everyone. Im not saying my shit is worse then anyone elses.... But Alex strikes me as the type who would like to dwell on that and look for others sympathies to make him feel better about his life not working out like he wants it to. Maybe im wrong. Or maybe he will read what I said and think to himself "you know... wakes right. that wasnt that big of a deal. Im better then my parents and it's time I start finding my own way without them".
Hail Wake!!!
you know why he doesnt? Because he knows he is getting a lot from them. and he knows he doesnt want to do it without them yet. Because it's much better to get all the benefit from them, but then cry to your friends about how awful they are... He gets all the positive from his parents and all the sympathy from his friends.
The only person here is i actually believe is a horrible person is Bianca. Sure it might not seem like it because we havent been at each others throat for the last two months.. but that isnt because I changed my opinion of her but just because she has said less to be critical about over the last few months. Bianca is the epitome the the paris hilton syndrome. Everything handed to her with a silver spoon and she thinks the worlds owes it to her. I wish reality would hit her sometime but likely her parents will always be there to support her and tell her she is never wrong... and when they do die they will leave her a fortune so she wont have to worry about that.... Would be nice if she had a dose of reality doe.
Yeah, the 2nd one is worse, but it still fucking sucks that you broke your side mirror.
I mean I remember one time, I stepped on a Lego block. Shit hurt man...
Alex makes a simple complaint about his mother being a delusional crazy woman and you basically start calling him a bitch. I get it, you went through a lot, I just don't care. But hey, you and Torture Queen have his life figured out so I guess I might as well take a back seat and let yall keep insulting everyone under the age of 30 for being "little shits".
You retards fucking disgust me.