yeah i'm not really into talking about it. he's got issues....big ones.
Well know this... they say life is short, but it’s incredibly long when you’re trapped in a loveless unhappy marriage. And if you think you’re doing your kid any service by staying then I’d suggest it’s much healthier for your child to see both of you “happy and apart” than “unhappy and together”. And let me just add that maybe his (and your) issues are fixable, but don’t put it on the back burner. Talk about it, and get it figured out. You deserve to be happy so don’t sacrifice that long term.
I was very unhappily married for 12 very long years, and I stuck with it way longer than I should have. It took my ex cheating and asking for a divorce to move on from that awful relationship. I’m quite honestly happier than I’ve ever been in probably my whole life.
yeah i'm not really into talking about it. he's got issues....big ones.
Well know this... they say life is short, but it’s incredibly long when you’re trapped in a loveless unhappy marriage. And if you think you’re doing your kid any service by staying then I’d suggest it’s much healthier for your child to see both of you “happy and apart” than “unhappy and together”. And let me just add that maybe his (and your) issues are fixable, but don’t put it on the back burner. Talk about it, and get it figured out. You deserve to be happy so don’t sacrifice that long term.
I was very unhappily married for 12 very long years, and I stuck with it way longer than I should have. It took my ex cheating and asking for a divorce to move on from that awful relationship. I’m quite honestly happier than I’ve ever been in probably my whole life.
it's hard, and we are working on it....slowly. he needs a lot of help, and what kind of person would i be if i left him when he needs someone the most?
it's hard, and we are working on it....slowly. he needs a lot of help, and what kind of person would i be if i left him when he needs someone the most?
Someone who realizes they deserve to be happy too :-?
but seriously I see no problem with sticking with someone as you guys work through issues, especially when there is the appearance of progress.
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I was very unhappily married for 12 very long years, and I stuck with it way longer than I should have. It took my ex cheating and asking for a divorce to move on from that awful relationship. I’m quite honestly happier than I’ve ever been in probably my whole life.
but seriously I see no problem with sticking with someone as you guys work through issues, especially when there is the appearance of progress.